Enforcing Obedience: How to Set Rules and Consequences for Your Submissive

In any D/s relationship, rules and structure are crucial to maintaining a dynamic where both the Dominant and the submissive understand their roles clearly. Rules provide the framework for behavior, ensuring that your submissive knows what is expected of them and what will happen if they fail to comply. As a Dominant, it is your responsibility to set these rules with clarity and consistency, and to enforce them in a way that strengthens the bond of power exchange. This guide will cover how to establish effective rules for your submissive and how to enforce them with appropriate consequences, creating a healthy and disciplined relationship dynamic. Why Setting Rules is Essential in D/s Relationships Rules in a D/s dynamic serve several important purposes: [...]

Husband Spankings – BDSM Husband Spanking Guidelines

The 3 Pillars Of Our Free Training Program.Male chastity training – 12 steps/weeks to permanent male chastity Spanking Your Husband - Why, What, Where, How much? Lighthearted Spankings: A Playful Approach Lighthearted husband spankings are meant to be fun, playful, and often serve as a reminder rather than a serious punishment. These spankings are typically short, with a lighter intensity, and may be used to reinforce submission in a more positive, affectionate way. They can also serve to establish or maintain the power dynamic in a loving relationship without pushing physical or emotional boundaries. How to Deliver Lighthearted Husband Spankings Set the Tone: Lighthearted spankings should come with a playful or teasing demeanor. A soft laugh, a smile, or even a flirtatious [...]

Femdom Discipline – 5 Categories of Femdom Discipline & Punishsment Ideas

Femdom Discipline - 5 Categories of Punishments & Ideas. There are 5 femdom discipline categories we are going to show you today, and then we will give you ideas within each one of the categories to maintain, train, and condition your male submissive to be your obedient sub. 1. Corporal Punishment: This category includes spanking, paddling, caning, and whipping as methods of discipline. These physical forms of punishment can be effective in reinforcing the dominant-submissive dynamic and teaching the sub to obey and respect their Mistress. 2. Chastity Training: Chastity devices can be used to control the sub's sexual urges and behavior. This form of discipline can be used to enforce obedience and subservience, while also building anticipation and sexual tension for [...]

Spanking men – Spanking your male submissive

In the world of femdom, spanking is a common form of punishment, discipline, or erotic play used to assert dominance over a male submissive. There are several different types of spankings that can be administered, each with its own purpose and intensity. Here are the different ways for spanking men 1. Hand Spanking: Hand spanking is the most common form of spanking men in femdom play. It involves using the dominant's hand to deliver a series of slaps to the sub's buttocks. Hand spanking  your man can range from gentle taps to more forceful blows, depending on the desired level of intensity. 2. Paddle Spanking: Paddle spanking involves using a paddle or a similar implement to deliver harder and more intense blows to [...]

30 ways for the woman to take charge in her relationship

1. Experiment with different roles in the bedroom and take charge of your partner's pleasure. 2. Engage in role-playing scenarios where you are the dominant partner. 3. Introduce the idea of using a strapon during sex to take on a more dominant role. 4. Communicate openly with your partner about your desires and fantasies. 5. Take the lead in initiating sex and setting the tone for the evening. 6. Use dirty talk and commanding language to assert your dominance. 7. Explore BDSM practices such as bondage and discipline. 8. Attend workshops or classes on dominant/submissive dynamics to learn more about power play in the bedroom. 9. Invest in sexy lingerie and accessories that make you feel empowered. 10. Practice assertiveness and confidence in [...]

75 reasons women should spank their men.

1. It can enhance trust and communication in the relationship. 2. It can help to establish boundaries and expectations. 3. It can add excitement and variety to the relationship. 4. It can create a sense of intimacy and bonding. 5. It can help release pent-up emotions and frustrations. 6. It can be a form of stress relief. 7. It can provide a sense of release and catharsis. 8. It can help with conflict resolution. 9. It can reinforce positive behavior. 10. It can address negative behavior. 11. It can be a form of playful interaction. 12. It can be a way to spice things up in the bedroom. 13. It can be a way to explore new things together. 14. It can help [...]

How to spank your man properly

Female-Led Spanking: The Art of Consensual Discipline In the world of BDSM, female-led relationships and female dominance have become increasingly popular as more individuals explore power dynamics and kink. One common aspect of this dynamic is spanking, where a woman takes on the role of the dominant partner and administers physical discipline to a willing male submissive. While some may view spanking as a form of abuse or violence, in the context of a consensual BDSM relationship, it is a mutually desired and agreed upon activity that can be both pleasurable and cathartic for both parties involved. For many men, being spanked by a strong, confident woman can be a highly arousing and fulfilling experience. Consent is key in any BDSM activity, [...]

Unleash the Power of Spanking and Pegging in Your Relationship

The key to spanking your man for dominance is to understand the power dynamic that you are creating. A woman taking control of her man's body through spanking can be incredibly empowering for both of you. This plan is designed to help you explore this dynamic and create a powerful experience for both of you. 1. Start by talking with your man about your desires and intentions. Make sure he is on board and comfortable with the idea, and that he understands the rules and safe words you have agreed on. 2. Choose a spanking instrument that you feel comfortable with. This can be anything from a hand to a paddle, and anything in between. Make sure you practice with the [...]

The Psychology Behind Women Spanking Men

The psychology of women spanking men is a complex and fascinating subject. It is not uncommon for couples to explore the idea of using spanking as part of their sexual relationship, and it can be an exciting and satisfying way to add an element of kink and BDSM to a relationship. Spanking is an intense form of physical stimulation that can produce a variety of psychological and physiological responses in both the person spanking and the person being spanked. For the woman spanking a man, it can be an empowering experience as she takes on the traditionally male role of being the dominant partner. It can also be a way to explore her own sexual desires and fantasies, as spanking can be a [...]

Spanking your sub – Instrument selection for pleasure or behaviour modification.

Spanking is a form of impact play that involves the act of striking another person's buttocks with an open hand or an implement, such as a paddle or a belt, for the purpose of sexual arousal or punishment. It is important to note that any form of physical intimacy should be consensual, meaning that it is willingly and eagerly agreed upon by all parties involved. There are a variety of instruments that can be used for spanking in a femdom (female domination) relationship, including: Hand: The most basic and common instrument for spanking is the open hand. This can be an effective way to introduce impact play and allows for a high level of control and sensitivity. However, it is important to be [...]

By |2022-12-16T11:04:56-08:00December 16th, 2022|Categories: atonement, BDSM, Bondage, Discipline, Dommes, Spanking|6 Comments