About Lara M

Head trainer at femdomtraining.ca My goal is to enlighten men and women on the benefits of a female led relationship, and to teach specific methods on how to become a more dominant woman, and a more submissive man. My hypnosis files are powerful and will accomplish this. Try them out. We offer a 100% satisfaction guarantee on all of them.

The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for Women

The Art of Tease and Denial: A Beginner’s Guide to Controlling His ReleaseFemdom Roleplay Ideas for Every Kind of DommeFemdom Training: How to Create a Daily Ritual for Your Submissive The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for Women. Verbal humiliation is a potent tool in a Femdom relationship, allowing a Dominant woman to assert control, reinforce her power, and push her submissive into deeper states of vulnerability and devotion. For the submissive man, being verbally humbled by his Dominant can heighten feelings of submission, arousal, and a sense of purpose. However, wielding this power effectively requires balance, care, and understanding of both partners’ limits and desires. This guide explores the psychology behind verbal humiliation, provides tips for [...]

How to Get Your Submissive Male to Surrender to Your Authority on Licking Your Anus: A Guide for Dominant Women

Femdom Roleplay Ideas for Every Kind of DommeFemdom Training: How to Create a Daily Ritual for Your Submissive10 Tips for New Female Dominants: Getting Comfortable with Control 10 Tips for New Female Dominants: Getting Comfortable with Control10 Tips for New Female Dominants: Getting Comfortable with Control The dynamics of dominance and submission offer an exciting avenue for exploring trust, control, and pleasure in intimate relationships. For women who enjoy being in charge, one of the more intimate and pleasurable ways to assert authority is through the act of anal play, including getting your submissive male to perform oral sex on your anus. Whether you’re new to this or have experience with power play, here’s a comprehensive guide to [...]

How to Create a Feminization Training Program for Your Submissive

Why Sissification is the Ultimate Form of Submission How to Create a Feminization Training Program for Your Submissive Feminization is a powerful and intimate journey that can deepen the bond between a Dominant and their submissive. For many submissives, being feminized is about embracing vulnerability, surrendering control, and exploring a new aspect of themselves. For the Dominant, it’s an opportunity to guide, shape, and enforce a transformation that reinforces their dynamic. This guide will help you design a personalized feminization training program for your submissive, from initial wardrobe changes to instilling the right mindset for long-term success. Step 1: Understanding Feminization and Setting Goals Before diving into training, it’s essential to understand what feminization means to you and your [...]

Enforcing Obedience: How to Set Rules and Consequences for Your Submissive

In any D/s relationship, rules and structure are crucial to maintaining a dynamic where both the Dominant and the submissive understand their roles clearly. Rules provide the framework for behavior, ensuring that your submissive knows what is expected of them and what will happen if they fail to comply. As a Dominant, it is your responsibility to set these rules with clarity and consistency, and to enforce them in a way that strengthens the bond of power exchange. This guide will cover how to establish effective rules for your submissive and how to enforce them with appropriate consequences, creating a healthy and disciplined relationship dynamic. Why Setting Rules is Essential in D/s Relationships Rules in a D/s dynamic serve several important purposes: [...]

The Art of Tease and Denial: A Beginner’s Guide to Controlling His Release

“Why Every Woman Should Embrace Male Chastity Training: Unlocking Deeper Intimacy and Control”“37 Creative Cum Eating Training Techniques: How to Get Your Submissive to Eat His Own Cum”10 Tips for New Female Dominants: Getting Comfortable with Control Tease and denial is a powerful practice in femdom that allows you to take full control of your partner’s pleasure. By controlling his release, you not only intensify his anticipation but also strengthen the power dynamic in your relationship. The art of tease and denial is about skillfully balancing pleasure and restraint, pushing boundaries while keeping things exciting, rewarding, and playful. In this beginner’s guide, we’ll explore what tease and denial entails, why it’s so effective, and how you can incorporate it into your dynamic. [...]

Why Sissification is the Ultimate Form of Submission

Sissification, also known as feminization, is a practice within BDSM and power exchange relationships that involves dressing, behaving, or identifying as a more feminine version of oneself, often in a hyper-feminine or submissive role. For many, this journey into sissification is about more than just outward appearances; it’s a deep, personal act of submission that allows one to fully embrace vulnerability, release control, and surrender entirely to the authority of their dominant. This exploration of feminine identity taps into the ultimate act of surrender, as it reshapes the submissive's sense of self according to the desires of their dominant. In this longform post, we’ll explore why sissification is seen by many as the ultimate form of submission, delve into the psychology behind its [...]

Femdom Roleplay Ideas for Every Kind of Domme

Roleplay is a fantastic way to explore different facets of dominance, allowing each Domme to step into a unique character or scenario that excites both her and her submissive. From strict disciplinarians to nurturing Mommy Dommes, there are countless ways to enhance the power dynamic and keep things fresh and exciting. Roleplay allows for safe exploration of fantasies, pushing boundaries while keeping the relationship playful and engaging. Here are some creative femdom roleplay ideas tailored to suit different Domme styles, each designed to inspire you to dive deeper into your role and create memorable experiences. Femdom Roleplay Ideas for Every Kind of Domme 1. The Strict Disciplinarian Scenario: Your submissive has broken a rule, and you’re here to enforce strict discipline. Use this [...]

Femdom Training: How to Create a Daily Ritual for Your Submissive

1. Start with Intention: Define the Purpose of Your Rituals Before implementing any ritual, it’s essential to define the purpose. Are you aiming to enhance obedience, develop a sense of submission, build self-discipline, or strengthen your emotional connection? Defining the intention helps you select rituals that reflect your dominant style and needs, ensuring the rituals become meaningful, rather than repetitive. Example: If your goal is to remind your submissive of their role, a small daily act of submission—like greeting you respectfully in the morning—can start their day with focus and intention. 2. Choose Consistent Times for Rituals Consistency is key to establishing meaningful rituals. By setting specific times for each ritual, you create a routine that your submissive can depend on, adding a [...]

10 Tips for New Female Dominants: Getting Comfortable with Control

Stepping into a dominant role can be an incredibly empowering and transformative experience. If you're new to female domination, you might feel a mix of excitement and uncertainty about how to assert yourself, navigate boundaries, and explore power dynamics. Here are ten tips to help you find your footing and grow into your dominant persona with confidence and intention. 1. Understand Your "Why" Begin by understanding why you’re drawn to female domination. Reflect on what aspects of control excite you—whether it’s power exchange, nurturing authority, erotic dominance, or self-expression. Knowing your motivations will help you embrace the role in a way that feels true to yourself and gives you a solid foundation to grow from. 2. Start Small and Build Gradually There's [...]

How to cuckold your husband

Husband Spankings – BDSM Husband Spanking Guidelines22 Proven Methods to Guide Your Submissive Man Deeper into SubmissionThe Surprising Benefits of Male Chastiity: Game-Changer for Men’s Mental Focus and Productivity Cuckolding, or introducing consensual non-monogamy with a dynamic where a wife has relationships outside of her marriage, is a sensitive topic that requires mutual respect, trust, and communication. For couples interested in exploring this dynamic, it’s important to approach it thoughtfully, recognizing that it can have a significant emotional impact on both partners. Here’s a guide on how to approach this lifestyle responsibly, ensuring that it’s consensual, respectful, and mutually fulfilling. 1. Start with Open and Honest Communication Before introducing any new elements to your relationship, it’s essential to discuss your desires, boundaries, and [...]