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Head trainer at femdomtraining.ca My goal is to enlighten men and women on the benefits of a female led relationship, and to teach specific methods on how to become a more dominant woman, and a more submissive man. My hypnosis files are powerful and will accomplish this. Try them out. We offer a 100% satisfaction guarantee on all of them.

How to Train Your Submissive Male to Take Monster Dildo’s

In the world of femdom, monster dildo pegging is a powerful expression of dominance and submission—a physical and emotional exchange that flips traditional roles and deepens trust. For many submissive men, the idea of taking a larger toy, like a 3-inch diameter dildo, is both a thrilling fantasy and a daunting challenge. As a Domme, guiding your submissive through this journey can be incredibly rewarding, but it requires patience, preparation, and a focus on safety. This guide will walk you through how to train your submissive male to safely and comfortably take a a monster dildo 3-inch diameter when pegging him. Whether you’re new to pegging or looking to level up, these steps prioritize consent, gradual progression, and mutual enjoyment. Let’s dive [...]

Top 10 Femdom Fantasies Every Submissive Man Should Explore

For men drawn to the allure of female domination, the world of femdom offers a thrilling playground of power, trust, and intimacy. Submitting to a confident, assertive woman can unlock femdom fantasies you didn’t even know you had—and for many, it’s the femdom fantasies that fuel the journey. Whether you’re a seasoned submissive or just dipping your toes into this dynamic, exploring femdom fantasies can deepen your connection with your dominant partner and enhance your understanding of yourself. In this article, we’ll dive into the Top 10 Femdom Fantasies Every Submissive Man Should Explore. These ideas range from sensual to intense, all rooted in consent and communication—because in femdom, the real power lies in mutual respect. Ready to surrender? Let’s get started. 1.  [...]

Dressing the Part: How Wardrobe Choices Amplify Your Dominant Persona

In the world of femdom, power isn’t just an attitude—it’s a presence. And while confidence, communication, and intent form the bedrock of any dominant persona, there’s an often-overlooked tool that can elevate your authority to new heights: your wardrobe. What you wear doesn’t just reflect your dominance; it amplifies it, sending a clear, unspoken message to your submissive and setting the tone for every interaction. From the sharp click of a heel to the sleek sheen of leather, clothing is a language of its own—one that every femme domme can master to deepen her control and captivate her audience. This isn’t about conforming to stereotypes or spending a fortune on fetish gear (though that can be fun too). It’s about understanding how wardrobe [...]

Sunday Morning Teasing…

So it seems that 'Danni and Mike: The Anniversary' hasn't quite hit the mark like the previous four stories I posted to Literotica and it's currently sitting just under the 'HOT' threshold on 4.4 / 5. Still a jolly good score, but not quite there. It has risen about 0.3 over the last couple of days so it's heading in the right direction, and I guess I should be happy with that.I was planning to follow that up with 'Danni and Mike: Danni's Game', but instead I've been working on 'Recruiting a New Pet - Chapter 2' (with outlines for chapters 3, 4 and 5!) since what started as a pretty short, almost throwaway tale of Goddess Cora and her nervy young pet [...]

By |2025-03-16T05:23:46-07:00March 16th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

More Positive Discussions and a Punishment…

Last night was interesting and very positive. Mistress was rather tired (neither of us seem to be sleeping that well at the moment), and after she had a nice orgasm on my tongue I just wanted her to rest. But she insisted she wanted to tease me... and I was eventually persuaded. And I'm glad because it was bloody fantastic! But first Mistress decided to administer the punishment for my accidental ruin the other day. Now as you know I'm no pain slut... so don't expect me to take 50 swats with a paddle. But I want to be fair with Mistress as far as establishing what is a reasonable punishment for distinct events because I want them to be a deterrent too and after the [...]

By |2025-03-13T09:23:47-07:00March 13th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

It’s Only Words…

The other day I suggested that perhaps Literotica might return my story 'Tell Me the Truth' because of the ball-kicking content it contained; but I was wrong and they published it without any issue. However I noticed this morning that I had an email from 'Blogger' telling me that my post 'Tell Me the Truth' had been re-instated. Looking further down my inbox I discovered another email telling me my post had been put behind a sensitive content warning... so maybe it's Google I need to worry about now?Quite why they need to put individual posts behind 'Sensitive Content' warnings when the whole blog is behind a sensitive content warning I really don't know, but I'm glad they decided to put it back. [...]

By |2025-03-12T07:23:46-07:00March 12th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Wednesday Erotica – “I Want You to Fuck Me

Photo by Harry Tucker on Pexels.com I want you to fuck me. The text was straightforward enough, but he knew that this would not be a routine run of the mill fucking, Nothing about fucking this woman was routine or run of the mill. And that was how he liked it. Taboo and all kinds of naughty. How would you like me to fuck you? He had a million ideas about how he would fuck her, but they all ended the same way, his cock buried deep inside her, hands gripping her hips and the deep spasm of her pussy enveloping him. In the carpark, bent over the front of your ute. His cock was hard before he finished reading. Thoughts of her [...]

By |2025-03-12T00:23:47-07:00March 12th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Danni and Mike – The Anniversary Dinner (Written March 2025)

This story was originally written in 2023, but revised and finished in March 2025.Danni and Mike sat in the back of their taxi, holding hands as they rode through the warm summer night towards the home they’d shared for just over a year now. Tonight for their third wedding anniversary they’d revisited the scene of their very first date, a small upscale Italian restaurant in the middle of town. But the restaurant held more memories than simply the venue of their first date, it was also where Mike had asked Danni to marry him and also where he had officially asked her to take on the role of his ‘Mistress’. Not that this had come as a surprise to Danni, she was well aware [...]

By |2025-03-11T16:23:46-07:00March 11th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

HI, you beautiful kinksters.

Hi everyone! As some of you may know, we have a Gold Membership program on my website, offering exclusive content, discounts, and other perks to those who sign up. I am so exc However, I am always looking for ways to improve and enhance the value of the Gold Membership for my loyal readers. That's why I wanted to reach out to all of you and ask: what more would you like to see included in the Gold Membership program? I value your input and want to make sure that the Gold Membership is truly valuable and worthwhile for all of you. Whether it's exclusive access to certain content, additional discounts on products or services, or any other perks you can think [...]

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