About Lara M

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Garden Shadows #sinfulsunday

No, not the same hat as last week’s Sinful Sunday post … similar, but not the same … because I have a hat-fetish you see!!!But still a very hot summers afternoon … this time relaxing in our own garden just last summer! Will there be any more hat-fetishes being shared at this weekend’s Sinful Sunday? You can find out by tapping the sexy lips below! Xxx – K P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my content here was lost, or corrupted, at the beginning of 2022. We are slowly working on re-instating that lost content, and repairing the broken links, so please bear with us. I hope this won’t [...]

By |2025-03-09T01:46:00-08:00March 9th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

Simply The Most Frustrating but Incredible Teasing I Have Ever Had…

Yesterday was a very busy day all round, so I didn't really get time to attempt finishing up one of my stories until quite late in the evening. As you can see I posted 'Recruiting a New Pet' after midnight and I think I went to bed around 12:30am. Mistress said she wouldn't be long, but I imagined she'd probably be at least another hour, and so it transpired...Again, despite the late hour I didn't feel all that tired and so I turned to Literotica once more where I had been trying to get through a colossal story called 'The Games we Play' by Grizzley123. The story has 20 chapters, some of which have over 10,000 words, and the time and effort Grizzley [...]

By |2025-03-09T01:23:47-08:00March 9th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Recruiting a New Pet (Written March 2025)

 “Are you gonna be in tonight?” Maddy asked her flatmate as she came into the room.“Yeah, I’m not going anywhere,” replied Cora, not looking up from her phone. “Oh that’s great. Ray’s picking me up at 7 but my brother is supposed to be picking up this parcel for my Mum… he’s coming about 8, is that okay?”“Yeah, sure….” “Thanks, I’m just gonna jump in the shower and get ready… I’m so behind. ”Maddy and Cora had been flatmates for a little over two years, since they met at college. They got along pretty well, perhaps because they lived fairly separate lives and didn’t impose too much on each other’s space. Cora watched her friend close the bathroom door and then headed into her bedroom. This [...]

By |2025-03-08T17:23:46-08:00March 8th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Learning to Appreciate That Less Can be More…

It's funny, but it seems like when I really decide to put my mind to something, I can do things that I've failed to achieve time and time again before. Like dieting, for example. Last June I decided I was going to lose weight because I was knocking on the door of 19 Stone (266lbs) and fast approaching 55 years old. I figured time was running out to do something positive about this and so I set my mind to resolving this problem and here we are eight months later and I'm (almost) four stones (56lbs) lighter. Yes there's still a way to go, maybe another 1-2 stone, but I am the lightest I have been since I was in my 30s right [...]

By |2025-03-08T02:23:47-08:00March 8th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Nearly the Weekend Again…

Last night I decided to go to bed very early as I had been yawning all evening after two dismal nights this week already and really needed to get some proper sleep. But of course, by the time I had brushed my teeth and got into bed I wasn't really feeling that tired, so I decided to read a couple of stories on Literotica to help me relax. I headed to the 'Loving Wives' section and clicked on a story called 'I Saw Your Browsing History'. I think the reason I clicked on that one particularly is that it struck a chord with me since one of my 'in progress' stories is based on a similar (but crucially not the same, pretext). I mean [...]

By |2025-03-07T09:23:46-08:00March 7th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Modestly Pegged #boobday 383

My shell pasties from last week’s #boobday Friday post … did actually protect my sensitive bits!Whilst, as you can see, the rest can’t be said for the rest of my chest! But at least I can hang up my towel … for a little while at least!!! And please do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own warming #boobday photos here as one of my Boobday Friday postings for the future. Because, as I always say, “I simply love sharing … and … the more the merrier”!!! Because BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of [...]

By |2025-03-07T02:00:00-08:00March 7th, 2025|Categories: Dommes|0 Comments

How to Transform Your Masculine Husband into a Cuckold Bisexual Sissy

Step 1: Shifting His Mindset Towards Submission A masculine man often takes pride in control, dominance, and traditional gender roles. The first step is subtly challenging these beliefs while making submission feel exciting and rewarding. This stage requires psychological conditioning, reinforcement, and the careful introduction of new dynamics that make submission feel both natural and desirable. 1.1 Creating Curiosity and Challenging His Dominance Playfully Question His Authority: Use teasing and flirtation to challenge his sense of control. Say things like, "Are you really the one in charge, or do you just like to think so?" This encourages him to start questioning his automatic assumption of dominance. Present Submission as a Treat, Not a Punishment: Rather than framing submission as something forced upon him, [...]

From Vanilla to Femdom: How to Introduce Your Man to Submission

Many women fantasize about having a man who worships their every step, obeys their every command, and takes pleasure in their dominance. But what if your partner is more "vanilla" or hesitant about stepping into a submissive role? Introducing a man to submission requires finesse, patience, and a strategic approach to ensure both partners feel comfortable and excited about the journey. Understanding the Psychology of Submission Before diving into the "how," it’s essential to understand the mindset of a submissive man. Many men secretly crave submission but may struggle with societal conditioning that tells them they must always be dominant, assertive, and in control. Others may have never considered it but could be open to it if introduced in the right way. Your [...]

Tuesday Morning Musings…

Last night Mistress said something that made me feel really happy. While I had been out at work she had read the two posts I posted yesterday. She was very pleased with my review of our session, and she agreed that yes we do need to come up with some kind of punishment for me for any potential unauthorised touching or edging and not just rely on dealing with it in the session.She went on to say that even though I hadn't done anything wrong in the last four weeks she still didn't want to give up being able to whip and spank me in the session and therein lies the problem. Also, there's always been the issue that once I break the [...]

By |2025-03-04T06:23:46-08:00March 4th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Leaving It to Fate (Written March 2025)

Like most women, I guess, when my husband first brought up the idea of ‘chastity’ I was a little freaked out. I didn’t understand why he wanted to be teased and left frustrated and I really didn’t get the appeal of keeping his cock locked up. But after much talking and much reassurance on his part I eventually agreed to try it. At first it was weird, though I did kind of like having his key around my neck and it was fun to wear low cut tops so he could see it dangling between my heavy breasts.After a while I warmed to it and I loved how eager he was to please me. But of course being a good wife I was [...]

By |2025-03-04T00:23:46-08:00March 4th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments