Somewhat recently, I made some guest posts on chastity and chastity devices. Based on some of the comments to those posts I just wanted to state a few things regarding those posts and any further  posts that I might make including this one. There is no one size fits all when it comes to anything and that most definitely includes relationships and even more specifically kinky FLR ones. Everyone's flavor of kink is slightly or even largely different. Everyone's life experiences are different. Everyone’s reaction to various stimulus are a bit different. So what works for one couple may not work at all for another couple. We all are made up of unique mojo. So please when you read anything I might have [...]

I’m sure you have read about, or experienced punishment while either in a WLM,or reading about WLM. Being bent over a chair for the paddle, corner time, orbeing given the wife’s sister’s weeks worth of laundry to complete.If you have heard of the four levels of FLR’s we are at about a three.My wife’s first choice punishment was always the old standby…. corporal. Aproblem soon became apparent when I started looking forward to these times,and they became non-effective. This caused her to start looking for ideas that Imost certainly would NOT look forward to. To give proper credit, she gained oneof these ideas, and the concept of me NOT wanting it, from a blog written byMistress Scarlet of the UK. These incidents I [...]

 As promised, in this post I am sharing ideas on rewards and devotion activities for my husband, which are designed to strengthen his devotion to me. These are activities that he will enjoy, mainly because of the dominance aspect, but also because they will make me happy, which is what drives his devotion. The devotion aspect is new to me, but I’ve done research on devotion and have come up with some ideas based on the research. I researched both the meaning of devotion in general and how people have used devotion in a Wife Led Marriage or a Female Dominate relationship.  As you can imagine, most information on devotion related to religion and most of the Femdom devotion topics were fantasy and [...]

Now, that I am back writing again, I wanted to remind you of a few things:1. Readers can submit profiles of themselves.  See the profile template in the menus on the right side of the blog. This is a great way to let everyone know about yourself. You are welcome to answer all the questions or just some of the questions on the template. If you would like to update your profile, just resubmit a template and let me know that you want to replace the original one.2. You a free to submit a guest post to be published on the blog. This is a "Think Tank" blog so I welcome different topics and opinion posts. Please make sure they are thoughtfully written, [...]

It has been some time since I posted, hasn’t it? It’s been one of those moments in life for me, where everything hit at once between personal, family, and work. The dust has finally settled. I can breathe now. Phew! I am happy to be back to writing again. It’s no secret that in those busy moments, some things must give or be put on hold. This blog was one example, and another example was some of the regular rituals and routines that were in place in my WLM. It certainly tested Thomas’s submission and he faltered a bit. If anything, our experience over the last few months reinforced with me, that many of the things I’ve shared on my blog, such as [...]