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Fetishizing race

The Refinery29 site has a thought provoking article on the fetishizing of race – specifically in the case of Asian pro-dommes. It’s written by an Asian women who works in that field, and discusses her conflicted feelings about being able to command a premium price for a fetish she finds damaging. Anyone who has looked for a pro-domme in a major city will almost have certainly encountered this particular fetishization. Emphasizing physical desirability and attractiveness is a common part of a pro-domme website, and those descriptions can obviously span a huge range of body types and domme styles. However, in my experience there’s only one time race gets featured prominently, and that’s for Asian dommes. Typically I see three different approaches. Some Asian [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:26:36-07:00June 12th, 2016|Categories: Feet, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Four expressions

In a genre dominated by sexy bodies, fetishistic outfits and kinky activities, I find myself picking up on and blogging about facial expressions more frequently than almost anything else. Yesterday’s post was one recent instance, and today’s features another. With the internet providing an endless stream of bodies in an infinite variety of sexual configurations, I find facial expressions are the most common way I can connect with a shot. Without them the imagery becomes almost abstract. This example from Divine Bitches is a bit porn-y, but I do like to see people having fun. Or at least 75% of the people having fun. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:33-07:00March 14th, 2016|Categories: CBT, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Tie abuse

Despite the abuse of what looks like a very nice tie, I like this image. I know it is a posed fashion shot, but his expression captures an element of what makes a great scene. It’s that sense of abandonment and giving oneself to the moment. That point where everything goes slack and you just relax into the dynamic. I don’t believe that’s what’s actually happening here, but it still makes me want to play again. This was shot by the Polish Photographer Andrzej Tyszko. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:34-07:00March 14th, 2016|Categories: Fm, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Shibari Suspension

This lovely suspension scene is from woodenpunk, rigged by EbiMcKnotty and photographed by Bendy_Dude. It’s probably an odd thing to pick up on, but I also like the color of their rope. I’ve no idea where they sourced this particular one from, but for anyone interested in well made and nicely colored rope, I suggest checking out Twisted Monk. I’m a long way from a rope expert, but I know a lot of dommes use and like his product. I’ve certainly been tied up in plenty of it over the years. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:35-07:00March 13th, 2016|Categories: Bondage, Fm, Photograph, Suspension, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Normality

Anyone who thinks being kinky makes them special should probably think again. According to The Journal of Sex Research, interpreted via this article in Maxim magazine, almost 50% of adults have unconventional sexual desires. Which kind of raises the question: At what point does unconventional become conventional? If kinky people make it to 51% of the population do we have to start describing non-kinky people as the unconventional ones? Of course sometimes sexual desires can be complicated to pigeonhole in a simple classification system. Is this scene exhibitionism, public humiliation, shoe fetishism or simple D/s? Whatever it is, I think it puts the pair of them into the ‘unconventional’ half of the population. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:41-07:00March 11th, 2016|Categories: Outdoors, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Tabletop

A couple of weeks ago I featured a scene with someone’s head buried into a table. This hairy gentleman is in pretty much the reverse position to that, with just the head sticking out. It looks relatively comfortable for him but less so for her, which seems like the reverse of how it should be. I can’t imagine balancing like that on a hard wooden table would be all that conducive to orgasmic bliss. I’m afraid I have no idea who the original artist for this was. If you can help me attribute it then please leave a comment. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:43-07:00March 9th, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Bondage, Fm, Oral, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|1 Comment

Damned man

Researching the history of the artwork below led me on an interesting trail. It was originally from a 60’s pulp crime novel entitled ‘The Damnation of Adam Blessing‘. That was published under the name of Vin Packer, but was actually written by Marijane Meaker, who went on to write award winning adult fiction and be given the Trailblazer Award for groundbreaking work in lesbian fiction. She also at one pointed dated Patricia Highsmith. The title of the book went on to inspire the name of an acid rock band in the late 60’s. I’m always a sucker for crime novels from this era as well as the dramatic and lurid artwork they often feature. I may have to hunt this particular one down. [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:44-07:00March 7th, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Fm, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Service spanking

That’s enough posts about politicians. How about some vintage lesbian spanking to cleanse the palette? What grabs me about this image is the expression of the spankee. She seems particularly poised and satisfied. It almost looks like a case of the rare dominant bottom. She’s in charge and getting what she wants. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:49-07:00March 4th, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Discipline, Ff, Spanking, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

That’s Mistress Hillary to you

I couldn’t do posts on politics and photoshopped images without featuring this famous one of Hillary Clinton. It’s from Spy magazine in 1993. That was Bill’s first term, when Hillary was driving for a health care plan known (inevitably) as Hillarycare. These days this would be considered as the kind of amateur photoshop job that can pop up anywhere on the internet,, but back then it was fairly eye catching. I remember seeing it and feeling oddly aroused. This was from a time when I hadn’t fully figured my sexuality out. I wonder how many Senators and Congressmen – from both sides of the aisle – saw it and felt the same way? Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:50-07:00March 3rd, 2016|Categories: F, Humor, Mainstream, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Not so Super Tuesday

It’s hard to avoid politics in America right now. I suspect that might be true for most of 2016, which is a depressing thought. Despite the vast amount of idiocy on display, there is the odd amusing moment. John Oliver is always brilliant and his take on Trump was true to form. On a topic closer to this blog, I liked the dommes raising money for Bernie. Fifteen minues of spanking for $27 is pretty good value. Of course, when it comes to the political candidates, I’m sure many people would pay to administer the spanking. I’d certainly chip in a few bucks for Megyn to straighten Donald out. This is obviously a photoshop. I’m afraid I don’t know who created the original. [...]