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Elaborate arrangement

The bondage here isn’t elaborate, but the arrangement she has come up with certainly is. It looks like his head is held under the chair, and then there’s a pulley apparatus to connect her footrest to his testicles. I can’t say I’d want to give it a try myself, but I do admire the ingenuity. I don’t think I’ve ever seen this exact set-up before. This image was sent to me by a reader – thanks Marga! It’s on a bunch of tumblr’s (for example) but I’m afraid I couldn’t find an original attribution. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:27:51-07:00March 1st, 2016|Categories: Bondage, CBT, Fm, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|2 Comments

AVN Season (cont)

I’ve noted the lack of awards for kink, fetish and BDSM at AVN in the past. I think the last time, in 2013, there were only 3 vaguely relevant awards. This year, based on this list of winners, they’re now down to one. That’s the very generic ‘Best BDSM movie’. They don’t even break out separate awards for maledom and femdom. I doubt it’ll surprise anyone to learn that for the last three years that award has gone to a maledom movie. Breaking out every kinky niche into an award would probably be unmanageable, but I’d have thought top level awards for best male/female top/bottom would at least have been considered. It is after all a very challenging job. Regular porn stars will [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:31-07:00January 26th, 2016|Categories: Bondage, CBT, Fm, Photograph, Suspension, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

AVN Season

The annual AVN awards were announced this weekend in Las Vegas. They style themselves as the ‘Oscars for Porn’ and, having attended them myself many years ago, I can confirm they’re as boring and repetitive as the Oscars and other similar industry award evenings tend to be. This year they were held at the Hard Rock Hotel in Vegas, which decided it’d be a smart move to harass and expel transgender performers. That’s based on what Lorelei Lee reported on her twitter feed. So someone could get an award on stage one minute and get kicked out of the restroom the next. That’s both incredibly stupid and not at all surprising to me. For a supposed center of hedonism and debauchery, Vegas is [...]

By paltego|2018-03-07T08:57:30-08:00January 25th, 2016|Categories: Bondage, CBT, Chastity, Fm, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: chastity hypnosis, chastity play, female led marriage, femdom chastity, femdom chastity training, long term male chastity, male chaste hypnosis, male chastity, male chastity blog, male chastity cage, male chastity captions, male chastity guide, male chastity hypno, male chastity hypnosis, male chastity lifestyle, male chastity pictures, male chastity slave, male chastity stories, male chastity tease, male chastity training, small male chastity|0 Comments

Thinking happier thoughts

I think we’ve had enough posts on bad people and situations. Time to change tone with a happy image of two people having fun. That’s a great reaction to having your hair pulled. That’s from Club Pedestal, taken in May 2015. I found it via the Happy BDSM tumblr. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:34-07:00January 24th, 2016|Categories: Collar, Fm, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Worst submissive ever

After a post on a terrible domme, I feel like I should balance it up with something about a terrible submissive. Sadly, that’s not a difficult thing to do. If you read any lifestyle domme’s blog there are inevitably multiple articles on dealing with crazy letters from obnoxious guys. Similarly, most blogs featuring professional domination have plenty of posts on assholes and weirdness. So the problem here isn’t finding an article to feature, it’s finding what I think is the right one. What I’ve decided to go with is one from Mistress Matisse’s (sadly dormant) blog. In it she writes about Mr. Defensive – the kind of guy who can’t make peace with his desires and sexuality. He’s conflicted about kink and it [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:36-07:00January 22nd, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Fm, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Worst domme ever

After yesterday’s terrible boss post, today we have this story of a terrible domme. What started as some kinky bondage fun turned into a less fun game of hide from the crazy stalker lady. Bad breakups and nutty ex’s are always a bad scene. I imagine it gets a hell of a lot worse when they have photographs of you cross-dressing, tied to up and surrounded by sex toys. Particularly when they send them to your friends, family and work colleagues. It’s not an amusing story, despite the tabloid attempts to stick in puns about restraining orders. However, I had to smile and marvel at the ladies logic. Apparently, after indulging in all manner of kinky play with him, she then felt it [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:36-07:00January 20th, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Fm, Mainstream, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Worst boss ever

Forced feminization is always a fairly controversial topic. Some people find the idea insulting to women and refuse to do scenes involving it. Sue Stenhouse, an ex-city official from Rhode Island, is clearly not one of these people. She thought it’d be a great idea to make a male bus driver dress up as an elderly lady and sit behind her at a press conference. As stories go, it’s a pretty spectacular one. I particularly like the part where the bus driver had to drop by the local beauty salon in order to borrow a wig. If Sue had asked around, I’m sure she could have found plenty of guys willing to give it a shot and with a full collection of outfits [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:38-07:00January 18th, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Cross Dressing, Mainstream, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

International Fetish Day

Apparently International Fetish Day is a thing and I just missed it. It’s the third Friday of the year, which seems a rather silly scheduling decision, as there’s no memorable date. Are they trying to overlap it was workplace casual Friday’s? Maybe forget the jeans and t-shirt and turn up in your gimpsuit? Fashion and horological issues aside, there’s a good article on it at The Debrief. It talks about kink, fetish and queerness in a very open and approachable manner. It’s the kind of mainstream article that can help demystify kink and encourage discussion. Personally, I’m more of a masochist and power exchange kinkster than a fetishist. That said, if I was going to pick out a few specific things that push [...]

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:39-07:00January 16th, 2016|Categories: Boots, Face Sitting, Fm, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

Butter wouldn’t melt in her mouth

My parents and grandparents were the source of all sorts of odd expressions. One I always liked was that ‘she looked liked butter wouldn’t melt in her mouth.’ It referred to someone who was pretending to be very sweet, innocent and blameless when the reality was very much the opposite. It seems appropriate for this particular image. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By paltego|2017-04-21T14:28:41-07:00January 15th, 2016|Categories: Artwork, Bondage, Fm, Gag, Uncategorized|Tags: female led marriage|0 Comments

High heel worship

This story about a planned church in the shape of an enormous high heeled shoe seems tailor made for a blog like this one. There’s even a video of it available (which I assume is a computer render). Assuming it’s not a hoax or elaborate publicity stunt (which seems likely), the ‘idea’ is to attract more women to church. Apparently buildings in the shape of objects people lust after is supposed to encourage them to visit. If it works then I assume the US will quickly be overrun by churches in the shape of burgers, monster trucks and Kim Kardashian’s butt. Doubtless the vast majority of women will tell the church to get stuffed and take its patronizing attitude somewhere else. However, they [...]