Talent
A talented tongue shouldn't have problems with this, you can always pull them aside, if he does well enough to makeup for the mis-deed
Sub in waiting
Make him assume the position and watch while you get ready for him. Men are visual, so this is so arousing, right?
Executive
When he has truly done wrong, remember... You are the executive. He is merely the submissive.
Light whipping
You don't have to cause harm at all... Sometimes a light whipping will That leaves no marks will be good for both of you. Let out the frustration of the day, and let him know how much worse this would have been with the real whip
Wow
Wow... This setup gives him quite the view! Not sure I'd be comfortable sleeping under a cage, though
Enjoyment
Let him see how much it pleases you to peg him. That should give him great satisfaction
Be the gentleman
It is the duty of a gentleman to open doors for women.
Dainty control
I love the daintiness of the lingerie combined with the dominant tone
Bottom
Sometimes let him ride on top, to control his own pegging
Slap
Get a few ass slaps in while it is exposed to you