Enforcement
Does out seem corny to have a slutty policewoman outfit. The uniform still demands respect, and you can use it to help role play being more rough on him.
Simple basics
Sometimes the simplest little things are a great tease. Banana, sausage, lollipop, etc...
Use every second
When your room is on the upper level, use every moment to Let him Pleasure you
Forced porn?
Will making him watch porn make him think of other women? Does It matter as long as you hold the only keys to his cock cage? Make him ultra frustrated, and let him release by pleasuring you
Think
Pleasure will help your mistress think, but doesn't guarantee anything
Secret?
It's good to know he is in a cage. Better to know the cage is in panties to strengthen his thoughts of you throughout his day. Even better to use that to humiliate him even more by making things reality visible or known
Start with the bra
If you choose to sissify him, panties are easy. After a while, that might be too easy for him. Start with a bra, to mix things up.
Wear the key
Anklet is nice, but a necklace, earings, or bracelet is more prominent. Go with whatever draws the most attention.
Good start
Once locked up, this is a reasonable way to kick things off
Improvement
Let him know when he is improving his reward to,service you more,should be plenty of incentive for him to continue improving. Punishment for not improving should be much worse