I'm a fan of publicly wearing the key to his cock cage. So what if some assume it's a cock cage... You may allow that perception, or soften it with a "he gave me the key to his heart". It's fun to let him answer what the key is, and watch him turn a shade more red, while probably deferring to the key to his heart answer.
Ladies... If you are considering chastity, consider no more... Just start now. Men... If you are intrigued, but on the fence on chastity... Just plunge in. It will transform your relationship
You should have one outfit that needs no words... Where he is trained that upon first setting eyes on you wearing it, he must strip immediately, get down on all fours and await command.
Make sure you get a strapon bigger than him, and remind him of that often. Put it right against his hard cock, so there is no denying It. It helps humiliate him and keep him in his proper place.
You own the key... You make the rules, and control his release. If you set a release date for him, occasionally use that release date to make him BEG you you extend his chastity sentence. He may not want to at first, but smother him with love, and tell him you will make it worth his while. He will be putty and so much more your submissive! This will get easier after time, and makes his release so much more precious!
Just wanted to give a shout out to Lara M. She has added a plethora of content, and expertise, that keeps making this site an awesome resource to train on female led relationships. Wow! Welcome, and keep up the good work!
Once you start down the road to a female led relationship, you will find him spellbound, and drawn deeper and deeper under your control. You do have to continue pushing the boundaries, at times, to make sure he continues growing more submissive, and understands your absolute rule
Want to blow his mind... Even without blowing his load? Secure him to a chair (more secure than this photo.) Then, unlock his cage, strip, and give him the most sensual views. Tease him mercilously to the edge! Again and again. Make him pleasure you, while you merely tease him. Then lick him, ice him down, and lock him up. Tell him no whining about no release. He will still absolutely love these sessions, and it reinforces a true FLR
At first, I thought forcing him into bras might be to sissifying, but it makes an awesome punishment if he messes up. Force him to put a bra on and sleep in it [in chastity, of course]. In case he might actually enjoy that... Threaten to make him sunbathe in it. That would be a hard tan line to explain away in the gym lockeroom!
Two things you should try. Talk to him while you are topless. Make him look into your eyes. It is amazing how hard this can be for him. Punish him for looking at your breasts. He needs to focus on you first, not his desires. Second, make him repeat what he is or is not to do (cum without permission, etc...) ... And what he does and what he does not want (to serve you, to please you, to remain in chastity until you want him out, etc...)
