Talk is so important, to demonstrate your domination and his submission. Even if you are starting out and don't feel that dominant yet. TELL him what to do, and what to feel, and what you ARE going to do. Watch his crumble and become a good little submissive. Then the acting out just comes more naturally.
It is important to keep programming how much he wants chastity. Some days he may want out, so while he is in chastity, make him beg for it, or ask for more time. It internalizes his desire for it, and if you purr rewards at his right attitude, he will come back for more.
As soon as he is in chastity, start wearing your sexiest wardrobe around then house. Greet him topless, and carry on a normal everyday conversation. He will oogle you, and probably not hear a word. If so, grab his cock cage and tell him he needs to be submissive to your needs or he has no chance of escape. Chastity is such a delightful training ground. Flaunt everything you have.
Putting him in chastity without teasing him mercilously is like... A glass of water without the water. What's the point? From the moment you own his key(s) and he locks that cage, start teasing him. He will whimper, but he'll love it.
Want to give him a thrill that will rock his world and make him beg for again? Make him wear nothing but panties or just his cock cage, and tie him down securely in a public place, like the kitchen, leaving him utterly exposed to you. Tell him all the seductive wonders you intend for him. Then arrange so that a girl friend suddenly rings your doorbell. It will freak him out, being so vulnerable. It will freak him out more when you tell him you will be right back, and walk toward the door. Invite your friend in, and have her dangerously close to the kitchen. You may even ask her if she wants to come in and have some coffee or [...]
This is one of the best positions to peg him for his first time. It gives you full access to his ass, and if he squirms, he can't squirm far away. You can easily press your whole body down on him, pinning him, and whisper commands that he must submit in his slutty little ears. Also, gentle kisses or sucking on his neck will arouse him again. As he starts enjoying that, you can start pegging him into his new world.
Every now and then, it is good to threaten him with permanent chastity. It reinforces the reality the you own his cock, and it makes him so much more delighted and enthralled if you do release him for a little bit.
Men... If you want a happy marriage, you need to learn to put your urges on hold. Please your wife first and foremost, whether she lets you cum or not. Anything less will only result in more chastity for you.
How do you know if a man is taken? For probably over 3000 years, wedding rings have provided a public symbol that this man is married. That's a good thing. I like that, and think that is a great symbol. A ring on his finger doesn't keep his eyes from wandering, or his mind from pursuing other loves. It can be easily removed from a finger or ignored by women who really don't care. It will not keep his cock from getting into trouble. So we now have a new "ring" we can put on "it", which of course is a cock cage. Slip this simple ring around his balls, pins through to a cock cage, and a small little padlock. Suddenly, you [...]
I've just got to get this out there. What are cocks for? Sure, they are used in procreation, but that is not the primary use or our population problem would be much greater. I have seen two prevailing views that men seem to have, which are exactly why cock cages are growing in popularity. First, most men seem to think cocks are for themselves. It gives them great pleasure, so they think they have a built in joystick. Either through masterbation or sleeping with women, which turns women into a means to an end [his pleasure]. That is like saying we like flowers because of the aroma. No. That is simply a byproduct. You wouldn't buy wilted flowers, because they still smell good, [...]
