Photo by Pixabay: https://www.pexels.com/photo/blade-of-grass-blur-bright-close-up-432786/ Have I talked about premature ejaculation training again recently? I don’t feel like I’ve talked about why I love this kink enough lately. Sometimes I feel like the most boring Domme in the world because I don’t care about hitting people. Or tying them up. Okay. Maybe a little scratching. But not even much of that either. I have a whole toybag full of stuff I never use. The way I do kink would look so boring if random people saw it. Because a lot of it just looks like sex. Like regular old sex—except always with me on top. (That’s not even part of the power exchange. I just like to be on top.) But it’s NOT the [...]

Photo by Francesco Ungaro: https://www.pexels.com/photo/trees-on-a-dark-forest-1671325/ I was having a conversation with someone the other day about kink (shocking), and the topic of breeding fantasies came up. I somewhat shamefully admitted, that I have a total breeding kink, although I literally NEVER actually play it out with anyone in person. Never have. Never will. This is NOT an invitation! In fact, a lot of my fantasies involving this are fucking dark, and I am usually the submissive one being taken. (I do have a sort of reverse femdom fantasy involving this that is never mean or degrading.) In reality, I am hardly ever submissive in sex, and I would never ever ever never ever ever never do the stuff that my mind concocts while [...]

Photo by cottonbro studio: https://www.pexels.com/photo/white-cat-licking-a-crystal-glass-6869655/ I know it’s been an eon since I published anything. I have resolved anew to get back into the swing of things, both professionally and in my personal life. I have let so many friendships languish, and honestly, I often feel rather lonely. (Not an invitation for stalkers, please.) I have no one to blame for this but myself and my terrible streaming habit. That sounds vaguely kinky, but I mean my actual streaming habit of watching too many high-quality television programs. (Did you catch Nimona? So good!) So, today I made 3 short little teaser audios for Niteflirt that I use as bait…nom nom nom….for catching little subbies in my net before I lure them to their [...]

Who’s a Good Boy? Are You My Good Boy? You know what? I don’t totally know. I’m not a therapist, although sometimes I feel like one. But I will tell you a little secret. It’s possible that the reason I excel at dishing out verbal embarrassment, belittlement, chastisement, and occasionally downright scorn—is because I kind of like it myself. Now, this isn’t an invitation to any Domme breakers out there. I’ve only rarely attempted to allow anyone to erotically humiliate me, and it’s never gone very well. I think this is because the fantasies I have in my head (I’ll never tell), are so terrible that I’d never actually want to act them out—and my partners are too nice. Just calling me a [...]

Last year, my daughter came out as trans. I’m on a bunch of support groups for cis parents of trans kids, and I could have written about this there. I mean, I have written about various aspects of this experience there. But there are other aspects of it that get more confusing for me that I cannot talk about in vanilla spaces, because I do online domination work. And if you are not familiar with online domination work, it involves a lot of male-identifying people who like to be erotically humiliated for presenting as feminine. (Did I say that politically correctly? Basically, a lot of guys want to be treated like sissy whores who like to be fucked in their boy pussies or [...]

I came in at 40 on the 100 Top Sex Blogger list for 2022 ! Not bad for someone who has almost completely ignored her blog for a long time! Maybe it’s resting on my laurels from when I was posting semi interesting material on the regular. (Sheepishly slinks away….) This is great motivation to start to actually write here again! I do have a few things coming up, so if I can manage to wade through my 20,000 spam comments that need to be moderated, perhaps I will write again! Thank you to Molly’s Daily Kiss and Chaturbate for the recognition! And congratulations to all of the other sexy bloggers on the list! I’m a Top Sex Blogger? I’m a Top [...]

(30 Minutes) It’s time for another one of our little secret conversations. You can just relax and listen and let go. It’s okay, sweetie. I’d never tell. Or would I? What if I did tell. What if “she” found out—that you’d been listening to me, submitting for me, turning your orgasms over to me? You wouldn’t want that to happen. Would you? No. So, you’re going to be a very good boy for me—falling deeper and deeper in lust with me, needing my permission, playing with fire just for my amusement, saying my name during sex with her, fucking her FOR me, to prove how much you love being my obedient submissive pet. (Hypnosis, Homewreckin-Fantasy, Blackmail-Fantasy, Love Addiction, Goddess Worship) Secret Blackmail [...]

(15 Minutes) Now that your cock is just a little nubbin, we need to set down some new rules. You’re going to be obedient oral servant from now on. Rule number one. No clothes in the house. Rule number two. You clean from now on. In fact, I want you to get started right now because we’re expecting some special guests…you ex girlfriends. They didn’t believe that I could convince you to shrink and sell your cock, and I want to show that little clitty of yours off to them. I know. It will be embarrassing. But if you’re a very good boy, I’ll let you pleasure them and worship them and maybe even let that teeny tiny dicklet of yours have a [...]