The Unexpected Joy of Feminizing Your Husband: A Woman’s Guide to a New Dynamic

When you first think about feminizing your husband or partner, it might sound like a wild idea—something out of a fantasy novel or a late-night chat with your boldest friend. But what if I told you that encouraging your man to embrace his softer, more feminine side could unlock a world of benefits for both of you? It’s not just about frilly clothes or playful role reversals (though those can be fun!). It’s about deepening your connection, shaking up the routine, and discovering a side of him—and yourself—that you never knew existed. Let’s dive into why feminizing your husband might just be the secret sauce your relationship didn’t know it needed. A Fresh Take on Intimacy One of the most surprising perks [...]

Here We Are Again: Our 14 Years of Chastity In Graphs…

It's been a couple of years since I've done any 'end of year' graphs, largely because the last couple of years haven't been the best for us. But with our Femdom sessions back on track now I thought I would make the effort this year, and hopefully we'll see some good results come next March.So we start with the most important graph of all, and that is of course Mistress R's orgasms. We started the year poorly and a month and a half of decorating hell definitely took its toll on both of us, without that I think we would have got Mistress over the magic 100, let's hope this year we make it.This graph is a bit misleading, because while it's true [...]

By |2025-04-02T07:23:46-07:00April 2nd, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Wednesday Erotica – Under the Table

Photo by Jason Villanueva on Pexels.com “I love the way that dress clings to you,” Michael’s voice whispered in her ear, sending tingles through Cindy’s body. Underneath the table, Cindy pressed her thighs together as she lifted her coffee to her lips. Under the table, Michael stroked her knee. Cindy took a sip of coffee and looked around the cafe. Behind her young lobbyist was talking passionately with his colleague about gay marriage. To her left, two business executives discussed the finer points of financial reporting. Overhearing snippets of these conversations made what was happening underneath the table even more delicious.  She placed her cup carefully back on the table and leaned forward. Her finger pulled her neckline down so that Michael could [...]

By |2025-04-01T19:23:46-07:00April 1st, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

This is Getting Silly Now…

Another fun day yesterday... at last it was Friday and the week was nearly at an end. But then Mistress told me last night that clocks go forward this weekend so we lose an hour of sleep. Bah! Like we had any sleep anyway.So my chaotic story writing life continues. I now have two stories 90pc complete... one really good idea that's sort of 25pc complete and another brand new story that's 98pc complete!This  latest one came to me yesterday as I was driving around and I ended up stopping and dictating it into my phone for about 20 minutes. Of course the phone wrote absolute gibberish but I manage to decipher it when I got home. Good job I did it the [...]

By |2025-03-29T04:23:46-07:00March 29th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Too Many Ideas, Too Little Time…

Don't you just hate the first week back at work after time off? Yeah it sucks...And it sucks even more when your back hurts, you've buttfucked your perfect weight-loss record into the middle of next week and you're struggling to get back on the wagon let me tell you! But maybe I just need to cut myself some slack... I've done well over a very long period after all, it's just that I am scared of going backwards. Anyway.... it's not the only thing I'm struggling with at the moment, the stories are giving me hell too!First off, I all but completed 'Recruiting a New Pet Ch2', then I substantially completed another new story (and made notes for part two of that) and then [...]

By |2025-03-26T13:23:46-07:00March 26th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Training Your Sub: A 30-Day Femdom Challenge for Deeper Submission

From Vanilla to Femdom: How to Introduce Your Man to SubmissionHow a Femdom Wife Can Implement a Weekly Caning Session to Strengthen Her MarriageThe Beginner’s Guide to Spanking Your Husband: How, When, and How Hard Training Your Sub: A 30-Day Femdom Challenge for Deeper Submission Welcome, fierce queens, to a journey of power, patience, and profound connection. If you’re a dominant woman looking to deepen your submissive’s devotion—or if you’re simply curious about how to sculpt a dynamic that hums with mutual satisfaction—this post is your roadmap. Today, we’re diving into a 30-day challenge designed to train your sub, strengthen your authority, and elevate your femdom relationship to new heights. No fluff, no shortcuts—just a month-long adventure into the art of dominance [...]

A Break in the Weather

Two weeks ago we had the kind of cyclone. A weather system that dumped lots of rain and blew certain parts of our coast. We then had a weekend of nice weather, which allowed for some camping. Which provided an opportunity for photos of course! Unfortunately there is another weather event on the horizon. More wet T-shirts in my future!!! To see who else is sinning this Sunday click on the lips!!

By |2025-03-24T02:23:45-07:00March 24th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

The Power of Distraction…

Yesterday I did something really stupid. No, don't worry I didn't touch my cock again... I'm not that stupid! No, unfortunately I was supposed to sort out the garage while Mistress had lunch with her friend... and I did eventually do that, but as I entered the chaos that was our garage I spied the lawn edger and decided it would be a good idea to edge the lawn. I mean, sounds like way too much fun for the lawn if you ask me, but anyway...Our lawn is pretty small, so it wasn't a big job or anything. One edge has paving slabs and one edge meets gravel so it's really just the back and the right hand side that needed doing. So [...]

By |2025-03-22T14:23:47-07:00March 22nd, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

What Made You Think I Was Going to be Fair….

Every so often I come across a caption that really speaks to me. This is one such caption... if we're honest with ourselves 'fairness' is the absolutely last thing we really want.  Speaking of which, another awesome post at SubHub's blog 'She Was Selfish'.

By |2025-03-21T05:24:43-07:00March 21st, 2025|Categories: Chastity|1 Comment