I know what you're thinking right, it's feast or famine with me now... well that's true, but I'm just enjoying feeling pumped about this element of Mistress R and I's life again, so for the moment let's just enjoy the ride because who knows what's around the corner.You know, I have a group of guy friends in a Whatsapp group who share a common (vanilla) interest... one is 35, one is 45, one is 50 and I am 55. I really don't like how I am the old-man of the group, when did this happen? When did I become the old guy? Well it kinda sucks honestly.But still, it could be worse. And of all of us it seems like I have the [...]

Let's be honest, Sunday morning brainstorming is all well and good, but Sunday afternoon teasing is way better, right? And so after Mistress had a lovely orgasm on my tongue, I strapped on my new Oxballs2 for a test run. My first impression was that it felt a little different, a little more squishy and a little less 'tight', which might not necessarily be a bad thing.I had already clocked that Mistress had placed the cock whip on the bedside table (next to our new water based lube) and with the taste of Mistress's gorgeous pussy still fresh on my lips we started to kiss... and by the time she reached down to touch my cock I was already hard. She didn't waste [...]

The other day I mentioned (the fantastic) SubHub's blog and how he had described using a 'prostate massager' (properly) for the first time. Since I have owned one of these for many years but never actually tried to use it I was intrigued and since SubHub hadn't been totally clear about the end result I wondered if he thought he could ruin an orgasm completely 'hands-free' while using this toy. So I left a comment on his post and he replied that he absolutely could... interesting!I'm guessing those of you that actually wear chastity cages have probably discovered this already? Since you have a greater need for hands free 'relief'! So Mistress and I had a late night last night so I was looking [...]

I mentioned Instagram the other day... and what a thoroughly depressing app it is. However, I know it can be used as a tool for promotion (I have a vanilla blog which definitely benefitted from me using Instagram to promote it) so I thought maybe I can use it to spread the word about this blog too. Now I'm not an expert, but I figured the easiest way to do that would be to search for 'Femdom', 'Chastity' and things like that and then start 'following' users that I thought might be tempted to follow me back... because that, to my understanding, is how this whole can of bullshit works.But oh my God... it was so hard to find anyone who I actually [...]