Have You Ever Had an Orgasm Headache?

Recently I experienced something called an 'Orgasm Headache'... or in my case perhaps more accurately an 'Edging Headache'. This is an intensely painful sensation that starts in your neck and travels up into the back of your head. In fact I would go as far as to say that it was perhaps the second most painful thing I've ever experienced after a ruptured disc in my back many years ago.Looking online it seems there are two causes for this, one is to do with blood pressure and one is to do with the muscles in your neck and shoulders contracting as you approach orgasm. Well I went to my chiropractor and my doctor and I'm happy to say that the worst of it [...]

By |2024-11-24T18:23:47-08:00November 24th, 2024|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Turning Household Chores into Submissive Service

The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for WomenThe Art of Tease and Denial: A Beginner’s Guide to Controlling His Release The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for WomenHow to Get Your Submissive Male to Surrender to Your Authority on Licking Your Anus: A Guide for Dominant Women Turning Household Chores into Submissive Service In a D/s (Dominant/submissive) dynamic, everyday tasks can become opportunities to reinforce roles and deepen the connection between a Domme and her submissive. Turning household chores into acts of service not only keeps the house in order but also strengthens the submissive’s sense of devotion and obedience. Here’s how to make mundane chores a meaningful part of your Femdom [...]

“My Cougar Moment” Part 5 of my Hotwife Diaries Audio Reading

My newest short Audio Reading … from “My Cougar Moment” … Part Five of my Modesty Ablaze London Hotwife Diaries … is now available to listen to from my Audio Profile page, as well as directly from my “Modesty Speaks” pages >here<. And don’t forget, the E-book version of “My Cougar Moment” is now also available at my Gumroad PDF Ebooks profile >here<. And I’m hoping to add the remaining editions of my Diaries in the coming weeks as soon as I can … “My Cougar Moment” Normally when Hubby and I have a night out at our Swingers Club we will spend the first hour or so sitting at the Bar chatting to staff … or to other couples, or singles, that [...]

By |2024-11-24T07:48:06-08:00November 24th, 2024|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments

Why a Domme Should Embrace Her Sadistic Side (and How to Do It Safely)

The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for Women10 Mistakes New Dommes Make (And How to Avoid Them)The Art of Tease and Denial: A Beginner’s Guide to Controlling His Release Why a Domme Should Embrace Her Sadistic Side (and How to Do It Safely) Femdom dynamics thrive on power, control, and the exchange of intense energy. For many Dommes, exploring their sadistic side—delighting in the consensual infliction of pain or psychological discomfort—can deepen the connection with their submissive and enhance the dynamics of their relationship. But stepping into this territory requires understanding, communication, and safety. This guide explores the reasons why embracing your sadistic side can be empowering and offers tips to ensure it’s done consensually, effectively, and [...]

Modest Defences #sinfulsunday

A few days after my Modest Livestock post last Sunday I had an absolutely lovely message from Sally, a longtime follower with whom I’d lost contact after my “retirement” early in 2023.So this weekends Sinful Sunday is especially for Sally, from the same afternoon stroll as that Livestock encounter … at one of the many coastal defences just a mile or so further along the coast from where we have strolled before on a much warmer, and sunnier, day earlier this year. To visit more fun exposures at this week’s Sinful Sunday click on the lovely sexy lips below! Xxx – K P.s. If you’ve read my “Modestly Returning” post at the beginning of April 2024, you will know that most of my [...]

By |2024-11-23T10:04:04-08:00November 23rd, 2024|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments

The New Story is Doing Quite Well on Literotica so Far…

It's been five days since 'Gareth's Obsession' went up on Literotica, and so far the results are positive. I've had three comments (all nice ones!) and so far it's scoring 4.38/5.0, which is great. Hopefully over time it will get to 4.5 and then it will get a 'HOT' rating. But we'll see what happens. It's been read 6,600 times in five days which is pretty good considering it's in the 'Fetish' section, which is not a popular section of the site... but it only has 68 votes so a few more 5's and it could easily go up.I haven't started wrtiting anything else yet as that one took a lot out of me, but I will start thinking about doing something soon.

By |2024-11-23T06:23:47-08:00November 23rd, 2024|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Full Denim Jacket #boobday 368

I’m delighted to welcome back the wonderfully lovely SheLover to this week’s #boobday Friday posting.She has, of course, featured in lots and lots of my #boobday Friday’s previously … just click on the blue-links in this paragraph to re-view … and I’m sure will be featuring in many more to come!!! Do let me know if you would like me to guest-post some of your own Boobday photos here on my Boobday Friday postings. Because, as I always say, “the more the merrier”!!! BoobDay is about celebration and support. ‘Boob’ is a term that is intended to be gender neutral and it includes the chests and breasts of all sorts of folks. BoobDay is not limited to cisgender women. Basically, if you want [...]

By |2024-11-22T02:30:00-08:00November 22nd, 2024|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments

10 Mistakes New Dommes Make (And How to Avoid Them)

Femdom Roleplay Ideas for Every Kind of DommeFemdom Training: How to Create a Daily Ritual for Your Submissive10 Tips for New Female Dominants: Getting Comfortable with Control 10 Mistakes New Dommes Make (And How to Avoid Them) Stepping into the role of a Domme can be exhilarating and empowering, but it’s natural to encounter challenges along the way. Whether you’re navigating power dynamics for the first time or building confidence in your dominance, learning from common mistakes can help you grow and strengthen your dynamic. This guide highlights 10 mistakes new Dommes often make and provides actionable solutions to avoid them, ensuring you feel confident, capable, and in control. 1. Lacking Confidence in Your Role Mistake: Feeling uncertain about asserting dominance can [...]

How to Introduce and Guide Your Cuckold to Suck Your Bull’s Cock

The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for WomenWhy Sissification is the Ultimate Form of SubmissionHow to Get Your Submissive Male to Surrender to Your Authority on Licking Your Anus: A Guide for Dominant Women Cuckolding dynamics often explore power, submission, and deep emotional intimacy. For those curious about introducing oral submission into this framework, it’s essential to approach the scenario with open communication, respect for all parties, and a focus on mutual consent. This guide offers step-by-step advice for navigating this sensitive but potentially rewarding exploration. Step 1: Establish Clear Communication and Consent Before introducing any new dynamic, have an honest discussion with your cuckold partner and your Bull. Consent and comfort are paramount for everyone involved. [...]

Elust 179 – November 2024

Cover image courtesy of Countess Diamond. I am so thrilled to have my recent “A Naughty Surprise” posting, included within the Erotic Non-Fiction Category of the latest edition of Elust … the monthly online compilation of sex-positive articles from the blogging community from all around the world. So … Welcome to Elust 179 … Elust is the only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice, or kinky discussions, it’ll be here at Elust. Thoughts & Advice on Sex & Relationships Pleasure Me Now, Virtual Vibrations: Bringing LDR Bliss With Blowjob Machines Tantric Sexual Healing, Awakening Intimacy: A Tantric Journey to Sacred Sensuality Erotic Fiction Fern River [...]

By |2024-11-21T02:38:11-08:00November 21st, 2024|Categories: Uncategorized|0 Comments