Get a few ass slaps in while it is exposed to you

Your sub might be quiet...  Encourage him to moan approval of your labors

Something just feels right about color coordinating your strap on

Suductively slowly slide the belt off your pants and let that be the instrument of punishment for him.  Taking your belt off could indicate more clothing is coming off or punishment

Good leg action

There is something incredibly sexy about hiding your cock under a miniskirt.  Draw his attention to your body, then lift up your skirt and let him see

He asked me about nipple clamps one time.  He may have been asking for me, but if he wants to try them, let him try it first

Foot an the cock, and then slowly open your legs...

Any man who loves his wife should want to make Sure her orgasm is real and phenomenal