Enforcing Obedience: How to Set Rules and Consequences for Your Submissive

In any D/s relationship, rules and structure are crucial to maintaining a dynamic where both the Dominant and the submissive understand their roles clearly. Rules provide the framework for behavior, ensuring that your submissive knows what is expected of them and what will happen if they fail to comply. As a Dominant, it is your responsibility to set these rules with clarity and consistency, and to enforce them in a way that strengthens the bond of power exchange. This guide will cover how to establish effective rules for your submissive and how to enforce them with appropriate consequences, creating a healthy and disciplined relationship dynamic. Why Setting Rules is Essential in D/s Relationships Rules in a D/s dynamic serve several important purposes: [...]

Spanking men – Spanking your male submissive

In the world of femdom, spanking is a common form of punishment, discipline, or erotic play used to assert dominance over a male submissive. There are several different types of spankings that can be administered, each with its own purpose and intensity. Here are the different ways for spanking men 1. Hand Spanking: Hand spanking is the most common form of spanking men in femdom play. It involves using the dominant's hand to deliver a series of slaps to the sub's buttocks. Hand spanking  your man can range from gentle taps to more forceful blows, depending on the desired level of intensity. 2. Paddle Spanking: Paddle spanking involves using a paddle or a similar implement to deliver harder and more intense blows to [...]

75 reasons women should spank their men.

1. It can enhance trust and communication in the relationship. 2. It can help to establish boundaries and expectations. 3. It can add excitement and variety to the relationship. 4. It can create a sense of intimacy and bonding. 5. It can help release pent-up emotions and frustrations. 6. It can be a form of stress relief. 7. It can provide a sense of release and catharsis. 8. It can help with conflict resolution. 9. It can reinforce positive behavior. 10. It can address negative behavior. 11. It can be a form of playful interaction. 12. It can be a way to spice things up in the bedroom. 13. It can be a way to explore new things together. 14. It can help [...]

How to spank your man properly

Female-Led Spanking: The Art of Consensual Discipline In the world of BDSM, female-led relationships and female dominance have become increasingly popular as more individuals explore power dynamics and kink. One common aspect of this dynamic is spanking, where a woman takes on the role of the dominant partner and administers physical discipline to a willing male submissive. While some may view spanking as a form of abuse or violence, in the context of a consensual BDSM relationship, it is a mutually desired and agreed upon activity that can be both pleasurable and cathartic for both parties involved. For many men, being spanked by a strong, confident woman can be a highly arousing and fulfilling experience. Consent is key in any BDSM activity, [...]

Spanking your sub – Instrument selection for pleasure or behaviour modification.

Spanking is a form of impact play that involves the act of striking another person's buttocks with an open hand or an implement, such as a paddle or a belt, for the purpose of sexual arousal or punishment. It is important to note that any form of physical intimacy should be consensual, meaning that it is willingly and eagerly agreed upon by all parties involved. There are a variety of instruments that can be used for spanking in a femdom (female domination) relationship, including: Hand: The most basic and common instrument for spanking is the open hand. This can be an effective way to introduce impact play and allows for a high level of control and sensitivity. However, it is important to be [...]

By |2022-12-16T11:04:56-08:00December 16th, 2022|Categories: atonement, BDSM, Bondage, Discipline, Dommes, Spanking|6 Comments