Exploring Queening and Facesitting: Tips for a Sensual Power Play

Caning Your Husband: Tips for Safe and Intense BDSM PlayWhy All Women Should Spank Their Husbands: Husband Spanking BenefitsHarnessing the Dichotomy of Pain and Pleasure: A Mistress’s Guide to Spanking with a Vibrating Butt Plug Queening, often referred to as facesitting, is a beloved form of domination in the BDSM community that combines power dynamics with sensual pleasure. At its core, queening is a display of control, intimacy, and trust where the dominant partner literally takes their throne by sitting on the submissive’s face. Whether you're new to this practice or a seasoned participant, there are ways to ensure that the experience is enjoyable, comfortable, and safe for both parties. What Is Queening? Queening, or facesitting, involves the dominant partner sitting on [...]

Why a Domme Should Embrace Her Sadistic Side (and How to Do It Safely)

The Power of Verbal Humiliation in a Femdom Relationship: A Guide for Women10 Mistakes New Dommes Make (And How to Avoid Them)The Art of Tease and Denial: A Beginner’s Guide to Controlling His Release Why a Domme Should Embrace Her Sadistic Side (and How to Do It Safely) Femdom dynamics thrive on power, control, and the exchange of intense energy. For many Dommes, exploring their sadistic side—delighting in the consensual infliction of pain or psychological discomfort—can deepen the connection with their submissive and enhance the dynamics of their relationship. But stepping into this territory requires understanding, communication, and safety. This guide explores the reasons why embracing your sadistic side can be empowering and offers tips to ensure it’s done consensually, effectively, and [...]

Husband Spankings – BDSM Husband Spanking Guidelines

The 3 Pillars Of Our Free Training Program.Male chastity training – 12 steps/weeks to permanent male chastity Spanking Your Husband - Why, What, Where, How much? Lighthearted Spankings: A Playful Approach Lighthearted husband spankings are meant to be fun, playful, and often serve as a reminder rather than a serious punishment. These spankings are typically short, with a lighter intensity, and may be used to reinforce submission in a more positive, affectionate way. They can also serve to establish or maintain the power dynamic in a loving relationship without pushing physical or emotional boundaries. How to Deliver Lighthearted Husband Spankings Set the Tone: Lighthearted spankings should come with a playful or teasing demeanor. A soft laugh, a smile, or even a flirtatious [...]

Essential BDSM Knots Tutorials – Comprehensive Tutorials on Key Bondage Knots

In this post, we will be discussing bondage knots used in the world of BDSM.  Here are 10 classic knots that every bondage fan should learn. Square Knot (Reef Knot) - A basic knot used for tying two ends of rope together. Bowline Knot - Creates a fixed loop at the end of a rope, useful for securing restraints. Half Hitch - A simple knot used to anchor or secure ropes, often used in combination with other knots. Figure-Eight Knot - Creates a strong, fixed loop and is commonly used for safety and secure tying. Hitching Knot - Used for tying ropes around a post or object. Friction Hitch - A knot that tightens under load and is used to adjust tension in [...]

Spanking your sub – Instrument selection for pleasure or behaviour modification.

Spanking is a form of impact play that involves the act of striking another person's buttocks with an open hand or an implement, such as a paddle or a belt, for the purpose of sexual arousal or punishment. It is important to note that any form of physical intimacy should be consensual, meaning that it is willingly and eagerly agreed upon by all parties involved. There are a variety of instruments that can be used for spanking in a femdom (female domination) relationship, including: Hand: The most basic and common instrument for spanking is the open hand. This can be an effective way to introduce impact play and allows for a high level of control and sensitivity. However, it is important to be [...]

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30 ideas for a femdom relationship – Femdom Idea List

Femdom, or female domination, is a subgenre of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) in which a woman takes on a dominant role in a sexual or non-sexual relationship with a man. Here are 30 ideas for activities a dominant woman could do to a submissive man in a femdom relationship: Restrain him using handcuffs, ropes, or other restraints Blindfold him to restrict his sense of sight Use a ball gag or other device to restrict his ability to speak Spank or whip him as a form of punishment Force him to perform tasks or chores for her Require him to ask permission before speaking or doing certain things Force him to wear certain clothing or accessories, such as a collar or leash [...]

Forceful ropework

Continuing on from the last post, this is another F/m rope bondage scene, but has a very different dynamic. This is less about tender and more about control and pain. It’s still sexy as hell though. I think it’s the hand to the back of the neck that does it for me. She doesn’t just want him tied up, she wants him exactly in the position she demands. I found this on the ‘Please Take My Control’ tumblr. I’m afraid I haven’t managed to track down an original attribution. If anyone can help with that then please leave a comment. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Tender ropework

Something beautiful and simple for the weekend. This doesn’t really need any additional comment from me. You can see the original (in full size) along with others images shot in the sequence here. Rigged by Misungui. Model is Faun Sencible. pPhotographed by Ombilik. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Feel the burn

I noticed that I’d inadvertently published two consecutive posts featuring fire. That wasn’t intended, but given that I have a strange compulsion to post in trios, here’s a third on the subject on flames and heat. This image caught my eye purely for the look on his face. It makes me yearn to feel like that. He looks lost in the moment. You can see another shot from the same scene here. This is from a Divine Bitches shoot featuring Bobbi Starr and Trent Diesel. I originally found it via this post on Femdom Times. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

Shit or get off my face

This paper mag article on the NYC BDSM scene is pretty short and light on detail. However, I have to salute the writer for its opening line – ‘Shit or get off my face’. That’s memorable. It’s a phrase that provokes an initial ‘huh?’, until you realize the writer is a dominatrix. Then it generates more of an ‘Ewww!’. This artwork is by Rodzo. Fortunately for those of a delicate disposition he’s an artist big on the face sitting part, but not so much on the poop. Source: Femdom-Resource.com