Male Chastity Devices for Short-Term, Medium-Term, and Long-Term Use

 Male Chastity Devices for Short-Term, Medium-Term, and Long-Term Use Male chastity devices have gained popularity in recent years, offering a unique way to explore power dynamics, enhance intimacy, and practice orgasm denial within consensual relationships. Whether you're new to chastity or a seasoned practitioner, choosing the right device for your needs—short-term, medium-term, or long-term wear—requires careful consideration of comfort, material, hygiene, and security. This detailed review evaluates top chastity devices suited for different durations, based on user feedback, expert opinions, and product specifications. Below, we’ll explore options for each category, including their features, pros, cons, and links to purchase. Understanding Chastity Device Durations Short-Term (Hours to 1-2 Days): Ideal for beginners or those engaging in occasional play during intimate sessions. These devices [...]

By |2025-07-15T14:03:02-07:00July 15th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|1 Comment

Anal Training Your Sub – Empowering Dominance for Women

By Dr. Elena Hart, PhD, Clinical Psychologist and Sexual Wellness Expert As a dominant woman in a female-led relationship (FLR), you hold unparalleled authority to shape your dynamic into one of profound intimacy, trust, and control. Anal training and strap-on play are transformative tools to deepen your husband’s submission, fostering a connection where he craves your dominance and revels in his role as your devoted submissive. As a clinical psychologist with extensive expertise in sexual wellness and power dynamics, I offer an authoritative, evidence-based guide to help you transform your husband into a partner who embraces your control with enthusiasm. This comprehensive article provides a structured, psychologically informed approach to anal training, using high-quality tools and techniques to ensure [...]

How to Bring Up Male Chastity with Your Wife: A Thoughtful Guide

Introducing the topic of male chastity to your wife can feel like navigating uncharted territory. It’s a deeply personal and potentially sensitive subject that requires care, respect, and open communication. Whether you're curious about exploring male chastity for intimacy, trust-building, or adding a new dynamic to your relationship, approaching the conversation thoughtfully is key to ensuring both you and your partner feel safe, understood, and respected. This guide offers a comprehensive roadmap to help you bring up male chastity with your wife in a way that fosters connection and mutual understanding. What is Male Chastity? Before diving into the conversation, it’s helpful to clarify what male chastity entails. Male chastity typically involves the use of a device (often called a chastity cage) [...]

Please, Mistress—Spank Me, Use Me, Own Me

This was sent to my email from one of our members.....  What do you want me to do?  Answer in comments!! Please, Mistress—spank me, use me, own me. can't hold it in anymore. I need to confess what I've become. What you made me. Spank me. It started with small things—obedient glances, whispered “yes, Mistress” under my breath, the thrill of submitting in tiny moments. But those moments grew into needs. Desperate, aching, humiliating needs. And now I’m here, on my knees, writing this with trembling fingers and a hard-on I don’t deserve. I need to be punished. Mistress, please—spank me. Not just once. Not just playfully. I need five hard, humiliating spanks. One for each time I touched myself [...]

Chastity Domination: A Guide to Power, Control, and Intimacy

Introduction to Chastity Domination Chastity domination is a captivating dynamic within the world of femdom, where control, trust, and intimacy intertwine. This practice involves a dominant partner—often referred to as a Domme—restricting a submissive’s access to sexual pleasure through the use of chastity devices or psychological control. For those curious about exploring chastity domination, this guide offers insights into its appeal, practical steps to get started, and tips for fostering a consensual, fulfilling experience. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or a beginner intrigued by femdom control, chastity domination offers a unique way to deepen power dynamics and build trust. Let’s dive into what makes this practice so compelling and how you can incorporate it into your dynamic. Why Chastity Domination Appeals to Couples [...]

Almost Like a Mini Femdom Session…

For a very long time now, my blog has carried on its header a quote from the D/s author Ms Rika (I must admit I don't think I have ever read one of her books and I'm not even sure where I saw this quote), which says 'There is nothing more attractive to a submissive man than a woman who demonstrates how confident she is in her sexuality and its effect on him'. I really couldn't put it any better myself, and though I've occasionally thought of refreshing the header with a new quote (since its been there so long now that I imagine it barely registers with my readers) I haven't found anything that would be an improvement.This quote also lends itself [...]

By |2025-06-21T13:23:47-07:00June 21st, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Frustration (and not the good kind!)

I'm getting very frustrated with Blogger. The last few nights I have been slowly working on improving the look and usability of the blog, and in particular creating 'cards' for the 'Webtease' pages much like I've done with the 'Stories' pages. But of course, every time I take a step forward Blogger unpublishes the page because it thinks it's spam or some bullshit and then I have to request a review and eventually it goes back up behind a warning (even though literally the whole blog is behind a warning). Currently the page 'My Webteases' is offline and I don't know when or if they will let me put it back up. Fucking annoying. Honestly part of me wants to move the blog to [...]

By |2025-05-28T16:23:48-07:00May 28th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Latest Story is Up on Literotica

Mistress's Perfect Feet has finally appeared on the Literotica site, and so far it has two votes (both 5 stars) so that's a good start... it also has one 'positive' comment from a regular reader - we'll see what happens as time goes on.It's funny, when you go down to the bottom of the page to read the comments there's a section to the side (on a laptop) where it suggests 'other stories like this' and I saw one called 'Cruel to be Kind' that sounded interesting... until I clicked on it and realised that it was one of mine! It's a public holiday here in the UK today, later today Mistress and I will be doing another escape room, something we both enjoy [...]

By |2025-05-26T01:24:04-07:00May 26th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Some Random Sunday Thoughts…

I hope you all enjoyed my new story 'Mistress's Perfect Feet' that I posted on Friday; that was written a few weeks ago and then abandoned in the 'current writing' folder until I went back to it the other day. At the same time I realised I had pretty much completed another two or three stories that probably need very little work also, so hopefully they will be posted her soon too.One of the stories I still have in the pending file is very long, I think it's 15,000 words or something and even though it was only a few weeks ago I can barely remember it - so that will be an interesting read for me. I suppose in the near future [...]

By |2025-05-25T14:24:09-07:00May 25th, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments

Mistress’s Perfect Feet (Written May 2025)

My name is Rob and I was born, live and work in the UK. Most of my day to day work is office based, but occasionally I have to go out in a car somewhere and today was one of those days. I had 2-3 hours of driving to do, with only a couple of stops in between and as usual when I am driving, my unoccupied mind drifted to thinking about my gorgeous Mistress. I was already heading up the motorway when I started to think about her beautiful feet and the more I thought about them the more I felt my cock getting cramped in my underwear. Soon I was moving in my seat, trying to make room and the more [...]

By |2025-05-23T15:24:11-07:00May 23rd, 2025|Categories: Chastity|0 Comments