The other day I mentioned (the fantastic) SubHub's blog and how he had described using a 'prostate massager' (properly) for the first time. Since I have owned one of these for many years but never actually tried to use it I was intrigued and since SubHub hadn't been totally clear about the end result I wondered if he thought he could ruin an orgasm completely 'hands-free' while using this toy. So I left a comment on his post and he replied that he absolutely could... interesting!I'm guessing those of you that actually wear chastity cages have probably discovered this already? Since you have a greater need for hands free 'relief'! So Mistress and I had a late night last night so I was looking [...]

I mentioned Instagram the other day... and what a thoroughly depressing app it is. However, I know it can be used as a tool for promotion (I have a vanilla blog which definitely benefitted from me using Instagram to promote it) so I thought maybe I can use it to spread the word about this blog too. Now I'm not an expert, but I figured the easiest way to do that would be to search for 'Femdom', 'Chastity' and things like that and then start 'following' users that I thought might be tempted to follow me back... because that, to my understanding, is how this whole can of bullshit works.But oh my God... it was so hard to find anyone who I actually [...]

There was a very interesting post on Sub Hub in Phoenix the other day, about a prostate massage toy that they had bought and tried and not been overly bothered with and how they tried it again and this time read the instructions. So apparently Sub Hub and Mistress K assumed that they were supposed to use the 'handle' to manoeuvre it, but actually that's not the case at all - the 'handle' is just there to stop it getting sucked in. What you're supposed to do is insert it and then use it 'hands free' by squeezing your ass muscles. Sub Hub said it felt amazing this way, which is interesting since we have one of these that I think we bought at [...]

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This is a different kind of story for me, still based in the usual tropes (minus the cuckolding) but told from the female perspective and, well... it's just different from any story I've written before. I have an idea for part two, but we'll see how that pans out. You know, sometimes I look back and wonder whether everything I’m about to tell you was a set-up? But honestly I really can’t believe that. I just don’t think Sammy is that clever or that devious. But, well, maybe I should ask him sometime…?Okay, so it all started about five years ago, give or take a few months. My boyfriend Sammy was going down on me… and I was just taking waaay too long to [...]

Well it's been two whole weeks now since our last Femdom session and I haven't touched my cock once. Honestly, I'm not telling you this because I'm so 'proud' of my 'incredible achievement' and require your applause, but it is interesting how different things have been this last couple of weeks and this week in particular. Removing any kind of self-stimulation has done exactly what it was supposed to and made me feel much more eager for Mistress's touch. Not that I wasn't before of course, but definitely more now. And even more importantly I've also noticed a change in how hard I am when being teased.As I said the other day, Mistress edged me on Friday morning without any cock ring or [...]

You know, I am getting on a bit now... 55 at my last birthday, so I'm not really in tune with what the 'kids' are doing these days. But it seems like the latest 'thing' is girls (...and some guys, obviously) collecting these huge 'Bad Dragon' dildos and shoving them up their butts! Oddly, the way I found out about this was through Instagram. Which is kinda strange because I don't think I've ever actively searched for anything 'sexual' on there, quite the opposite actually as my phone is owned by my employer! However I did one day get shown this post and it made me laugh so much* that I took a screenshot so that I could forward it to a friend. Clearly the [...]

The Ultimate Guide to Male Chastity Devices: Reviews of the Top 10 Options5 Ways to Enforce Male Chastity in Your Relationship“Why Every Woman Should Embrace Male Chastity Training: Unlocking Deeper Intimacy and Control” Blogger has unpublished my 'Orgasms' page yet again on the grounds that it violates their 'spam' policy. I think I will need to find a way to redo it so that it doesn't contain endless streams of numbers because I think that's what they object to. It's rather annoying but seems like a relatively easy fix, it just won't have as much detail as before. How was your Valentine's Day? Mine was pretty damn good, it started with me getting edged before getting up to go to work (can't [...]

I'm still adding links to stories by other authors to the blog as I find them, most recently the incredibly lengthy 'She Deserves It' by Cactusaur. This is a good story, but I honestly much preferred the first part to the second. As is often the way with these stories, the author feels the need to ramp things up and up and it gets a bit much by the end. They also have an odd habit of jumping from one scene to another without explanation, which to me reads like they wrote all the scenes and couldn't be bothered to spend the time connecting them properly. Maybe that won't bother you as much as it did me though... I just feel like this is [...]

What could I possibly mean by 'the worst' kind of ruined orgasm, do you think?Well, if you're imagining the kind where you're given 'permission' to cum and then stimulation is withdrawn at the very last second, leaving you helplessly watching as you leak a steady pool of cum down the side of your poor, aching, desperate cock... then no, that's absolutely NOT what I'm talking about here. Perversely I really like that kind of ruin... partly, of course, because I love feeling helpless, submissive and deliciously frustrated and partly because it's 'intentional'; it's what Mistress wanted to happen, it was a conscious decision on her part.The kind of ruin I'm talking about is when you're being teased end edged and even though your Mistress [...]