Spank Your Husband: 3 Shades of Red

Spanking can be a fun and intimate way to spice up a relationship, provided it’s consensual, respectful, and tailored to both partners’ comfort levels. This post explores three distinct approaches to playful, safe, and mutually enjoyable spankings, including how to spank your husband, each with its own shade of intensity and intent. From lighthearted teasing to disciplinary dynamics, here’s how to explore this dynamic with care and connection. 1. Spank your Husband: Playful Spankings Playful spankings are all about keeping things light, flirty, and fun. These are gentle taps meant to tease and build intimacy without causing any real discomfort. The goal is to create a shared moment of laughter and connection, not pain. Understanding how to effectively spank your husband can [...]

Spanking in Femdom: Maintenance, Disciplinary, and Recreational Spankings

Spanking in femdom is a versatile and powerful practice in femdom dynamics, serving as a tool for connection, discipline, and pleasure. Within the framework of consensual BDSM, spanking can take on different forms, each with its own purpose, tone, and emotional impact. In this post, we’ll explore three distinct types of spanking in femdom: weekly maintenance spankings, disciplinary spankings, and recreational spankings for fun. For each, we’ll outline a protocol, discuss suitable implements, detail the how, what, where, when, and why, and explain how aftercare varies. Whether you’re a seasoned dominant or new to femdom, this guide will help you craft meaningful and safe spanking scenes that align with your dynamic. Embracing different styles of spanking in femdom can enhance the experience [...]

Chastity Domination: A Guide to Power, Control, and Intimacy

Introduction to Chastity Domination Chastity domination is a captivating dynamic within the world of femdom, where control, trust, and intimacy intertwine. This practice involves a dominant partner—often referred to as a Domme—restricting a submissive’s access to sexual pleasure through the use of chastity devices or psychological control. For those curious about exploring chastity domination, this guide offers insights into its appeal, practical steps to get started, and tips for fostering a consensual, fulfilling experience. Whether you're a seasoned practitioner or a beginner intrigued by femdom control, chastity domination offers a unique way to deepen power dynamics and build trust. Let’s dive into what makes this practice so compelling and how you can incorporate it into your dynamic. Why Chastity Domination Appeals to Couples [...]

Sunday Bumday

It’s no secret that I like to post images of my boobs. But today I thought I would flip things a bit. An older image of my butt from a few years back. I like to think it hasn’t changed, but it probably has! Image courtesy of a very good friend. Have a great Sunday everyone.

By |2025-06-21T16:23:46-07:00June 21st, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|3 Comments

Relinquishing Control

I published this story on Medium a little while ago. I was feeling generous, so I thought I would share the whole story with you. Photo by Tomas Andreopoulos on Pexels.com “I don’t want to be involved.” Mel finished applying her lipstick and straightened her skirt. “Really?” Brad shrugged, buckled his work pants and reached for his shirt. “Mmmm.” Mel slid her hands around his waist and under his waistband. “What time did you say your first job is?” Taken by surprise, Brad struggled with his shirt, trying to get it in place before giving up and throwing it in the corner. Bare chested, he turned to face his wife. “Don’t you have that early meeting?” Brad’s mind whirled. His wife had just [...]

By |2025-06-20T14:24:31-07:00June 20th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Relinquishing Control

I published this story on Medium a little while ago. I was feeling generous, so I thought I would share the whole story with you. Photo by Tomas Andreopoulos on Pexels.com “I don’t want to be involved.” Mel finished applying her lipstick and straightened her skirt. “Really?” Brad shrugged, buckled his work pants and reached for his shirt. “Mmmm.” Mel slid her hands around his waist and under his waistband. “What time did you say your first job is?” Taken by surprise, Brad struggled with his shirt, trying to get it in place before giving up and throwing it in the corner. Bare chested, he turned to face his wife. “Don’t you have that early meeting?” Brad’s mind whirled. His wife had just [...]

By |2025-06-20T14:24:30-07:00June 20th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

TMI – Senses

Welcome to another edition of TMI where you can never find out enough!! 1. Do you believe in ESP (extrasensory perception)? Do you have those abilities? I believe in premonitions or sensing that something is going to happen. I don’t really think I possess those abilities, though. 2. Do you laugh when someone tickles you? Mr Jones is very ticklish. When tickled, he does this very different, girlish kind of laugh, which I take pleasure in extracting from him. I am not that ticklish and given that I have tickled him so often, I work hard to not react when people tickle me. I won’t say that I am always successful, though. 3. Do you like teamwork? Team work makes the dream work. [...]

By |2025-06-17T14:23:45-07:00June 17th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

The Click

Photo by Tirachard Kumtanom on Pexels.com Something that vanilla people often find surprising is that I don’t fuck every swinger that I know. Even more surprisingly, I don’t fuck every swinger that I am friends with. There are people that I fuck that I am not friends with and probably never will be. And, perhaps because I am a complex human, there are people I fuck that I am really good friends with. Being in this lifestyle is sometimes a really effective way to grow your emotional intelligence and experience a range of relationships that you wouldn’t in the vanilla world. So what is it that determines these different relationships? These people have the same values as me. We have all turned our [...]

By |2025-06-14T03:23:47-07:00June 14th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

TMI Randomness

This set of questions was originally posted on 23 June 2015 on TMI Tuesday 1. What would you eat for your “last supper”? I really enjoy trying different cuisines and I can’t think of one that is my absolute favourite. I would love to be someone else’s last supper, though. Either with sushi, as pictured, or food of their choice. 2. Name 3 interesting and unique things to do in your town/city/region. A few years ago, we hosted a few Japanese homestay students who were visiting Australia on an English immersion program. It was a very interesting experience, to say the least. On the weekends, we would try to get them out to experience different things. As is the way some of the [...]

By |2025-06-09T14:23:46-07:00June 9th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments

Monday Erotica – Cloudburst

Get your week started right with a sexy story Photo by Nothing Ahead on Pexels.com “Let’s blow this popsicle stand.” Mike rested his butt on the edge of Molly’s desk and draped his arm along the partition. Experience had taught him that this vantage point would give him a nice view of Molly’s spectacular cleavage. Especially when she leaned forward over her keyboard. “What?” Molly frowned at her screen, completely lost in her work. “It is sunny out there,” Mike straightened up a little as he noticed Molly’s co — worker across the corridor frowning in his direction. “I just thought you might like to get some air.” “Stupid, stupid program!” Molly threw herself back in her chair in disgust. As if she [...]

By |2025-06-08T14:23:47-07:00June 8th, 2025|Categories: Discipline, Dommes, Husband Training|0 Comments