Once we decided to take the plunge, we then had to actually take it! Photo by Edward Eyer on Pexels.com In an earlier post I wrote about the why of getting into swinging. As I stated in this post, how and why are a bit like two sides of the same coin. Wanting to do something does not mean that it will actually happen. A friend of ours has been involved in BDSM and swinging for many years. He remembers a time before internet dating and social media groups. Back then (yes I feel old because I remember this time as well!) People found swinger events by reading advertisements in the newspaper!! Imagine!! An actual, physical newspaper! So how did Mr Jones and [...]

Maybe it is the time of the year, but in the last few days, I have been remembering times spent on the water. I miss the freedom of being on the ocean. This year is the year of land based travel for us. I once felt very tied to the deserts of Australia but somehow the Pacific Ocean washed away all traces of the red dirt and replaced it with hues of blue and grains of sand. It has been many years since we travelled inland. I am not sure if the freedom will be the same. For this week’s Sinful Sunday, I have chosen an image that was taken during our last trip on the water. Here is to adventures in 2025. [...]

Finally, we have come to the end of the questions. Unless there are more that you, dear, slightly twisted readers, would like to add. 41. What is the dirtiest text you have ever sent or received? I struggle with these questions. What is normal to me is dirty to someone else. However, a text I have sent several times is a picture of me with the cum of another man in my mouth. He does like that. Or something like this. 42. Do you prefer professional or amateur porn? I prefer live porn. Which is by definition amateur. Professional porn seems so fake. Plus, those fake nails near sensitive bits of girls’ bodies always make me nervous. 43. What is your favourite blowjob/ [...]

Daily writing promptIs your life today what you pictured a year ago?View all responses In short, No. Not even a little bit. The 2023 school year finished on 8 December. My workplace had undergone some changes which had the potential to create a much nicer place to work. In addition, I was fortunate enough to be planning some extended leave to enjoy time on our beautiful yacht as well as indulging in some overseas travel. My idea was that this break would achieve two things. Firstly, I would have a break from an emotionally demanding job to re-charge the batteries. Secondly, I was spending some time with Mr Jones who IS retired and needing to get on with some things we had been [...]

There was much excitement when I arrived at the last pole class for 2024 and discovered that one of my favourite instructors was and I were wearing matching shorts. A great opportunity for arse photos. Happy Christmas everyone!

I am a morning person. Often I wake with the dawn and take advantage of an amazing feature of my bedroom. I watch the day be born through my sliding door while listening to the dawn birdsong. It is a genuinely gratifying way to start the day. Another morning habit is sending hello messages to several friends who I don’t see very often. Even if we don’t have a long conversation on the daily, it is a great way to keep in touch. Sometimes I may take a cheeky snap to send with my hello. Mr HC is a big fan of these greetings. This post is part of this week’s Boob Day. Check out who else is participating by clicking on the [...]

Daily writing promptWhat cities do you want to visit?View all responses I have / had a colleague who loves travelling to cities all over the world. We sometimes talk about travelling but we have concluded that our travel goals are very, very different. My friend loves the hustle and bustle of cities, the buildings, the art, the whole vibe. I get the attraction. I too like the vibe and the art and the opportunity for great food. However, I can only do that many people in one place for a short period. I think I want to experience cities, but when I get there I find myself overwhelmed. I am much more interested in wide open spaces and interesting rocks. Having said that, [...]

I have been doing this blogging gig for over ten years. Probably closer to fifteen. Over the time, I have completed my teaching qualifications, taught thousands of young people and written probably millions of words. There have been times, like this week, when I have posted almost every day for short stints, followed by longer stints of not posting or writing much at all. As I step back from full-time work, I have allocated myself the project of reviewing many of these words and collating them into something that will hopefully at least buy me some wine to enjoy during my camping adventures. So the back catalogue of my short stories and some of my series will be moving to Medium. This is [...]

I don’t consider myself a nudist or a naturist. Since our children have grown and we have spent a lot of time on the ocean I have however come to the realisation that being outdoors and wearing a lot of clothes is really not that comfortable. It is one of the things I miss the most about not owning a yacht. Most yachties are very relaxed about clothing. Land based campers not so much. There are a lot more families. So a weekend of not having to wear clothes and having the time / brain space to catch up on some writing was definitely welcome. To see who else is getting their boobs out click on the image above for the current link [...]

Photo by Roberto Nickson on Unsplash I am part of a few social media groups that are based around the swinging lifestyle. Often there are discussions about different topics but of course because of comment threads and such like it is difficult to keep track of the different posts. it is also not a great way to get an answer to a question when it happens for you. Over the next little while, I will be putting together some posts here that will be responses to various questions I have found online. My goal is to put an Australian female perspective out there. Something that I feel is a bit lacking. I also hope that the opinions I generate will be a bit [...]