International FemDom Summit 2024

I was fortunate enough to attend the inaugural FemDom Summit last year and had so many positive interactions and experiences that I was positively bubbling about it.  It was a no brainer when the 2nd annual IFS was announced that I would be there.  And it did not disappoint. First, I have said this privately, but now I will say it publicly for the first time:  European Dommes (at least the ones I’ve met) seem much more supportive of each other than their American counterparts.  They lift each other up, freely offer insights and care about continuing the connection beyond the obligatory photo op.  I have been very happy with my choice to move here and be a part of this community.  The [...]

By |2024-06-06T11:20:46-07:00June 6th, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

68 Femdom Quotes to tell your submissive in training

Here are some simple commands or quotes you can get in the habit of telling your male submissive until his upper head cooperates with his lower one. Femdom quotes 1. "I am the boss in this relationship, and don't you forget it." 2. "Obey me, or suffer the consequences." 3. "Serve me, worship me, obey me – and I will reward you." 4. "I will dominate you in every way possible, and you will love every minute of it." 5. "You are nothing but a submissive slave, and you will do as I say." 6. "Your only purpose is to please me and worship at my feet." 7. "I will push you to your limits, and then push you further." 8. "You [...]

How to become a dominant wife

Female Dominance Training Becoming a dominant wife who demands submission and pegging in a relationship requires a combination of confidence, communication, and assertiveness. Here are some steps you can take to develop your dominant persona and establish your desired dynamic with your partner: 1. Embrace Your Dominant Side: Before you can demand submission from your partner, you need to embrace your own dominant side. Explore your desires and fantasies, and understand what turns you on about taking control in the relationship. Take the time to connect with your dominant energy and practice asserting your desires and boundaries. 2. Communicate Your Desires: Communication is key in any relationship, especially when it comes to exploring power dynamics. Sit down with your partner and have [...]

Lisbon FemDom Retreat

  Once again Madame Caramel put together a unique and unforgettable event.  For 3 nights and 4 days, Dominant Women were served by their slaves/submissive partners at an all inclusive BDSM event in the upscale suburbs of Lisbon.  The Quinta was luxurious and inviting.  The food was sublime and the company was nothing short of stellar.  We Ladies were able to relax and be ourselves while our subs were put through their paces and kept on their toes. ProDommes in attendance were: Mistress Rei Madame Caramel – Host Ezada Sinn Mistress Catastrov And two delightful lifestyle Mistresses. This was My first event of this type, but it won’t be My last.  The private venue and the limited number of attendees assured that we [...]

By |2024-05-13T10:28:46-07:00May 13th, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Spanking men – Spanking your male submissive

In the world of femdom, spanking is a common form of punishment, discipline, or erotic play used to assert dominance over a male submissive. There are several different types of spankings that can be administered, each with its own purpose and intensity. Here are the different ways for spanking men 1. Hand Spanking: Hand spanking is the most common form of spanking men in femdom play. It involves using the dominant's hand to deliver a series of slaps to the sub's buttocks. Hand spanking  your man can range from gentle taps to more forceful blows, depending on the desired level of intensity. 2. Paddle Spanking: Paddle spanking involves using a paddle or a similar implement to deliver harder and more intense blows to [...]

slaveboy’s Top 13 experiences of the London FemDom Ball trip

The FemDom Ball last October in London was a one of a kind experience, so I asked slaveboy to put together his top experiences. Escorting Mistress Ayn to the London FemDom Ball and serving Her and Her friends At the FemDom Ball afterparty, with potentially many onlookers, Mistress Ayn ordered me to lean against a wall and whipped me with no warmup Joined by Lady Scarlett at a dungeon where She and Mistress Ayn used a medical staple gun to give me a “mangina” (there is photographic evidence) With potentially many Mistresses and subs looking on, Mistress Ayn secured me to a bondage chair at the FemDom Ball afterparty and subjected me to severe breath play, using Her lovely breasts to “take my [...]

By |2024-05-07T10:28:32-07:00May 7th, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

30 ways for the woman to take charge in her relationship

1. Experiment with different roles in the bedroom and take charge of your partner's pleasure. 2. Engage in role-playing scenarios where you are the dominant partner. 3. Introduce the idea of using a strapon during sex to take on a more dominant role. 4. Communicate openly with your partner about your desires and fantasies. 5. Take the lead in initiating sex and setting the tone for the evening. 6. Use dirty talk and commanding language to assert your dominance. 7. Explore BDSM practices such as bondage and discipline. 8. Attend workshops or classes on dominant/submissive dynamics to learn more about power play in the bedroom. 9. Invest in sexy lingerie and accessories that make you feel empowered. 10. Practice assertiveness and confidence in [...]

What is BDSM: Defining The Terms & Practices

Welcome, as a professional dominatrix, the founder of KinkyCoaching, and a certified life coach I have often been asked to explain curiosities about Kink and BDSM. I get many questions through social media, my fans page, and at speaking engagements. This has prompted me to dedicate this blog to answering those questions. Before going into specific inquiries I think it is important to define some terms. If you are reading this you probably have of  BDSM, so let’s try and explain what it means.   What Does BDSM Stand For? BDSM, an acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism,  and Masochism, refers to a diverse range of erotic practices that involve consensual power exchange and intense physical sensations. It encompasses a variety of activities, [...]

By |2024-05-03T06:59:57-07:00May 3rd, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

What is A Power Exchange Kink in BDSM?

The world of BDSM is a rich landscape of sensual pleasures, emotional growth, and deep intimacy. Understanding this world can be daunting to those who have only experienced it through the distorted lens of media and popular culture. As a professional Dominatrix, I have extensive knowledge of the realities of kink and BDSM – and I love to share my experience with those thirsty for that knowledge.  And nothing I love to share more than my understanding of Power Exchange. So, let’s dive in. The acronym BDSM covers a few broad topics, like bondage and discipline or sadism and masochism. Another fundamental topic is Domination and submission. And at the core of D/s is consensual power exchange. What is Power Exchange? Power exchange empowers the Dominant by surrendering the [...]

By |2024-05-03T06:59:41-07:00May 3rd, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

How to have a handsfree orgasm for men through only anal penetration

There are a few ways that a man can achieve a hands-free orgasm through anal penetration. One common method is through prostate stimulation, which can be achieved by using a prostate massager or having a partner stimulate the prostate manually. The prostate, also known as the male G-spot, is a highly sensitive erogenous zone that can produce intense pleasure when stimulated. Another method is to practice relaxation and mindfulness techniques during anal penetration. By focusing on the sensations in the body and letting go of any tension or anxiety, it may be possible to achieve orgasm without the need for manual stimulation. It is important to communicate with your partner and make sure that both parties are comfortable and consensual with the [...]