I've written previously about our favourite Pro Domme in Toronto, Mistress Violet Mays.You can contact her at mistressvioletmays.com or at any time from the sidebar of my blog. If you do contact her, please don't waste her time. Book a session!My husband and I have played with her on multiple occasions. I also have allowed my husband to visit her "solo" from time to time. I know, crazy right? But I figure he should experience other dominant women one-on-one as it's a different vibe, and come back and tell me about it, which turns me on immensely. I trust Violet totally, and she always sends him back home hard and ready for me with a good tale (and a red blistered tail-end). She [...]

It's white and fluffy here!I got up and out of bed bright and early, and pulled on some work clothes to go outside and start shoveling some snow. On the way I shook david who was still in bed and told him to get his butt moving, that there's snow to shovel! Yay!So I got out there and started in.After a few minutes, david came out as well and started chipping in (well, actually, doing the lion's share to be honest, and certainly all the heavy lifting left by the city snowplows).I went back inside to get showered and made up and dressed for work, and to fix us some breakfast. I was just finishing up in the bedroom when david walked in. [...]

As you'll recall, my pen-pal darryl and I have been collaborating on a work of fiction. We are pleased to announce a new chapter for your reading enjoyment!The story is called "The Bargain", and was first presented in Fiction: The Bargain. Since then, we also published The Bargain (Chapter 2), and now The Bargain (Chapter 3). You can access an index of all my fictional works and co-productions at the page Fiction with Julie, perma-linked top right in the blog sidebar.The story The Bargain is about a young college-aged boy who received the strap across his palms from his young and pretty French Professor at the strict Christian college he attended with his sister. For this boy, a strapping at school means a [...]

I keep getting more and more new blog viewers. Thank you very much and welcome!  I thought I would take a post to re-introduce myself and my husband, and explain how our "Scening FLR" works.So, this is me,Here I'm holding one of my favourite implements: my strap (actually a double-thick, leather, twin-tailed tawse).This strap can really sizzle my husband's bare buttocks!I've been married to my beloved and highly accomplished husband david for just over ten years now. Before david I was quite the party girl, and travelled and had a lot of sex. Like many women, I've had some very bad experiences with men (like, horrendous), and, of course, some wonderful ones. As a result of some of my bad experiences, I got [...]

I recently sent a pen pal shopping for panties and a bra for himself at Victoria's Secret with lots of sales help. Just imagine how embarrassing that must have been!Well, no need to imagine, the full story is right here.I am sharing with you our private correspondence, with his permission. It might give you an insight into the wonderful email exchanges I have with my fans, and insight into a fellow kinster's intellect and emotions as they are put through their paces by me. I never publish anything without approval, of course.This is the same pen pal I corresponded with in the steamy summer of 2017. It culminated in a post called Ranch House Justice which was a bit of fiction I wrote [...]

I've just been made aware of a very promising new blog by its author, Daniel, called The Venus and Cupid. I've linked it in my blogroll on the side.Daniel is "in a healthy & happy monogamous relationship in which spanking plays a central role in our intimate life".The writing on the blog is truly excellent, and he selects mostly drawn artwork to illustrate. As of the time I am writing this, he only has 3 entries posted so far.Cupid's Spanking is an introduction to the blog and its author that ties into the Venus and Cupid theme. It's learned and esoteric in ways, but very interesting. Towards the end, Daniel talks about the intent of his blog.So it's in the spirit of joy [...]

I was a very naughty girl and got a spanking and then rough sex from my husband. I enjoyed every second 'cause I am a total slut! 😀When I'm in one of my submissive moods, I really "enjoy" (?) being "slut shamed". What I mean by this, is my husband using the filthiest and most degrading language to describe my sexiness. One could probably psychoanalyze this, but why bother.He had not made love to me for a while and I wanted some. I recall how our little whore friend Jessica had gotten what she wanted: "what does a girl need to do to get spanked around here?" So I took the same approach with my husband. And guess what? It worked!We're in the [...]

So what do you get for Christmas for the man who has everything? Well, if you're an open-minded, kinky wife like me, you get him what every forty-something male most desires: a cute and willing twenty-something girl to play with. Yup! I did that!I wasn't particularly looking, but I found her on social media. A young girlfriend-experience-type escort who did a coy post essentially asking what a girl needed to do to get spanked around here? Well! What with Christmas coming, me needing a gift for my husband, and being in a perfect position to help, of course I reached out!We exchanged email addresses. She was very prompt, courteous, and grammatical in her replies, and seemed very open-minded. I proposed several alternatives for [...]

My pen-pal darryl has been hard at work (under my demanding lash!) writing a continuation to our story, The Bargain, first presented in Fiction: The Bargain.So we now present The Bargain (Chapter 2) for your reading pleasure! The action moves along, very very, slowly, just the way I like it! But there are some really, really good teases in there that had me wetting my panties. I made very few edits to Chapter 2, as darryl is beginning to mind meld with what I like.I should also point out that I created a page that collects a number of my fictional works together and linked it top right. The index page is Fiction with Julie in case you are interested in catching up [...]

I had to spank my husband yesterday. Here's what happened.I get home from work quite late, well after dinner time. It was a long and frustrating day. I walk in through the back door that opens onto the TV room. The door is locked (as usual), and the light is off, so I am outside in the cold and dark stumbling for my keys. I get them into the door and open it. Right there is david, lounging on the couch, playing Mario Kart!I mean, he didn't even pause the game for a second to turn on the outside light or open the door for me. He heard me fumbling at the door for my keys. Five feet away in the cold outside. [...]