Fun Development!

Stay tuned. I have a very fun development upcoming!!!! Cannot wait to do it, and then, better yet, to blog about it!My sister Sue was out for dinner and drinks with an old friend and her youngish partner (lesbians all - they're gaining ground!). The young woman fairly recently graduated from university with a concentration in "Women and Gender Studies". Sue's friend is also very well educated. The three of them were sitting around and discussing "the patriarchy" (ha ha!). Sue mentioned she knew a person (me, but she did not indicate that at first) who keeps her man "in-line" using "ritualized kink". The younger lady was incredulous and thought it was all bullshit engineered by the guy. Sue told her she should [...]

By |2018-07-13T12:50:00-07:00July 13th, 2018|Categories: Strict Julie|Tags: |0 Comments

Husband Shamed at Cottage!

My husband just received a very public sexually-oriented shaming at the cottage this past weekend, followed by a jolly good spanking after I got him home again! He deserved it. At one level because he's a wonderful man and deserves whatever kinky fun I can come up with. But at another level because he just deserved it, as you shall see.It was a very hot Canada Day (July 1st) long weekend, and as per family tradition we were all up at the cottage enjoying the heat, the lake, and the beer and rosé wine. My Mom and Dad, David and I, my older sister Sue, and my younger sister Nancy with her husband and boys. I was told by my husband not to [...]

By |2018-07-03T15:40:00-07:00July 3rd, 2018|Categories: Strict Julie|Tags: |0 Comments

Cisco’s Session

I had a blog reader who goes by the name of "cisco" write to me. He wrote to thank me for my blog. He is a young Canadian man in his mid-twenties. He described a bit of his previous kinky experiences (limited) and said he was considering booking a Pro Domme. He mentioned Mistress Violet as I so highly recommended her. Well happy to say that cisco got up the nerve to book a session with Violet, and I have permission from both parties to publish. Yay!Mistress Violet MaysI would like to bring you along a bit on cisco's journey towards booking Mistress Violet, the anticipation, the preparation, and finally the scene itself.Here is some of the correspondence that led up to it. [...]

By |2018-06-23T09:18:00-07:00June 23rd, 2018|Categories: Strict Julie|Tags: |0 Comments

Fifty Random Photos

As I go around looking for the perfect photos to illustrate a blog entry, I often come across photos that intrigue me, but are not on point, so I save them in a special folder on my computer in case a situation ever comes up that might fit. I thought for this blog entry I would put some out that you boys might enjoy (me too!) and tell you what thoughts it inspires in me. Would be interested in your thoughts also in the comments.Note that some of these I might have used and just can't remember. Also, if  the photos are owned by you, please drop me a note and I will either take down or attribute according to your wish.Here they [...]

By |2018-06-16T04:15:00-07:00June 16th, 2018|Categories: Strict Julie|Tags: |0 Comments

Wife Spanked by Her Husband for being Naughty

As you all know, while normally very toppy, sometimes I get a little submissive streak growing in me. What set me off this time was a lengthy correspondence with a woman we shall refer to as "G".G first contacted me saying how much she enjoyed reading my blog: I love your blog! The way you own your sexuality is really inspiring!Well that was a nice compliment! I wrote G back right away, and we started a nice back and forth that persists and has become more intense.Turns out G spanks her husband J (initially upon his request) as I did with david, though she admits to not being as "over-the-top" as I on the surrounding activities. But she does seem super strict when [...]

By |2018-06-04T20:08:00-07:00June 4th, 2018|Categories: Strict Julie|Tags: |0 Comments

I discovered Spankingtube!

Recently a pen pal directed me to something on a site called Spankingtube. This was my first exposure to this. So much fun! I browsed a ton of them. But there were 3 special videos that really stood out from the crowd that I wanted to blog about. The first come as a pair. They are a couple, Chris and Joe, and they wanted to share their real-life domestic discipline with us, and it was absolutely captivating for me!   Joe had misbehaved. He stayed up late on his computer. Chris had asked him when he was coming to bed, and he answered that it would be in just a few minutes. Well he stayed on that computer for three hours. So he [...]

Husband Spanked Nude Across Trainer’s Knee

I'm afraid to report that david earned himself another spanking across his trainer's knee yesterday. And to add insult to injury he was required to strip completely bare for his very strict bare bottom paddling.It's true, I did incite it. He has been putting on weight lately and I need to nip that in the bud. A little note to Mags, his trainer, suggesting he be stripped, teased about his new belly fat, scolded about his eating habits, and soundly spanked across her knee (as a Mother would a child) before being most rigorously trained by her. Her answer?Sounds like a plan!!!!! I wasn't there, but I got the full scoop afterwards from david.My husband and his trainer went down to the basement [...]

Husband wants to be a Girl for the Night

femdomtraining: david came up to me the other day and asked (sheepishly) if he could be a girl for a night (and a “badly treated” one at that). Well of course he can! It’s unusual for him to ask this of me, as he is usually very bashful regarding his desire to cross-dress. Usually I have to “make him” (I know it turns him on, I’m not stupid). I think he is self-conscious that he is not a very pretty girl. Well join the club! In fact, he’s right, but I never let on. I always make it a point to tell him how pretty he is. And he’s so bashful and embarrassed when dressed girly, and extra submissivy, so I genuinely do [...]

Post-Shower Worship

There's something cute that my husband does sometimes in the morning. It happens if we are up at around the same time, and I am in the shower, and just getting out.If that all lines up, first thing I see when I open the steamy door is him naked, on his knees, holding a big fluffy towel. I just stand there and he proceeds to thoroughly dry me off, including my more intimate areas. When he is finished he gets down on his hands and knees and kisses my feet. One reverential kiss on each foot. Then he sits back on his heels and looks up at me. His knees are spread and he is quite erect. I walk up to him and [...]

I let my husband ejaculate into my mouth

Yes, it's true. I let him cum in my mouth. Not even a self-imposed punishment or anything.This is how it happened.It was Friday night. We met after work at a symphony concert. First of the season for us. Great program! Bach Toccata and Fugue for orchestra (Stowkowski Fantasia edition), Brahms double concerto featuring the TSO's two principals, and Beethoven's fifth after the break. We were both dressed for business. I was wearing high heels, woolen slacks, a white blouse with a ridged pattern in white, and a red jacket. He was looking handsome in a sports coat. It was the intermission and he had bought us a Haagen-Dazs ice cream bar to share. Very spontaneously, as I was sucking on our ice cream [...]