What did your closest friends said when they knew about your lifestyle with your boy and who told them about it? When out on nude beach do you ever make him wear a cage or a butt plug or a collar or anything like that? I'm sorry I'm just really curious?

While I’m out and proud when it comes to being a Domme to the people around me I’m also a firm believer of not outing my partner. I’ve had vanilla partners before just like I had subs before. When the occasion arises and my partner proudly and casually mentions being my sub, it goes without saying my instincts will kick in and our pda will change accordingly. Some of our friends are very well aware he’s my sub, others are not. When I “came out” people’s reactions went from why am I not surprised to whatever rocks your boat, babe to so, you have whips and shit? to mad respect for owning who you are. There was nothing but acceptance and respect. [...]

By |2018-01-25T12:26:53-08:00January 25th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

I am new & exploring being a domaninat. Is there any suggestions or guidance you would be able to give? I would like to be well informed & learn how to be stern. I feel I am much to soft. Thank you & anything would be much appreciated.

I was much too soft at the start too, so don’t worry! It’s all about confidence at the end of the day. I quite like looking at it like playing the villain in a movie. You get to be bad, you get permission to be bad, and it really is as fun as it looks. Best guidance I can give you is this one golden rule: If in doubt, be meaner. Kyle gave me that piece of advice himself when I was once struggling with some doubts about how I was Dominating him. Ultimately, subs want to feel powerless, they want you to be mean. Often, actually, a sub plays up and misbehaves specifically to challenge the Domme to strike him down [...]

By |2018-01-24T13:12:25-08:00January 24th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

Daily Teasing…

beautifulsecrets42: Okay, you have your husband, boyfriend, sub or whatever he is in the palm of your hand (instead of his own). But how can you keep him interested in pleasing you all day, everyday? You need to come up with some ideas on how you can tease him, humiliate him, or just plain make him think about getting into bed with you all day long. Here are a few ideas to get you started…While he is at work:-Make him wear a pair of woman’s panties to work under his regular clothes. Believe me, he will think about you all day…-Send him text messages at random times telling him erotic things, such as, how much you want to suck his cock, or [...]

By |2018-01-24T12:12:34-08:00January 24th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

Continued Growth – FLR style

i-love-my-keyholder-wife: Our life is quite full.  Family = lots of various kid activities. Add to that a wife that is in a masters program which includes an internship and you end up having difficulting finding personal time to develop a quality D/s FLR style relationship.  As noted in one of my earliest posts I went WAY too fast in sharing all of the things I was interested in and setting expectations unrealistically high (See Slow & Steady Wins The Race).  A few times I told her that maybe we should wait until she graduated so that we could take more time to make things work out.  She would always just say something along the lines of “just give me time - I want [...]

By |2018-01-16T15:15:47-08:00January 13th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

mschristined: Anything… We used to have quarrels about house work. Minor and light, but still…

mschristined: Anything… We used to have quarrels about house work. Minor and light, but still quarrels. No quarrels now ? And no, not all chores are his duty, only those I tell him to do. ? ??? CLF Source: FLRmschristined: Anything… We used to have quarrels about house work. Minor and light, but still... #flrblog #flrhypnosis

By |2018-01-16T15:15:50-08:00January 11th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

mistressvaliant: obedientpetsforuse: mistressvaliant: Few men…

mistressvaliant: obedientpetsforuse: mistressvaliant: Few men understand this. If you give me you, all of you, no games, no pretenses, all of you, I’ll give you the world. That’s what a man does, he gives his heart, his soul, his body to the woman that he loves, in return a woman gives everything to that man. Build him up, give him a safe place to be himself, listen when he speaks, let him be strong, but also allow him to be weak, protect him always, make him feel special, appreciate him, show him the pleasure that comes with letting go. It all stems from trust. Give me your time, make me feel important, cherished, worshiped. Tell me I matter. Tell me you can’t [...]

By |2018-01-16T15:15:53-08:00January 7th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

Better Spouses… (12)

livingmyflrdream: beautifulsecrets42: Getting started I hope the information in this article is enough to get you started with this new and wonderful aspect of your marital relationship. I promised this page on getting started, but I honestly don’t have much more to say on the subject that isn’t already covered in the site. But I will try to offer something helpful here. If your husband has already told you he is interested in trying Domestic Discipline: In this case your next step is easy. Take him up on it! You’ll want to begin by sitting down with him to lay out the rules. The rules may be as simple or as complicated as you like but they must include these two primary [...]

By |2018-01-16T15:15:54-08:00January 6th, 2018|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments

FemDom Ideas for Couples   

Husband Spankings – BDSM Husband Spanking Guidelines22 Proven Methods to Guide Your Submissive Man Deeper into SubmissionDominatrix Training – How to bring out your wife’s inner dominatrix Femdom Ideas Femdom, short for female domination, is a popular kink within the BDSM community where a female partner takes on a dominant role in the relationship. If you and your partner are a consenting femdom couple looking for new and exciting ideas to try both in and out of the bedroom, look no further! Here are some fun and creative femdom ideas to spice up your dynamic: 1. Role-play: Role-playing can be a fun and exciting way to explore your dominant and submissive roles. You can try dressing up in costumes, creating characters, and [...]

Let's get real! (Part 3/3)

willfullydenied: Every relationship has its own dynamics, and no advice is ever universal. Lara and I are both switchy. What works for us, may not work for others, but I still hope that our advice can help out other couples. We keep our kinky play light hearted. Even if earlier in the day she might be ruining my orgasms or slapping my junk around, we still make sure that we end the night cuddling up together, laughing at the latest episode of our favourite cartoons and shows. The most important advice we have is to always communicate with each other. Make sure you’re clear about what you want, what you enjoy and what you dislike.Things don’t always go according to plan. Sometimes [...]

By |2018-01-16T15:16:09-08:00December 20th, 2017|Categories: FLR|Tags: |0 Comments