It’s

In one of my weirder image associations, this somehow reminds me of the Michael Palin’s hairy unkempt man with staring eyes who introduced Monty Python’s Flying Circus. I can’t help but look at it and think “It’s…” followed by the famous theme music. They did a pretty wide variety of introductions using the character, but I don’t remember any involving cunnilingus. The watermark links to a dead site, but based on the name, I assume it’s the work of the fetish photographer Eric Kroll. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By |2017-04-21T14:26:07-07:00July 8th, 2016|Categories: Fm, Oral, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments

In the zone

I liked this short article on BDSM as a form of meditation. It doesn’t go into a lot of detail, but it captures some of my feelings on certain types of BDSM play. I’m by no means an expert on the topic, but the mindful meditation it describes does remind me of subspace. Some activities seem to lend themselves more than others to this kind of mental state. Personally I’ve found that needle play (particularly when decorative), heavy bondage and very formalized corporal punishment are particularly good for it. Moments of stillness combined with ritual and rhythm definitely help. In contrast things like predicament bondage, electrical play and energetic fucking really don’t work. They’re fun, but tend to constantly pull your mind out [...]

Wrapping the rope

Time for a change from politics. Let’s start the week off with something cute and sexy – a man having roped wrapped around his head. There’s also some interesting arm bondage going on. This is 1 of 4 images I found in this tumblr post. The original posters tumblr has been taken over by spammers, but I believe the rigger is June St Paul. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By |2017-04-21T14:26:18-07:00June 27th, 2016|Categories: Bondage, Fm, Gag, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments

More from the Brits

Kind of ironic that after my last post entitled ‘Stupidity in the UK – now slightly reduced‘, the country just voted to leave the EU. I’ll avoid going into the politics, and try not to alienate 50% of my UK readers, but I can’t say I’m a fan of that result. My opinion doesn’t really count for much however, as I’ve been away too long to have been able to vote. I’ll mark the moment with a quintessentially British femdom scene. This is an older man dressed as a public schoolboy, enjoying the English Vice, being administered by the strict English mistress Domina Liza for the English Mansion site. Feel free to imagine him as David Cameron or Boris Johnson (depending on which [...]

By |2017-04-21T14:26:23-07:00June 24th, 2016|Categories: Cane, Fm, High Heels, Photograph, Uncategorized, Uniform|Tags: |0 Comments

Stupidity in the UK – now slightly reduced

Regular readers will hopefully remember me covering some really stupid new laws in the UK that attacked freedom of expression and had a big impact on independent BDSM producers. Posts like this, this and this touched on some of the background and the law’s impact. The good news is that the agency responsibly for clamping down on many independent porn sites (ATVOD) has been stripped of its power. And this month Pandora Blake – creator of the Dreams of Spanking site – managed to get her original ban overturned on appeal. She’s written about it on a blog post here. Her site is now back up and running and accepting new members. So if you’re a spanking fan, and want to support a [...]

By |2017-04-21T14:26:25-07:00June 22nd, 2016|Categories: CFNM, Fm, Mainstream, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments

Rope gag and blindfold

My immediate thought on seeing this, was that it was from the gang over at Dude’s in Distress. It’s got the colorful rope bondage and sense of playfulness they bring to a lot of their images. However, having scrolled through their archive I can’t see it anywhere. Whoever created it (and leave me a comment if you know), I think it’s a lovely image. There’s the symmetry of the composition, but also the contrast in their situation. Her playful smiling expression balances nicely with his bound and drooling one. And something about the eye contact that isn’t eye contact is very hot. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By |2017-04-21T14:26:25-07:00June 21st, 2016|Categories: Blindfold, Bondage, Fm, Gag, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |1 Comment

Stylish puppy and Mistress

Continuing the puppy theme with a particularly fashionable and posed pair. Typical BDSM dog hoods are heavy on the BDSM and less of the dog aspect. This is clearly shooting for a much more realistic look. Personally I find it drifts a little bit into uncanny valley territory, but I have to admire the attention to detail. This is Mistress dollbaby with Puppy G. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By |2017-04-21T14:26:26-07:00June 20th, 2016|Categories: Fm, Hood, Latex, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments

Weirdly disturbing

This was meant to be a continuation of the dog theme from my previous post. I was looking for a fun puppy themed femdom shot. And while it does continue the dog theme, I find it more weirdly disturbing than fun. Obviously punching and hitting are all fair game in a consensual BDSM scene. But punching or hitting dogs is horrible and evil. So maybe I’ve drunk too much wine tonight while cooking dinner, but this just seems kind of wrong. A rolled up newspaper might be OK, but a fist? No. Bad domme. This is Nikki Nefarious and Deviant Kade shooting for Inescapable Bondage. Source: Femdom-Resource.com

By |2017-04-21T14:26:28-07:00June 18th, 2016|Categories: Bondage, Fm, Hood, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments

Painted Ladies

Miss Pearl has a thoughtful post on the way kink.com treats femdom as a separate thing from BDSM in general. It raises an interesting point that potentially reflects a lot of underlying assumptions people hold about femdom. Now with the thoughtfulness for the day contracted out to Miss Pearl, allow me to take conversation down several notches and tackle a silly pet peeve of mine on kink.com – makeup. Specifically, the makeup used on the dommes. It’s like they’ve borrowed Homer’s makeup shotgun. I realize this is probably not the biggest problem facing femdom erotica, but what the hell, I feel the urge to vent. For example, consider Mistress Madeline, who looks stunning in shots like this and this. So what would possess [...]

By |2017-04-21T14:26:32-07:00June 14th, 2016|Categories: Boots, Fm, Oral, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments

Fetishizing race

The Refinery29 site has a thought provoking article on the fetishizing of race – specifically in the case of Asian pro-dommes. It’s written by an Asian women who works in that field, and discusses her conflicted feelings about being able to command a premium price for a fetish she finds damaging. Anyone who has looked for a pro-domme in a major city will almost have certainly encountered this particular fetishization. Emphasizing physical desirability and attractiveness is a common part of a pro-domme website, and those descriptions can obviously span a huge range of body types and domme styles. However, in my experience there’s only one time race gets featured prominently, and that’s for Asian dommes. Typically I see three different approaches. Some Asian [...]

By |2017-04-21T14:26:36-07:00June 12th, 2016|Categories: Feet, Photograph, Uncategorized|Tags: |0 Comments