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By |2018-01-21T15:18:11-08:00December 27th, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

Owned By The Goddess

chastityinchastity: Owned by Her. The phrase every male needs to embrace. Be the best slave you can be for the Superior Woman who owns you.  Praise The Female Superiority! With time, women are taking a dominant role in their relationships. In order to achieve this goal, submissiveness of their male partners is very important. In such situations, male chastity cage can be of great use. Once they effectively sign away their rights to their own sexuality instead putting their efforts into the pleasure of the Woman they worship on their knees. Counter to what we’ve all been told, male sexuality in slavery is not all about the cock but about using that which you have to give pleasure to your Domina.Do what [...]

By |2018-01-21T15:18:21-08:00December 27th, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

Only the power exchange part of power exchange is required

In which Stabbity continues to mine Novices & Newbies for post topics Only the power exchange part of power exchange is required, and that’s only because it’s not power exchange if you don’t, you know, exchange some power. You are not even slightly required to do power exchange if you don’t fucking want to, but that’s a separate post. This post is about how pain play, bondage, verbal humilation, financial domination, 24/7 TPE, eye contract restrictions, slave positions, consensual non-consent, and every other kink you could possibly list are absolutely not required or expected parts of power exchange relationships. In the fetlife post that inspired this one, some poor submissive person was asking how they could make themselves be okay with “the verbal [...]

By |2017-07-08T22:11:58-07:00July 2nd, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

What if you want to go to a munch but you’re not ready?

Okay, so I’ve written a bunch about how you don’t have to go to a munch and how to meet people if you don’t want to go to one, but what do you do if you do want to go to a munch but you’re scared? Well, you’ve got to break down what exactly is scaring you so you can fix it! Are you worried about being outed? Most munches have a strict normal-street-clothes-only dress code and expect attendees not to go out of their way to draw attention to themselves (ie, thou shalt not stand up and tell a very loud story about your needle scene the other day) and don’t allow any sort of play, but not all munches are the [...]

By |2017-07-08T22:11:58-07:00June 25th, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

Experiment!

One of my readers came up with a really interesting experiment: she left a comment on my post 100 Submissive Men For Every Dominant Woman about how most online dating profiles attract exactly the kind of “submissives” I rant about in that post and how she’s looking for, in her words “a wholly submissive man.” If you’re thinking of responding to her, you’re going to want to at least skim that post first, that’s why I’m not linking directly to her comment. It’s a recent one, just look toward the end of the comments Source: Not Just Bitchy Experiment!

By |2017-07-08T22:11:59-07:00June 22nd, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

Shoutout to everyone who has a tough time with father’s day

I’ve started a tradition of supporting people who have a hard time with mother’s day, but I’ve neglected people who have a hard time with father’s day and I feel like a bit of a jerk for that. People who have a hard time with father’s day count too! Just because that day isn’t as much of a stuggle for me doesn’t mean you don’t matter! In my post about mother’s day I hit most of the points I’m going to want to about father’s day, so if this seems strangely familiar that’s why. If your father died and Father’s Day is an agonizing reminder, I see you. If you are trying to become a father but feel like a failure because your [...]

By |2017-07-08T22:11:59-07:00June 18th, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

You don’t have to play with other people!

So I was skimming Novices & Newbies and somebody asked about jealousy as a newbie to the scene. They seemed to be operating from the assumption that it was inevitable that they and their partner would play with other people and wanted to know how to deal with jealousy around that. Here’s the thing: you do not have to play with other people. You really, truly don’t. You do not have to grit your teeth and tolerate your partner playing with other people either. Now, to be clear, play does not necessarily involve sex – you can play without even touching anyone’s butt, and that’s a very common targer for impact play. That still doesn’t mean you have to be okay with your partner playing [...]

By |2017-07-08T22:11:59-07:00June 11th, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments

Why the lack of interest in online play?

It seems pretty common for dominant women not to have any interest in online play. Obviously I can’t speak for all women (and oh how I hate it when men ask questions as if women are a hive mind and one of us can speak for all of us), but here’s my take on it. First of all, by online play I’m talking about playing on cam where one person gives instructions and the other one carries them out and sexy chat, where the people playing describe what they would do to each other and how they would react. For me play is about personal connection, so my biggest stumbling block with online play is that it always seems to be strangers asking for [...]

By |2017-07-08T22:11:59-07:00June 4th, 2017|Categories: For Women|Tags: |0 Comments