The Montreal BDSM community is live in a world where everyone talks, but there are strict norms: don’t “make drama” and don’t out people. It’s held up by our heavy reliance on Fetlife as a social tool, which refuses to allow you to say anything negative about anyone, whether calling them out for alleged littering or a rape conviction. But this is my blog, so I can express that I think Dunter is a bad person who should be banned from the BDSM scene. Dunter assaulted me and violated my consent, and I have witnessed him violate the consent of someone else   Me: – While demonstrating pressure points, went from demonstrating on my fingers to violently twisting my nipple. I guess he … Continue reading Montreal’s Missing Stair: Dunter