Photo by Monstera Production on Pexels.com A swinger group I am part of recently posted the following question: Being able to say “no” in the lifestyle is important. What tips can you give to someone who finds it hard to say? I have written several times about consent on my page. You can read the summary of a rather pesky man who didn’t accept the word no here and here, (he really didn’t listen well). People who meet me in my classrooms or even just in casual dinner conversation would think that I was a strong-minded woman who doesn’t take shit from people. And, in some circumstances, they would be right. Truth is that I haven’t always been good at advocating for myself. In [...]

This set of questions originally appeared on TMI Tuesday on November 12 2013. It has also been answered on the blog of JR Vincente. 1. Did any teachers in your high school have sex with a student? Did any students act out on a teacher crush? There was a rumor of a female staff member who “initiated” several older male students. I have no idea how much fact was the foundation of this rumor. Excited teenagers liked to repeat stories of tight skirts and flirtatious poses, but honestly, I don’t know. The Ex-Policeman however, did have a dalliance with his high school art teacher. She initiated it. He assures me that he would never have even known how to approach a woman like [...]

It is summer in the land Down Under. Usually this means very hot and sometimes very humid days. Mr Jones and I took our new van out for a few days to a delightful spot near a creek. Despite the expected hot days, it was quite cool and rainy. The creek,, coming straight from the mountains, was quite cool, and we didn’t swim as much as we would have liked. It did provide a nice backdrop though.

Photo by Andjela Burzan on Pexels.com In the early days of our swinging journey, we were friendly with a couple who liked to go to nudist beaches. One time, I got into a conversation with him about a weekend away at a nudist retreat. Back then, I was much less comfortable with my body and being nude in public was something I was very much not comfortable with. I told my friend, “I am a swinger, not a nudist.”  Fast forward to now. I have spent a lot of time on yachts where clothing is very much reduced. I have explored sensual styles of dance and been to many lifestyle events, in particular, Pineapple camping. I have become much more comfortable in my [...]

I came across these questions on the blog of JR Vincente. I am a long-term fan of TMI Tuesday and will take any opportunity to participate. Originally, these questions were posted in November 2013. If your sandwich is cut in half on the diagonal, creating two triangles, do you bite the hypotenuse or the point? Specifically, the corner of the hypotenuse. If you eat the right angle corner, you are a weirdo and will lose all your fillings. Dipping a tortilla chip–do you dip the tip or the side of the chip to scoop the dip? This is a conundrum. It is the reason I don’t really like the triangular tortilla chips. I prefer to use a knife to scoop the dip onto [...]

In the land Down Under, it is Summer. While people in the UK and the US are celebrating the shortest day of the year, we are experiencing the longest. While it is not as long as the midnight sun of Alaska that I was excited to experience this year, the sun is well and truly making itself known by around 4.30am. I love to lie in bed and watch the day be born through my window. It makes for a delightful hue on the skin. To see who else is sinning this Sunday, click on the lips above.

Once we decided to take the plunge, we then had to actually take it! Photo by Edward Eyer on Pexels.com In an earlier post I wrote about the why of getting into swinging. As I stated in this post, how and why are a bit like two sides of the same coin. Wanting to do something does not mean that it will actually happen. A friend of ours has been involved in BDSM and swinging for many years. He remembers a time before internet dating and social media groups. Back then (yes I feel old because I remember this time as well!) People found swinger events by reading advertisements in the newspaper!! Imagine!! An actual, physical newspaper! So how did Mr Jones and [...]

Maybe it is the time of the year, but in the last few days, I have been remembering times spent on the water. I miss the freedom of being on the ocean. This year is the year of land based travel for us. I once felt very tied to the deserts of Australia but somehow the Pacific Ocean washed away all traces of the red dirt and replaced it with hues of blue and grains of sand. It has been many years since we travelled inland. I am not sure if the freedom will be the same. For this week’s Sinful Sunday, I have chosen an image that was taken during our last trip on the water. Here is to adventures in 2025. [...]

Finally, we have come to the end of the questions. Unless there are more that you, dear, slightly twisted readers, would like to add. 41. What is the dirtiest text you have ever sent or received? I struggle with these questions. What is normal to me is dirty to someone else. However, a text I have sent several times is a picture of me with the cum of another man in my mouth. He does like that. Or something like this. 42. Do you prefer professional or amateur porn? I prefer live porn. Which is by definition amateur. Professional porn seems so fake. Plus, those fake nails near sensitive bits of girls’ bodies always make me nervous. 43. What is your favourite blowjob/ [...]