Your man is overweight because he cannot lose the weight himself.  He needs someone to hold him accountable.  There must be rewards and punishments to be a motivating factor.  When you help him by holding him accountable, for the first time in his life, he will lose the weight without just talking about it anymore.  This is the day training file suitable for listening to during the day.  The hypnotic induction has been stripped out of the file.