Femdom Review: The Control Book by Peter Masters

Or, as an unofficial subtitle… A Manual on How to be That Guy. This is a bad book. It gets a lot wrong, wastes a lot of the reader’s time doing it. I’m going to be charitable and suggest that Masters is expressing himself poorly and would never endorse violations of consent. However, based on how this is written, the advice contained within has no place in a contemporary BDSM scene. It’s a pity because there aren’t really much in the way of (focused) resources about the behaviours you can use to compliment and express power dynamics. It mistakes talking a lot for making an argument and has enough problematic suggestions that it has no place in any kink curriculum. So if you [...]

Delightful, Cruel Dominance!

I received a long comment from Boot Gimp which I felt worthy of a blog posting in its own right. I wanted to make some observations on the conduct of Boot Gimp’s wonderful Mistress. How awesome she appears to be! Firstly, I just adore the technique of using deceitful empathy and exploitative encouragement to get a slave to talk freely and passionately about the shameful, pathetic perversities that affect them so deeply. And then when the shameful beans have been well and truly spilt, the Mistress switches mode and callously and scornfully mocks the slave for having such contemptible perversities of thought and personality. Secondly, that she invokes a new devastating rule making the slave miserable for no other reason than – just because she can, and informs [...]

The New Theme & Website Updates (Not Porn)

Hi guys, quick webmistress note: I’m in the process of giving the site a moderate facelift, so I’m giving you a heads up that some things might get broken in the process (eg the contact forms).  Rest assured that I will continue offering the free erotica I always have (the main reason you guys come out here). While I’m doing that, a few things may seem wonky or broken- I apologise for any problems you may encounter during the transition, as well as any wonky layouts. I feel like the blue theme wasn’t helping you get the content you were looking for, and I’m happy to take feedback from you about anything you feel needs to be adapted or anything you’re finding particularly [...]

Easy Deep Humiliation Rules

There is a simple protocol, once training on the protocol is concluded, to cause great humiliation to your sissy. Once he is all dressed up in his finery, and has completed any chores you may have given him, or at any time there is nothing to occupy him and he presents himself, you simply ask, ‘Pansy-piece, what would you like to do now?‘ He has been trained to always answer this question by saying, ‘Please Mistress, please can I play with my dollies now.’ Obviously his shame is intense and made worse with what follows. You respond by saying, in a very patronising, sarcastic tone, ‘Well of course you can play with your dollies pansy-piece, if that is what you want to do. Now sit [...]

Femdom Review: Safe Words by Drury Jamison

Title: Safe Words By: Drury Jamison Tl;DR: Your standard thriller romance, with a jaded cop hero, but  bonus femdom self discovery. There’s a handful of books with this title (and zip between the covers to do with it, other than an offhand romantic joke) but Jamison breathes some pleasant life into a by the numbers plot. A killer is stalking femdoms, and our heroine, Detective Eleanor Silver, ends up discovering a bit more about her own desires over the course of the investigation. Inevitably she has to become a femdom to catch a killer and the guy helping her out takes things in an equally real direction. Also she’s a troubled cop with a drinking problem and a great deal of dedication to her [...]

Three diaper chastity for females

You may recall from earlier posts about the manual I am writing, that it seems there is no chastity device which can prevent a female from using clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm and traditional chastity belt devices are simply to prevent penetration. I will say that perhaps if a female slave in a chastity belt has no access to vibrators or massagers then clitoral orgasms may be prevented, but I have heard of women pressing themselves against the washing machine on spin cycle to obtain the required vibrations! And then there are sneaky slim fingers getting to the clitoris under the belt. However, a very shame faced Play-toy was the guinea pig in my experiments lab earlier this week and I can confirm that three [...]

Distressed slave fretting from a tiny risk

In the UK the summer brings with it the fun of having bitch-boy outdoors while dressed as a little girl and holding one of his dollies. The outdoors magnifies his miserable fears so much. Especially if he is locked outside while my girlfriend and I sit in the conservatory flicking through magazines, laughing and canoodling. bitch-boy with the hem of his little girl dress coming down only to his hips, all the ribbon bows, the pink Mary Jane shoes padlocked on. My garden is secluded in the normal course of events. But horse riders atop of horses passing close by (and they are always women where I live), or a neighbour up a ladder working on house or tree maintenance would see into the [...]

Real Life Femdom

Journal 11 is now available in the iTunes Book Store. And also now on Kobo. It remains available as a paperback and ePub on LULU.com and for Nook, Barnes and Noble, KOBO, etc. Source: Ms Scarlet

Inside the Indoor Beach Play Party

What did I do over the long weekend? It’s blazing hot, with the temperature dancing around the high end of 20 C or even over 30 C and nasty humidity. The pools are full of screaming children and all my friends were mewling on their social media feeds that they were too hot to fuck. Never-mind,  a little AC and the right theme, and I was all set for a great play party. I hold these parties once every couple of months, inviting an exclusive group of my trusted friends to romp and explore and be our kinky, sexy selves.  This isn’t your mother’s play party, with all the fetish protocol and no sex attitude that entails. You won’t find some person in [...]

Teasing with sheer

I wonder if sheer clothing (also called mesh clothing)  is as much as a tease to most slaves as it is with both my male and my female slave. There are two Tumblr sites (ONE) , (TWO), which I have come across which focus on sheer clothing. Sheer clothing on me, seems to affect my slaves more than my nakedness. I wear this dress with nothing underneath and my pert B cup breasts seem to be such a tease. Far more so than if I was topless. And I regularly wear this dressing gown and six inch heeled platform mules when I get up in the morning which sends poor denied bitch-boy mad.     Source: Ms Scarlet