To all you followers of this blog, I hope you have a great Xmas break and Santa brings you some lovely BDSM prezzies, or none as the case may be. I hope the Dommes are waited on hand and foot, get to satisfy their depraved and wicked tastes and have lots of lovely orgasms. I hope the subs, are exploited, and used and abused, suffer for the pleasure of their Domme and remain full of the desperation of unrequited  sexual desire – denied release until at least the new year. They will sleep the deep contented sleep of the dominated, abused submissive. Source: Ms Scarlet Happy Xmas Dommes and subs

Thank you to all who responded to my last post. Some great ideas. I list my favourite 4 below. Links are in the comments section of the previous post. Nothing. No presents at all. And given the number and expense of my pile of presents, how cruel! The dildo from which liquid can be squirted. So good for face, anal and oral humiliation training of a cum-dumpster. Perhaps 2 of them for spit roasting by my girlfriend and I. We could ‘spurt’ at the same time! The top of the range metal cock ring, full of  spikes. The KTB. The tally counter, (stuck above a mirror mounted dildo). LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual.     Source: Ms Scarlet [...]

Most years at this time of year, I have posted about the presents I have bought for bitch-boy. Implements for torture and discipline, items for humiliation, equipment for sensory deprivation bondage. BUT this year, I seem to have just about all I need. No items spring to mind that would increase his subjugation beyond its current extreme level. Perhaps a result of a Femdom relationship now over 15 years old. So I throw open to you dear followers a request for ideas. I hold out little hope for a suggestion that I will act upon; such is my contentment with my array of paraphernalia, so please don’t be offended if I don’t act upon your suggestion, BUT  who knows, you dear followers often surprise me with [...]

I finally have a review of my BDSM manual on the Amazon United States site. And it is 5 star and very kind indeed! I am so pleased and very grateful to this Amazon Customer. Amazon Customer This is the best book ive read about how to embrace domination, and it is very practical as well.  Wow. I have several books about domination, and Ive been practicing the lifestyle for several years, and this book is still amazingly helpful for me. It is very practical and real. I love the perspectives, the dinamics and the psychology. Im loving it.   Link to My published BDSM Manual   Source: Ms Scarlet Praise indeed

Labels are a problem. I wanted to post on the subject of a Domme wife or girlfriend of a male sub and the Domme wife or girlfriend cuckolds her male sub through a relationship with another woman, involving sex. And the male is in chastity, does not get a full orgasm often and never gets to have sex of any sort with his wife/girlfriend. I think the label of cuckolding properly applies, but either one or both of the women can be bisexual instead of lesbian. So, labels aside, hopefully you know what I am describing. You understand the scenario. It is my favourite thing in the world and I get disappointed by the limited amount of relevant material there is on the internet. At one end of [...]

I watched a TV programme on the development of sex robots yesterday. Trailer here. Robot dolls that among other things, can engage in interactive conversation, use facial recognition to differentiate between people they ‘know’ and display distinct emotions through expressions in their facial ‘muscle’ movements. In time, the dolls will be amazing I have no doubt. The developers were focussing on doll personalities that would be highly sexual, wanton and lustful in nature. BUT………. I immediately thought about how beneficial they could be as robot Dommes for submissives who cannot find a real life Domme. I thought about how I would love to provide the programs and phrases the robots could use in various scenarios. To start with tease and denial.                     I imagined the robots could be remotely [...]

I posted about the wonderful Mistress Rebecca a couple of months ago. She continues to evolve at a rapid pace. And documents that evolution in her fantastic blog. If you failed to note my link to her blog before, do so now! Mistress Rebecca’s blog.   Source: Ms Scarlet Another Mistress quickly evolving

One thing that has changed since I gave up work is poor bitch-boy finding himself home alone in extreme bondage rather often. I am amazed over how many hair, nail, beauty and other appointments I attend each week. Some last half hour, some last three hours. The appointments were beginning to infringe on the number of consecutive days each week I wanted bitch-boy to be subjected to ‘full-on’ domination. (No vanilla life distractions.) My solution has been to leave bitch-boy in ‘cotton bondage’ while I attend appointments, rather often. I describe cotton bondage in my published manual in some detail. In a nutshell it is bondage from which he is only allowed to escape if there is a fire or a burglar. It is [...]

Both darkhorsesub and slave helpfully commented on my last post that the Domme in the video is known as Obey Melanie (formerly Barefoot Princess). I have seen many of her videos and as far as I am concerned she exhibits the perfect attitude and demeanour of a perfect Domme. I am not a huge fan of some of the things she inflicts on her subs BUT I am a HUGE FAN of her perfect attitude and demeanour. When I thought about writing this post, I began to realise it might be difficult to put into words what her perfect attitude and demeanour display. To begin with there is ABSOLUTE PITILESSNESS. She is going to do exactly what she wants to do and is not at [...]