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Ignoring heartfelt pleading and tears

I do point out in my BDSM manual that one way to very deeply affect a sub and get delicious arousing pleasure as a Domme is to get the sub to the point where they are truly pleading with all their heart and soul for something to happen, or to not happen, or to stop happening. (But one can go further, see levels 2 and 3 below.) Level 1 – A sub truly begging with all its heart, has no doubt they are utterly helpless, the domination is REAL and they are at the mercy of a cruel person. I would almost say it is essential. Level 2, Once the begging with all its heart has been attained, add a mind-fuck, the sub must believes the mind [...]

Puzzles and Problems

It’s there, but goodness only knows where it is. No amount of standard levers will shift this particular boulder, slap him, push him, sit on him and none of these things push him there. It’s day 3 of his visit and he’s finishing off the crunchy bakery bread toasts and fluffed up scrambled eggs I made for him. We’ve been having sex in a cycle of squirming, fucking and recovery for the last two days and I am giving my cunt a break after a combination of size and first time tension has left it a little beat up. He’s giving his cock a break, every so often checking it for bruises with the care of a man tending to horse after [...]

Problems with Lulu?

I apologise for asking about such a boring matter, but has anyone experienced a technical problem with purchasing my BDSM Manual from LULU.COM? I have to say my BDSM Manual has been ‘flying off the shelves’ from day one from the other outlets like AMAZON KINDLE and continues to do so, and although the same was true with LULU.COM to begin with, there has been a very sudden drop off with LULU.COM. Given nothing has changed with the outlets, I have to ask the question about LULU.COM. Perhaps I should change my paperback outlet from LULU.COM to Amazon, but I have several reasons to not want to use Amazon for this. LINK to my published journals. LINK to my published BDSM manual. Source: Ms [...]

More from Christine M

Well my last post seems to have created many admirers of Christine M. Admirers who have clearly not been reading the comments to posts; as her comments on posts are so often indicative of her amazing, merciless, dominance. I therefore provide a list of the posts on which she has commented. 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, (Obviously, I had bitch-boy do the grunt work for this post.) Source: Ms Scarlet More from Christine M #femdomhypnosis

On The Cultural Limits of Conventional Femdom

So in addition to neglecting my femdom blog, I’m an avid participator in nerdy hobbies like roleplaying. Realistically this has always intersected with my sexuality- once I was charting my path beyond my parents running a tabletop for me. I got interested in it partially because my head craves weird dynamics I can’t find in real life. Since my teens I’ve deliberately played with this. I participated in a large LARP organization recently, where I played a stupidly popular character. And what I discovered about this was how much people LOVE a dominant woman. Grown ass men calling me Mommy. Piles of people pledging fealty. Going out there and being me was a crucial part of the success of the character because the [...]

Ignoring the flowing tears

Yesterday I received a comment from the wonderful Christine M. I find it so delicious and delightful I have provided a slightly edited copy here. The full account is in the comments section on my post, ‘No videos of this activity on the net.’ Dear Mistress Scarlet I meant to write more promptly on your topic of ‘Tedium’, but it soon became an epic and took longer than expected. I must be honest, I wrote this for my own memories too as I did have such a good time! I too love the power of providing total control and misery at the same time. It provides me a most wonderful sense of power; and deprives the submissive what they ultimately desire most, the Mistress’ attention. [...]

Ending 2017

For Auld Lang Syne, whatever the heck that means. 2017 is over. Breaking up with Wildcard has led to a unique amount of closure because it was so non-adversarial. I like to think it was even heathy, if painful. The longer apart I am from him, the more I find myself appreciating him as a person and the resentment I was starting to accumulate abating. It’s been less productive than I’d like these last few months, but I suppose I have also enjoyed a certain degree of relaxation. I would write, but I don’t necessarily feel the appropriate level of simultaneous distance and investment to churn something out. I both need to have perspective if I talk about Brick (or anyone), because of [...]

BDSM manual

A lovely snippet of generous praise for my: Gratifying Domination – Submissive Contentment Manual. …………………………. And “A Guidance Manual” is the best work I have read on this diverse multi-faceted topic. THIS LINK TO PURCHASE Source: Ms Scarlet BDSM manual #femdomhypnosis

Seeing the comments

It has come to my attention that some followers of this blog read it on their smart phones, but have not realised that one must click on the title of each post in order to see the comments relating to that post. I thoroughly recommend doing so as the comments often include snippets describing the details of others’ lives in an FLR lifestyle. Fascinating details often describing regimes far more intense and ‘extreme’ than mine. In addition there are often links to videos and to other sites of relevance. I would suggest going back to a post a week after it has been posted to view the comments. 99% of comments are left within a week of the posting date. Source: Ms Scarlet Seeing the comments [...]

No videos of this DS activity on the net

‘This Activity’ is – using time and tedium as a torture. Three days locked in a basement with only a bucket. The light switch on the outside of the room to a single bare bulb hanging from the ceiling. The victim in a straight jacket. A bucket the only furniture. The light turned on and off randomly without the Domme entering. The Domme entering from time to time to kick the sub about, or pour a jug of urine over the head of the sub, or going to work on him with a single tailed whip. Stale bread stamped into the dirty floor as food. A urine / water / spit mix in a bowl the only drink for the sub. No words ever spoken by [...]

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