A strong theme in one section of my manual, (to be published later this month I promise), may be controversial. I suggest, and set out how, the dominant ‘satisfies’ the ‘needs’ of the submissive. I imagine there may be dominants, and perhaps even submissives, who in response cry, ‘Hold on, the dominant should be able to do what they want – not be caring about the submissive’s ‘needs’!’ Well, I am not making this proposition out of altruism. I am making it out of selfishness. I believe the ultimate position for the dominant is to have a submissive so in awe that they could not bear the prospect of leaving the dominant, even though they endure a huge amount that they really dislike. So the dominant [...]

Well I have to say, judging by bitch-boy’s reactions, the stinging nettles at this time, (quite tall, big leaves, no flower buds yet), are VERY, VERY effective and clearly produce considerable pain that has an initial agonising hit of about ten minutes, but then continues to be highly uncomfortable for over 4 hours. I have not needed the sunglasses pouch. Just the nettles blanket and a bit of whipping with the nettles to that little sensitive organ, (which becomes hard knowing what is in store if it does get hard), and his sobbing is a delight. A serious turn-on for me. And since the mirror was installed bitch-boy gets to see exactly what I am doing, how relaxed I am and the merciless expression on my dedicated face. [...]

One of my very favourite on-line stores, Birch Place Shop, sent me an email alert to a new range of products and clothing they are selling. Included in the selection was L.D.B. Estrogen Pills. The results of taking the pills include: Skin firming and tightening the skin – smooth and soft, Enhanced breasts, More slender limbs, Wider hips, Decreased testosterone. I know some males who long to look like females would love to take these pills, BUT, how frightening for a reluctant sissy, like bitch-boy, who hates being a sissy and dearly would like to be a man all the time! I thought, fellow Domme sisters, that it would be very amusing to buy a bottle of the pills.  When they arrive and unbeknown to him, [...]

I thought I should follow up yesterday’s post explaining my source of my many orgasms on a typical full-on day. Once bathing and shaving and my dressing is done, I have bitch-boy make me brunch. (He gets none.) While I eat, he prepares all the equipment needed for me to play with his boy’s bits on the sofa. When all is ready and I have finished eating, I allow him to lick me to my first orgasm. The only time he will have contact with my body that day, for which he must thank me. He is not allowed to put his hands on me but, as a treat,  he is allowed to kiss the insides of my long firm thighs before he [...]

I don’t think I have written about numbers of orgasms since I last wrote a post stating that six orgasms in a day was exceptional and wonderful. I have been lax in updating on this. Over the last six weeks or so, I have been enjoying between 9 and 12 MASSIVE orgasms each full day of dominating bitch-boy. Its not just the number, but the intensity too. I have put this down to reaching a point in my evolution where I now truly have zero guilt, zero shame and zero self-consciousness while exercising my selfish hedonism, absolute power and merciless cruelty. Of course, it is symbiotic, because although bitch-boy hates almost every single second of those long days, his submissive soul is overwhelmed with the feelings it needs for it [...]

My Tumblr site following is slowly growing. It has reached over 12,000 now. It is always good to know there are dominants who share my eclectic tastes and submissives who are affected by those tastes. It is 4 years since I set bitch-boy the task of reposting images to worsen his frustration. LINK to my published journals detailing my day-to-day perverted life Source: Ms Scarlet My Tumblr site of perversity

It seems from all the helpful comments I got on my last post that the USA has no singe word to describe the land attached to a house which is laid out as a combination of lawns and flower beds. In the UK described as a ‘garden’. (And in Australia, Canada and New Zealand.) I will have to modify my translation section in my published volumes and my forthcoming manual (definitely to be published in May). I am a little amazed that when a USA house has an area of land laid out as a mixture of flower beds and lawn, there is no single word to describe that area, but I love that one never stops learning in life, if one chooses to never stop learning. [...]

Before getting into the meat of this post, I have to say I do not know exactly what a pretty flower filled garden is called in the USA. I always try to use words that work on both sides of the Atlantic: so, diaper not nappy, panties not knickers, and so on. But when it comes to my pretty flower filled garden, is that really called a ‘yard’ in the USA? Perhaps my lovely USA based blog followers could educate me on this. Any way Spring is here and things are growing fast in my garden. I will soon be out there reading and naked sunbathing for a good amount of time. A walk around it yesterday reminded me of just how many [...]

A couple of comments from Pink Gimp on my 1st April post got me thinking. Pink Gimp has an amazing Mistress who has thought up a delightful system which requires Pink Gimp to request to do corner time. It reminded me of a report from a very cruel chastity Mistress and the regime she developed. Before she began to dominate her husband he insisted/forced her to give him blow jobs but did not like to orally return the favour. She had loved to be licked by previous boyfriends. Then there was a turn of events and she obtained COMPLETE power over him. She had him in an inescapable chastity device, and then began her regime. He was only allowed to orgasm each time he [...]

My thanks go to the Mistress of boot-gimp for providing me with the three little words that can bring so much miserable subjugation to a slave. ‘Until further notice’. I have for a long time implied the meaning of those words to certain activities without using the words. Just before turning on the white noise, when putting a slave into sensory deprivation bondage, the slave has no idea how long they will be in their miserable bondage, although I do usually advise them of the minimum time it will be, and occasionally announce a duration which is actually a mind fuck time. Also, when setting them off on colouring-in with their dolly , the ‘until further notice’ situation is implied. However I have used the words for [...]