No
"No" is incredibly appealing to him, if you do it right. Wear the most revealing outfits while he is caged and tease him frequently. Tell him how big of a turn on it is to know he is locked up.
subboyjoy: wafuu-chastity: My feet/legs fetish makes it quite…
subboyjoy: wafuu-chastity: My feet/legs fetish makes it quite easy for my wife to keep me down (literally and figuratively). As such, we built most of our D/s relationship on that. It may even play a more important role than the chastity device, in the sense that my wife knows how to use it to dominate me. On the other hand, chastity is a something we are both still experiencing and adjusting. So, I think it’s fortunate that we had that “tool” to play with in the earliest stage of our D/s relationship, but this makes me wonder about one interesting question I hadn’t consider before: what if I was dominated with something that doesn’t turn me on. Amongst the things I do as a [...]
show the key
I'm a fan of publicly wearing the key to his cock cage. So what if some assume it's a cock cage... You may allow that perception, or soften it with a "he gave me the key to his heart". It's fun to let him answer what the key is, and watch him turn a shade more red, while probably deferring to the key to his heart answer.
to be or not to be
Ladies... If you are considering chastity, consider no more... Just start now. Men... If you are intrigued, but on the fence on chastity... Just plunge in. It will transform your relationship
My voluntary new life of chastity
Hi. I'm an almost 51 year old man who was very sceptical of allowing myself to be put into chastity. I'd always believed that my cock was going to swing free FOR LIFE. However, I recently had a conversation with a 30 year old coworker who wears her husband's cock cage key around her neck, very proudly for all the world To see. We were working on a project alone together and I asked her why her husband consented to chastity. She described how wonderful their sex life has been since she LOCKED him up, limited HIS orgasms and required him to service HER desires at all times. I'll admit I was intrigued and VERY turned on. That night, I stopped at a [...]
Femdom Male Chastity Training
You own the key... You make the rules, and control his release. If you set a release date for him, occasionally use that release date to make him BEG you you extend his chastity sentence. He may not want to at first, but smother him with love, and tell him you will make it worth his while. He will be putty and so much more your submissive! This will get easier after time, and makes his release so much more precious!
limits
Once you start down the road to a female led relationship, you will find him spellbound, and drawn deeper and deeper under your control. You do have to continue pushing the boundaries, at times, to make sure he continues growing more submissive, and understands your absolute rule
thanks for chastity
It is important to keep programming how much he wants chastity. Some days he may want out, so while he is in chastity, make him beg for it, or ask for more time. It internalizes his desire for it, and if you purr rewards at his right attitude, he will come back for more.
chastity freedom
As soon as he is in chastity, start wearing your sexiest wardrobe around then house. Greet him topless, and carry on a normal everyday conversation. He will oogle you, and probably not hear a word. If so, grab his cock cage and tell him he needs to be submissive to your needs or he has no chance of escape. Chastity is such a delightful training ground. Flaunt everything you have.
Chastity needs tease
Putting him in chastity without teasing him mercilously is like... A glass of water without the water. What's the point? From the moment you own his key(s) and he locks that cage, start teasing him. He will whimper, but he'll love it.