So apparently Google had a data breach and it affected my account. Ultimately it lead to me being locked out of my account for a week. Ugh! Not a good solution in today's world.  Anyway....have patience with me as I catch up on e-mails and comments. I was pleased to see continued activity in the comments section of posts. I am enjoying the discussion in Trina's post - Punishment Can Arouse and Still Work.  I especially like the depth of the comments and that the discussion is bringing to light the deeper complexities of punishment and discipline. The more we dig into these dynamics and understand them, the better we can effectively incorporate them into our relationships. I am so proud of you [...]

Let me start by saying that It has been great to see an increase in comments on the blog and that there are new people commenting and more Females engaging in the conversations. I hope the activity in the comments continues to grow. Whether you are new to WLM or experienced, I encourage you to comment and share your experiences, questions or thoughts. The discussions in the comments often lead to great insights and ideas that others can apply to their own relationship. Hearing from others also helps to validate that WLM is real, is beneficial, and that you are not alone in your quest. Thank you all for your continued engagement.Having said all that, I am very pleased to publish another post [...]

Below is just a random collection of things relating to our personal relationship which I have found to be beneficial and which I feel contribute to the continuing success of our marriage. Some of these may have an FLR flavoring to them, but most I think are pretty generic and would apply to all types of relationships. Hopefully these may come in handy to some of you, even if its just as a reminder of something which you already do or which is already some part of your life, but just have forgotten to do or think about lately. Some of these might come in handy with Valentines day just around the corner…..1) I still love it very much when my husband randomly and [...]

One aspect of the Wife Led Marriage (WLM) lifestyle that I have come to enjoy is permanently modifying the behavior of my husband. I get a thrill out of using my feminine power and control over him to change his habits, his thoughts, and mindset. I am not talking about fantasy or physical control. I am talking about a deep emotional change in his being and the way he thinks. It was my husband who first brought this concept to light for me. It was about a year and half after our formal WLM began, that he confessed to me some deep thoughts on behavior change. He did not call it behavior modification and I don't think at the time he realized how [...]

I am thrilled to publish another guest post written by a Female. In this post, Debbie provides great examples on how she measures her husband's performance. Debbie also has a profile full of great information in the profile section. Thanks for being an amazing Goddess Debbie and contributing to the blog!   -MzKayleeI loved your post concerning new year's resolutions. You come across like an Ivy League MBA when you say “It's important to be specific and to identify the steps to achieve your goals.” One of my mantras from the business world that I apply in my FLM is “You can't manage what you can't measure”. All employees at work have specific objectives - why shouldn't my submissive husband?So, I set out to specifically define [...]

Special thanks to AJ for her continued contributions to the blog. In this post she raises thought provoking questions to women. I encourage our Female readers to comment and provide your thoughts opinions. To learn more about AJ, read her profile page in the profile section of the blog. Not only does she share information about herself in the profile, but she provides great advice to those wanting to start or maintain a WLM/FLR  -MzKayleeWhy is it never good enough? Why am I never good enough for him?Unfortunately, I think this is the response that a considerable percentage of female readers may initially have when their significant male other introduces them into the desire for FLR based activities. I personally don’t think its at [...]

 Clothes are never ‘just“ clothes. They convey meaning, sometimes about socialstatus, or role expectations, sometimes about power, and definitely aboutgender. When we hear the word “panty” or see a skirt or a dress on a hanger, weimmediately think female. Certain manners of dress (a business suit or militaryuniform) imply authority, and others (semi-nakedness, nakedness, or a maid’suniform) signals submission.Some items of clothing have been unconsciously fetishized in early imprinting(more common with males, obviously), and once they become a part of thepsyche, generally this does not change. Submissive males often feel increasinglysubmissive around women dressed in leather, for example, or (my personalweakness) dressed in heels, nylons, and a business suit.There seems to be two broad categories in the use of female clothing with thesubmissive [...]

When it comes to winter time, one of my favorite things about having a slave husband is that he keeps my car warm for me. On cold mornings he gets up, starts my car and makes sure all snow or ice is cleared away before I leave for work. He is also required to place my work bag in the care for me. This past weekend it was very cold outside and so I made him drive me around for errands that I had to do. At each place, he dropped me off and picked me up at the door. While I was inside he remained in the car and kept it warm for me. That was his only purpose for me. I [...]

A few reminders about this blog:1 You are welcome and encouraged to submit guest posts on topics related to wife led marriage, female led relationships, and female domination in general.  Please make sure your posts are thoughtfully written and spell checked before submitting. Posts can be sent to MzKaylee101@gmail.com. Include a Title with your post and how you want your name to appear.2. I encourage you to complete a profile page, which is a Q&A template about you. Profile pages are in the margin on the right side of the blog. The template is at the top of the list. Simply fill it out and e-mail to MzKaylee101@gmail.com. I also suggest that you read the existing profiles. There is a lot of great [...]

In this post, I will address one of the topics brought up in my Topic Ideas post: https://femdomthinktank.blogspot.com/2021/10/topic-ideas.html .Suggested topic: "The role of a male chastity cage in and FLR.. Is it really a necessity? Is voluntary chastity acceptable or do you feel the man will always cheat?"Before addressing the questions posed, it will help to provide some background information on chastity for those who are not familiar with it. Chastity, by strict definition is the refrain from having sex. While most WLM/FLR couples do not enforce 100% chastity, it is very common for couples to use chastity as a tool to control when the male can have sex and also to prevent him from masturbating. This is typically referred to as orgasm control. Orgasm [...]