There are many reasons why women involved in an female led relationship may incorporate tools into the relationship such as orgasm management, chastity, pegging, and discipline. Most of those reasons I’ve already detailed in some of my previous posts on this site, and those previously discussed items revolve around enhancing sexual and domestic enjoyment for both partners in the relationship. What I have not touched upon in those previous posts are some additional, not widely discussed, more practical reasons why the female partner and for that matter also the male partner, may find benefit from using these FLR practices.As we all know many men, particularly those of middle aged years and beyond, but also surprisingly large numbers of younger men, experience various issues [...]

 ?I have written about so many topics related to Wife Led Marriage over the last few years. I am honestly running out of ideas of things to post.  What are some topics that you all would like to hear about?I would love to pose a question to everyone and have people submit opinion posts providing different view points to answer the question.  What are some good questions that can be posed that would generate a good discussion and different opinions? Topic Ideas? The Ultimate Male Chastity Key Holding Experience

There are several great insights found in Evan's profile, which I recently published in the profile pages of my blog.  One item that I'd like to mention is the sentence highlighted below in purple. How have things evolved or changed with you and as a couple in your WLM/FLR over time since starting the WLM/FLR? How does this compare to how you were prior to the WLM/FLR?Worlds better. Instead of constantly complaining about what I wish I could have, I've learned to accept my role with joy and humility. Earlier, she would try to accommodate me by giving me what I thought I wanted, but eventually she figured out that what I really wanted was to be forced to do whatever *she* wanted.This is a challenge [...]

When I came downstairs in the morning, there was Thomas, in the kitchen, barefoot and in his robe, wiping down the counter. My coffee and breakfast were made and both were packed in "to-go" containers sitting next to my lunch bag- all ready for me to take to work. He had already loaded my work bag into my car. He greeted me with a cheerful "good morning Goddess." How wonderful for me. He is so well trained. This is how my week day mornings start every day.I couldn't help but think of how much Thomas is like the 1950s housewife. He is my housewife....err...I mean house husband. Except that I think the house husband is an improvement over the housewife.  Who say men [...]

So we had one of our devotion nights the other day. I had my husband get naked and put on a studded collar and cuffs. I've not yet gotten him the devotion outfit that I described in my earlier post. For now I am satisfied with the basic slave look. His truth that he had to repeat while changing and several times during the evening was, "I am your slave husband now and forever."I was delighted and amused to see that he had an erection simply from changing into his slave attire and repeating his truth. He spent a few minutes kissing my feet then I had him clean out and organize the closet in our extra bedroom that has collected a lot [...]

 ‘No’ is a powerful word. When used it is an act of authority or an act of defiance. It is a word that almost always creates emotion and reaction in others.  It can make someone stressed, angry, happy, or even excited. For the dominant Female, ‘No’ should be viewed as a tool to use in exerting her control over her submissive partner. My favorite use of the word is when Thomas asks for permission to orgasm. He only asks this question when he is fully-aroused and on the verge orgasm. For him to reach that point, he has spent several minutes enjoying the pleasure of my teasing, or if he is lucky, the pleasure of being inside of me. He has also spent [...]

I believe that it is very important and beneficial for couples to spend quality alone time together. By this I mean time doing activities and talking with each other without kids, family, or friends present. The concept sounds simple, but many couples fail to do this. I am sure you know some people who never even transition into the married life after the say "I Do."  These are the ones that continue to maintain active social lives and hobbies separate from their spouse and put a higher value on those activities then spending time with their spouse. Those relationships are destined for failure unless something changes. Even those who start with great intentions and a love for doing things together can fall into the [...]

 It has come to my attention that some of you are having issues with commenting. The issues seems to be specific to those not posting under a Google Account. I have learned that this issue is probably tied to cookie tracking.  If you are posting under anonymous or using a generic name instead of your google account, then you need to allow for cookies to be tracked and saved. You can adjust this setting under your browser property settings, under the privacy and security menu.Hope this helps and I look forward to reading your comments!-Mz Kaylee Comment Issues The Ultimate Male Chastity Key Holding Experience

Whats going on in his head when he does the laundry for you within an FLR based relationship? Why is doing the laundry so important?I’m going to try to take a stab at this. His mind is in this incredibly weird and  very complex state and he is this wonderful loving man who just happens to be my submissive husband. By analyzing our FLR relationship over the years and through experiencing what makes him tick and not tick, I am going to attempt to answer this question. By asking him directly what he gets out of this, I am attempting to answer this question. I honestly don’t know if he fully knows and understands whats going on in his own head while he [...]

Submissive men tend to be more productive and happier when they are in a structured environment. Structure sets expectations, removes, uncertainty, and removes stress. Generally, I think most people prefer structure as it helps them maintain control in their life. Even those who are spontaneous and more creative have some structure in their life. However, the submissive tends to thrive in a highly structured environment that brings out their submission, subjects them to female control and authority, and holds them accountable. In the Wife Led Marriage (WLM), structure also helps the wife maintain control and order in the household. For the new dominant, it can seem like a daunting task to create this structure and for those of us who are experienced, maintaining that [...]