Stay tuned. I have a very fun development upcoming!!!! Cannot wait to do it, and then, better yet, to blog about it!My sister Sue was out for dinner and drinks with an old friend and her youngish partner (lesbians all - they're gaining ground!). The young woman fairly recently graduated from university with a concentration in "Women and Gender Studies". Sue's friend is also very well educated. The three of them were sitting around and discussing "the patriarchy" (ha ha!). Sue mentioned she knew a person (me, but she did not indicate that at first) who keeps her man "in-line" using "ritualized kink". The younger lady was incredulous and thought it was all bullshit engineered by the guy. Sue told her she should [...]

My husband just received a very public sexually-oriented shaming at the cottage this past weekend, followed by a jolly good spanking after I got him home again! He deserved it. At one level because he's a wonderful man and deserves whatever kinky fun I can come up with. But at another level because he just deserved it, as you shall see.It was a very hot Canada Day (July 1st) long weekend, and as per family tradition we were all up at the cottage enjoying the heat, the lake, and the beer and rosé wine. My Mom and Dad, David and I, my older sister Sue, and my younger sister Nancy with her husband and boys. I was told by my husband not to [...]

I had a blog reader who goes by the name of "cisco" write to me. He wrote to thank me for my blog. He is a young Canadian man in his mid-twenties. He described a bit of his previous kinky experiences (limited) and said he was considering booking a Pro Domme. He mentioned Mistress Violet as I so highly recommended her. Well happy to say that cisco got up the nerve to book a session with Violet, and I have permission from both parties to publish. Yay!Mistress Violet MaysI would like to bring you along a bit on cisco's journey towards booking Mistress Violet, the anticipation, the preparation, and finally the scene itself.Here is some of the correspondence that led up to it. [...]

As I go around looking for the perfect photos to illustrate a blog entry, I often come across photos that intrigue me, but are not on point, so I save them in a special folder on my computer in case a situation ever comes up that might fit. I thought for this blog entry I would put some out that you boys might enjoy (me too!) and tell you what thoughts it inspires in me. Would be interested in your thoughts also in the comments.Note that some of these I might have used and just can't remember. Also, if  the photos are owned by you, please drop me a note and I will either take down or attribute according to your wish.Here they [...]

As you all know, while normally very toppy, sometimes I get a little submissive streak growing in me. What set me off this time was a lengthy correspondence with a woman we shall refer to as "G".G first contacted me saying how much she enjoyed reading my blog: I love your blog! The way you own your sexuality is really inspiring!Well that was a nice compliment! I wrote G back right away, and we started a nice back and forth that persists and has become more intense.Turns out G spanks her husband J (initially upon his request) as I did with david, though she admits to not being as "over-the-top" as I on the surrounding activities. But she does seem super strict when [...]