Typical full-on day

I thought I should follow up yesterday’s post explaining my source of my many orgasms on a typical full-on day. Once bathing and shaving and my dressing is done, I have bitch-boy make me brunch. (He gets none.) While I eat, he prepares all the equipment needed for me to play with his boy’s bits on the sofa. When all is ready and I have finished eating, I allow him to lick me to my first orgasm. The only time he will have contact with my body that day, for which he must thank me. He is not allowed to put his hands on me but, as a treat,  he is allowed to kiss the insides of my long firm thighs before he [...]

The amazing arousal of relaxed power and cruelty

I don’t think I have written about numbers of orgasms since I last wrote a post stating that six orgasms in a day was exceptional and wonderful. I have been lax in updating on this. Over the last six weeks or so, I have been enjoying between 9 and 12 MASSIVE orgasms each full day of dominating bitch-boy. Its not just the number, but the intensity too. I have put this down to reaching a point in my evolution where I now truly have zero guilt, zero shame and zero self-consciousness while exercising my selfish hedonism, absolute power and merciless cruelty. Of course, it is symbiotic, because although bitch-boy hates almost every single second of those long days, his submissive soul is overwhelmed with the feelings it needs for it [...]

My Tumblr site of perversity

My Tumblr site following is slowly growing. It has reached over 12,000 now. It is always good to know there are dominants who share my eclectic tastes and submissives who are affected by those tastes. It is 4 years since I set bitch-boy the task of reposting images to worsen his frustration. LINK to my published journals detailing my day-to-day perverted life Source: Ms Scarlet My Tumblr site of perversity

We say Garden, USA say ?

It seems from all the helpful comments I got on my last post that the USA has no singe word to describe the land attached to a house which is laid out as a combination of lawns and flower beds. In the UK described as a ‘garden’. (And in Australia, Canada and New Zealand.) I will have to modify my translation section in my published volumes and my forthcoming manual (definitely to be published in May). I am a little amazed that when a USA house has an area of land laid out as a mixture of flower beds and lawn, there is no single word to describe that area, but I love that one never stops learning in life, if one chooses to never stop learning. [...]

Yard work slave-time

Before getting into the meat of this post, I have to say I do not know exactly what a pretty flower filled garden is called in the USA. I always try to use words that work on both sides of the Atlantic: so, diaper not nappy, panties not knickers, and so on. But when it comes to my pretty flower filled garden, is that really called a ‘yard’ in the USA? Perhaps my lovely USA based blog followers could educate me on this. Any way Spring is here and things are growing fast in my garden. I will soon be out there reading and naked sunbathing for a good amount of time. A walk around it yesterday reminded me of just how many [...]

Having to request suffering

A couple of comments from Pink Gimp on my 1st April post got me thinking. Pink Gimp has an amazing Mistress who has thought up a delightful system which requires Pink Gimp to request to do corner time. It reminded me of a report from a very cruel chastity Mistress and the regime she developed. Before she began to dominate her husband he insisted/forced her to give him blow jobs but did not like to orally return the favour. She had loved to be licked by previous boyfriends. Then there was a turn of events and she obtained COMPLETE power over him. She had him in an inescapable chastity device, and then began her regime. He was only allowed to orgasm each time he [...]

Truly Miserable Subjugation

My thanks go to the Mistress of boot-gimp for providing me with the three little words that can bring so much miserable subjugation to a slave. ‘Until further notice’. I have for a long time implied the meaning of those words to certain activities without using the words. Just before turning on the white noise, when putting a slave into sensory deprivation bondage, the slave has no idea how long they will be in their miserable bondage, although I do usually advise them of the minimum time it will be, and occasionally announce a duration which is actually a mind fuck time. Also, when setting them off on colouring-in with their dolly , the ‘until further notice’ situation is implied. However I have used the words for [...]

Submissives sustain BDSM

It has dawned on me that in civilised countries with equal rights and the rule of law, the BDSM community and the numerous lifestyle relationships there are, must be sustained by submissives rather than dominants. I know both types are required, but if there is a dominant going around tying up and torturing and using and abusing a non-submissive, that would result in an arrest and a prison sentence. But a submissive voluntarily serving and worshipping a vanilla person and pushing and pleading to be dominated by that person is no crime at all. So the dominants can only do their thing when they hook up with a submissive. It is the existence/supply of submissives that allow the BDSM community to exist. It is submissives that convert many [...]

Gender variable domination and submission

I have committed to publishing my manual in March entitled: Gratifying Domination and Submissive Contentment: A Guidance Manual. The cover is also likely to include words to the effect of the following text: Not just guidance but a myriad of ideas, techniques and inspirations as well. For beginners and for the experienced. For submissives who want to persuade their partner to become a dominant. For partners of submissives who want to learn to adore dominating their partner. For dominants who want to maximise their satisfaction and ability to subjugate. Nailing that tricky balance between domination time and vanilla time. Applicable to every gender. The point of this post is to seek advice from you, dear followers, on the issue of the manual being Applicable [...]

Hollywood Whipping

I came across a clip from the camp, dated, 1980 movie Flash Gordon recently. It reminded me of the BDSM bits of the film which hint that the director may have been seriously ‘in the know’. The outfits and cruel face of Princess Aura. And here is a clip of her momentarily leading her ‘pet males’ on leashes, among other things, (within the first 30 seconds of the clip). Then we come to General Kala. . Here is a clip of her whipping Princess Aura, among other things, (within the first one minute of the clip). So camp! In the film there is also a Lezdom scene of Dale Arden being erotically dressed against her will. I have to say that apart from the [...]