Its human nature for many to want most what they can’t have and this can be used to manipulate many submissives. If your sub, does not show a clear indication of the privilege they enjoy from licking your pussy, try telling them they are banned for a couple of weeks; perhaps a month. Don’t let them get anywhere near your body. I think you will find they then genuinely beg for the privilege and are grateful forever more, under the constant threat of another period of denial. The same tactic can be used for many things. Moisturising your body, washing you in the bath, brushing your hair, giving a pedicure, etc. And their humiliation is delightful to witness when they find themselves genuinely begging for such ‘privileges’. [...]

The Petticoat Discipline site of readers letters has, over the years, given me many, many delicious forced petticoating, extreme humiliation ideas for using on helpless grown males who HATE every second of their petticoating. I thought I should broadcast that the February edition had some letters of high quality which is very pleasing.             Over the past couple of years, far too many letters have been about sissy males who want to be petticoated and love being petticoated, suffering no humiliation at all from this. Obviously these letters are not about Female Domination and not of interest to me. Source: Ms Scarlet February Petticoat Discipline #femdomhypnosis #femdomtraining #malesubmissivetraining #femaledominancetraining #femdomhusbandtraining

Only mid February and the stinging nettle shoots are up. Delightful. They may be only the length of a finger, if that, but if you are a follower of my blog you will know that the early nettles, before they have flowered, sting the most and the stings last for ages! And the leaves are all close together in a dome at the top of the stem, rather than being spread out along the stem as will happen in the summer.   I would normally have waited until they were long enough to grip the stems and then use like mini whips on poor little subby’s cocks with the nettles blanket. But why wait? These will be ideal to use like little [...]

Well my Tumblr site now has over 15,000 followers. What I like most about the continued growth of follower numbers is that those themes I like have a popularity possibly larger than just niche. It is a constant unanswered question though. What percentage of the population of the civilised world are aroused, (if just a fantasy), or contented, (if a lifestyle), by these themes of female dominance? And perhaps, are there more dominants and subs than LGBTQ people? (Ignoring the Venn diagram  issue of LGBTQ dominants and subs.) I only wonder that as I have an intuitive feel for how many LGBTQ people there are. At the moment in the UK and USA, the mainstream media are set against mutually satisfying relationships of [...]

It seems to me, by my study of submissives, that there are two types of Malevolent  Females. One type generates awe in submissives, the other type does not. Yet the relevant behaviours of both types are almost identical. Some women are mentally weak and let down the gender I’m afraid. A woman who has easily lost her temper and is out of control, not thinking about the effects of her actions, while slapping a male’s face a few times. Not very awe inspiring. BUT, a woman completely in control of herself, calm, fully aware of the shame she is bringing to the male, while slapping his face a few times, and enjoying herself – well that inspires considerable awe in a submissive. Same activity but very different outcome. Replace slapping [...]

Well it seems to me that, when circumstances allow, it is worth stretching out the cuckolding experience for the sub to make the most of the subjugating effects of each stage. (The sub’s lifestyle restrictions. For each of the four stages the following lifestyle restrictions apply. The sub is a born again virgin, in chastity, has not had an orgasm for a good while and will not be having one for a good while.) Stage 1: A different location. You leave him in the house all alone, possibly with a list of chores to be done, while you go out to have sex with another. He knows exactly what will be happening. You have told him. When you get home, he can be [...]

I have decided I need a third chastity device for poor bitch-boy. I have decided his homemade tube gives too much access to the root of the shaft and the head. I also have some activities in mind which mean his CB6000 provides too much protection to his little clitty. More on those activities later in this post. I am choosing between a number of metal cage devices and am seeking from you dear readers of my blog, either first hand experience of such devices, or comparison web pages/fora that can be trusted so that I can pick the most suitable.  I would make sure the device was inescapable by a padlock through the wire at the tip of the cage and through his [...]