willfullydenied: Every relationship has its own dynamics, and no advice is ever universal. Lara and I are both switchy. What works for us, may not work for others, but I still hope that our advice can help out other couples. We keep our kinky play light hearted. Even if earlier in the day she might be ruining my orgasms or slapping my junk around, we still make sure that we end the night cuddling up together, laughing at the latest episode of our favourite cartoons and shows. The most important advice we have is to always communicate with each other. Make sure you’re clear about what you want, what you enjoy and what you dislike.Things don’t always go according to plan. Sometimes [...]

willfullydenied: To be fair, Tumblr and porn in general is very visual. A giant strapon, a chastity cage with a timer set for weeks, cum and fluids flying everywhere - these all are visceral images, easy to portray with a picture or a few words. Content is catered to the audience. If the paying audience is mostly male, things will be exaggerated and portrayed from the man’s point of view. Even our understanding of what women want sexually comes from a male bias. Guys like getting their junk squeezed and tugged fast till they blow their load all over the place. Why should girls be any different?As far as porn lets on, women enjoy only two things: either hard, fast penetration or [...]

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beautifulsecrets42: The male fantasy of submitting to a dominant woman is the most common fantasy shared by men, and their desire to subject themselves to a woman’s authority is an unconscious expression of very strong emotions that are traditionally coveted by women in relationships. If you really want your wife in control, you have already taken the first long step. Where there is a will, there is a way. Secondly, you must realize most women are not into the fetish part of female domination. It is unrealistic to expect your wife to start spanking you, to wear black leather boots and kick you in the butt if you don’t obey her. But most if not all women love to be pampered, adored, [...]

willfullydenied: “I hope your cage is nice and snug, because you’ll be spending the next six months in there!” We all know the stories. Tales and captions of mega-dominatrix women locking their men in chastity for weeks, months and days on end. For some, it may be true. As kinks progress, we find ourselves wanting more and pushing our boundaries. For most of us mortals, however, they’re (mostly male) fantasies we love to get lost in. When Lara and I first started playing with chastity, I couldn’t help but think of those stories. Being left denied for weeks at a time, with no end in sight sounded like a dream come true. We started with a few hours, usually on the weekend. [...]