You own the key... You make the rules, and control his release. If you set a release date for him, occasionally use that release date to make him BEG you you extend his chastity sentence. He may not want to at first, but smother him with love, and tell him you will make it worth his while. He will be putty and so much more your submissive! This will get easier after time, and makes his release so much more precious!
Once you start down the road to a female led relationship, you will find him spellbound, and drawn deeper and deeper under your control. You do have to continue pushing the boundaries, at times, to make sure he continues growing more submissive, and understands your absolute rule
It is important to keep programming how much he wants chastity. Some days he may want out, so while he is in chastity, make him beg for it, or ask for more time. It internalizes his desire for it, and if you purr rewards at his right attitude, he will come back for more.
As soon as he is in chastity, start wearing your sexiest wardrobe around then house. Greet him topless, and carry on a normal everyday conversation. He will oogle you, and probably not hear a word. If so, grab his cock cage and tell him he needs to be submissive to your needs or he has no chance of escape. Chastity is such a delightful training ground. Flaunt everything you have.
Putting him in chastity without teasing him mercilously is like... A glass of water without the water. What's the point? From the moment you own his key(s) and he locks that cage, start teasing him. He will whimper, but he'll love it.
Every now and then, it is good to threaten him with permanent chastity. It reinforces the reality the you own his cock, and it makes him so much more delighted and enthralled if you do release him for a little bit.
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The annual AVN awards were announced this weekend in Las Vegas. They style themselves as the ‘Oscars for Porn’ and, having attended them myself many years ago, I can confirm they’re as boring and repetitive as the Oscars and other similar industry award evenings tend to be. This year they were held at the Hard Rock Hotel in Vegas, which decided it’d be a smart move to harass and expel transgender performers. That’s based on what Lorelei Lee reported on her twitter feed. So someone could get an award on stage one minute and get kicked out of the restroom the next. That’s both incredibly stupid and not at all surprising to me. For a supposed center of hedonism and debauchery, Vegas is [...]
Actor Terry Crews said he and his wife Rebecca King-Crews used sexual chastity to revive their marriage. In an interview with HuffPost Live Crews said that his marriage to his wife of 25 years was “on the rocks” so they spent 90 days abstaining from all sexual activities. Instead, the couple talked and cuddled. “I found that at the end of that 90 days I was more in love. More turned on. I knew who she was,” the 47-year-old former star of Everybody Hates Chris said. Crews also admitted that he had been addicted to pornography, a struggle he overcame with the help of therapy. “I realized the pornography was using people, you’re treating people like objects, you’re treating people wrong, you’re not [...]
saintth: laotk: Just Do It If a couple decided together that they’d like to “play around” with something like Chastity as a temporary sex toy, it could potentially be fun and exciting and add new and different to spices to their relationship. Give it a try. Sure that’s what my mistress said the first time I was introduced to chastity. “Come on, just try it. It will be fun.” Fun for her that is. 6-weeks later she finally unlocked me for what I had believed would be a great orgasm but instead it was just a tease session. I will admit 4-weeks after this session, she did give me the most powerful orgasm of my life. Be careful what you wish for. [...]
