What is BDSM: Defining The Terms & Practices

Welcome, as a professional dominatrix, the founder of KinkyCoaching, and a certified life coach I have often been asked to explain curiosities about Kink and BDSM. I get many questions through social media, my fans page, and at speaking engagements. This has prompted me to dedicate this blog to answering those questions. Before going into specific inquiries I think it is important to define some terms. If you are reading this you probably have of  BDSM, so let’s try and explain what it means.   What Does BDSM Stand For? BDSM, an acronym for Bondage, Discipline, Dominance, Submission, Sadism,  and Masochism, refers to a diverse range of erotic practices that involve consensual power exchange and intense physical sensations. It encompasses a variety of activities, [...]

By |2024-05-03T06:59:57-07:00May 3rd, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

What is A Power Exchange Kink in BDSM?

The world of BDSM is a rich landscape of sensual pleasures, emotional growth, and deep intimacy. Understanding this world can be daunting to those who have only experienced it through the distorted lens of media and popular culture. As a professional Dominatrix, I have extensive knowledge of the realities of kink and BDSM – and I love to share my experience with those thirsty for that knowledge.  And nothing I love to share more than my understanding of Power Exchange. So, let’s dive in. The acronym BDSM covers a few broad topics, like bondage and discipline or sadism and masochism. Another fundamental topic is Domination and submission. And at the core of D/s is consensual power exchange. What is Power Exchange? Power exchange empowers the Dominant by surrendering the [...]

By |2024-05-03T06:59:41-07:00May 3rd, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

What is Feminization in BDSM?

As a professional Dominatrix, I have the pleasure of indulging in a wide variety of kink activities. One of my absolute favorites is Feminization. Transformation and challenging cultural norms are key aspects of BDSM. Social expectations regarding what is “male” or “female” are a rich environment for transcendence, allowing participants to explore their feelings of gender non-conformity in a controlled way. There is something delightful about watching a man transform into a feminized form and seeing the change in attitudes and behaviors that result. What is Feminization Exactly? Feminization is a type of BDSM role-play that involves imposing traditionally female attributes onto a male-identifying submissive partner. This is typically achieved through cross-dressing where the submissive partner wears traditional female clothing. It also may [...]

By |2024-04-23T10:37:19-07:00April 23rd, 2024|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

EPIC ENEMAS and so much more

5 hours of surprise enemas and predicament bondage- why it is so erotic, intimate and exciting. In the world of intimacy and exploration, sensation play stands as an exhilarating gateway to pleasure, where the body becomes a playground of delightful surprises. At its core, sensation play is an art form, weaving together elements of touch, temperature, texture, and anticipation to create a symphony of sensations that tantalize the senses. However, one of its most enchanting aspects lies in the element of surprise, where the unexpected becomes a source of profound enjoyment and connection. The joy of sensation play is deeply rooted in the art of surprise, where partners or individuals revel in the unknown, embracing the anticipation of what comes next. In the [...]

By |2023-10-18T17:43:49-07:00October 18th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Golden Tutorial- Learn from this!

Golden Delight- This is how it’s done There is nothing I love more than being able to overwhelm my subs and it’s a major bonus if they are able to not only endure but exceed my expectations. Lessons to be learnt. There exists an exquisite pleasure in being utterly overwhelmed by the sheer force of sensation, every sound, every scent, and every taste collides with the senses in a harmony.  It’s as if the world momentarily intensifies, wrapping you in a cocoon of vibrant experiences. In these moments, the senses merge, blurring the lines between where one ends and the other begins.  It’s in these moments of overwhelming sensory abundance that one truly understands the depth and breadth of human experience. Facing challenges [...]

By |2023-10-12T15:56:09-07:00October 12th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |1 Comment

FMTY and Hotel Sessions

  Earlier in my career, I never wanted to “take the show on the road.” I was so used to the creature comforts of my studio and  availability of equipment. In more recent years I know truly enjoy FMTYs and hotel scenes. The creativity that comes with sessioning in different environments gets all my kinky juices flowing. Will it be a very minimalist scene?  If I do bring gear what will I choose? Will I make my sub procure what we need? Playing with Slave M was great. I turned the hotel into a mini dungeon. Crossdressed, punished, bound, gaged, electrocuted and made into a PROPER fuck slut! The post FMTY and Hotel Sessions appeared first on Mistress Natalie. FMTY and Hotel [...]

By |2023-08-29T17:49:06-07:00August 29th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |1 Comment

Having fun with my bondage toy

Recently there was a thread on twitter asking what your top 5 scene activities were. This right here is one of them. Heavy bondage with sensory deprivation. Honestly I can’t get enough. The methodical tightening of the straps, increasing my control and his surrender. Words become completely unnecessary. The deep trust facilitates an intense nonverbal intimate connection. I can do anything I want. I have total control. It feeds me:-) If you would like to explore BOOK HERE If you like what you see say THANK YOU HERE   The post Having fun with my bondage toy appeared first on Mistress Natalie. Having fun with my bondage toy

By |2023-08-10T20:49:24-07:00August 10th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Highlight video from BDSM Slave B’s service

Slave B has really been putting in a lot of effort to be able to endure more, longer and better. He has been assigned lots of at home practice to deep throat, stretch his ass and suffer nipple pain. A little light cropping to focus salve’s attention followed by nipple clothespins and boot worship to make him feel more submissive and in service. Predicament bondage allows me to fully test his abilities to please my sadistic and controlling nature. Estim, sounding, increasingly intense NT and a very good throat fucking. Now thoroughly used and extremely eager for more slave B is put in my gyno chair and pegged with various size strap on cocks. To push slave B to the max I use [...]

By |2023-08-05T15:06:01-07:00August 5th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Heavy Anal with Andy WhoreHole and Goddess Freya- fisting and more

An epic 3-hour session with my anal slut and “mystery guest” Goddess Freya. Anal slut and I like to play a little game where I get to choose a beautiful FemDom to join our session. Slut does not know who she is until the big reveal. He is blindfolded (and very well prepped by me prior), and she inserts her fist into his hole. Only once inside does the blindfold come off. It’s so much fun. We continue with lots of large toys , fisting, double fisting, punch fisting, footing, elbow-deep insertions, and my favorite – holding hands. BOOK HERE UNCODE.initRow(document.getElementById("row-unique-0")); https://www.mistressnatalie.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/DoublePunchFisgting.mp4 https://www.mistressnatalie.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Slinq.mp4 UNCODE.initRow(document.getElementById("row-unique-1")); The post Heavy Anal with Andy WhoreHole and Goddess Freya- fisting and more appeared first on Mistress Natalie. [...]

By |2023-07-26T18:24:17-07:00July 26th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments

Just a little fun with Slave O

Sexy Panties on sissy slave Stretching his tight hole Just a few needles to let him know who he belongs to! In his continued service Slave O was made to shop at Victoria Secret for summery lingerie and wear them all day at work in preparation for serving me in the evening. Shortly after his arrival he was bound, hooded and heavily gagged. I proceeded with the more than necessary slut training, CBT and needly play. The breathing tube also served as a delivery system for my spit and piss!  Book here    The post Just a little fun with Slave O appeared first on Mistress Natalie. Just a little fun with Slave O

By |2023-07-19T18:34:49-07:00July 19th, 2023|Categories: Dommes|Tags: |0 Comments