More Pain, by Accident

There is an issue of a little complexity about dealing with pain caused to your sub by accident, or by your clumsiness while dominating. Firstly, I believe that subs want to have the image of their Domme as living breathing perfection in every way. Therefore if you accidently hurt your sub or hurt them through your clumsiness, you are not perfect and that is a bad for your image. A good example is whip wraparound. To give an example of whip wraparound (WW). bitch-boy is tied face down over the dining table and I am whipping him with my dressage whip which is very long and very thin. It is ‘whippy’. My intention is to land the whip evenly across both buttocks causing [...]

Great Femdom Tumblr site

Following my rant post last Saturday, bitch-boy has found a Tumblr site which meets so many of my requirements. No dungeons, no warehouses, no leather or PVC, etc. And it has a very large store of images. And a bizarre and wonderful niche site which seems to be published by a real couple where the slaves cock comes in for some serious treatment. Just what cocks were made for and located so conveniently for. I especially like the videos where she masturbates, sitting on a chair and the male’s cock is seriously squashed by the chair structure. Hot! Source: Ms Scarlet

Reader Letters: Found Another Imbecile In The Comments!

This person, calling themselves nischt@gmail.com, as well as various trying too hard to edge aliases, decided to grace me with their startling well spelled but nonetheless incoherent messages that got stuck in the spam filter. Here they are responding to my post on Don’t Fear the 50Shades Newbies: They start off by quoting something I said. Okay… “And if you try you are going to sound like a huge hipster trying to keep your exclusive hobbies from the poseurs. This also goes to people who think there is some sort of unbroken legacy that’s been handed down but will now be neglected- sorry guys, BDSM is an activity practiced in the private bedrooms of couples all around the world. You don’t get a monopoly [...]

On Barnes and Noble and thoughts on writing journals

Volume 10 of my journals is now available on Barnes and Noble which I think is for Nook Book readers. It is still not available in the Apple iTunes book store. I have no idea why. It remains available on Lulu.com as an ePub or as a paperback. And on Amazon Kindle. US. UK. DE. FR. ES. IT. NL. JP. BR. CA. MX. AU. IN.   COOMENTS ON VOLUME 1 – HOW TIME HAS FLOWN Volume 1 continues to be the subject of kind comments like the one below. I had no idea when I began to document my life by writing Volume 1 that I would be publishing Volume 10 in due course and have requests for Volume 11 (which will be published soon). [...]

Electro Torture

The entries in Volume 5 of my journals appear to strike chords with a good number of my blog followers. Below is a typical comment regarding my request to hear about favourite journal entries. The one described in the initial post is definitely a favorite, and I also love the “Gimp hung from a beam” passage from Volume 5. Another one I’ve always enjoyed is the “Look me in the eye” passage, also from Volume 5. I suppose I have a thing for electro torture! I also love the cruelty of You and Sarah making him add more and more Deep Heat. Looking forward to the next Volume! Source: Ms Scarlet

How heartless I can be

Regarding my request to hear about followers’ favourite entries from my published journals, Mistress Jane’s slave submitted the comment below. I thought the comment might be of interest given mention of his experience of me and also of interest might be the mention of a 20%  discount at the moment from Lulu.com for my journals in ePub or paperback format. Dear Mistress Scarlet, This slave has so many to chose from. The few that spring to mind at the moment are the entries describing the first time bb is revealed to Your sisters and Mother. The line crossed here almost made me doubt it happened at first, but this was way before i had the honour of serving You alongside my Mistress and that experience [...]

Slave applications to Mistress Sonia

There have been 50 applications so far – to give you a continuing sense of numbers. Mistress Sonia will email each of you so be patient. Source: Ms Scarlet

Femdom Life: Fingering, Negotiations & Ruined Orgasms

Friday night, we have sex. He reached for me, nestling the length of his body into the roundness of mine. Even when he’s no longer the skinny boy I started dating, and has filled out into muscle and robust health, he’s still made of stiff lines and delicate details, like an origami figure someone folded out of starched silk. Now there’s a solid weight to his arms and legs that I find pleasing. I liked it when he was so light that I was the heavy one, but I like this new sign of remission in his health problems. Thursday night I was unbridled honest with him, even more so than I ever am with you, dear reader (of course you get a [...]

Favourite journal entries

I received this feedback below and I would love to hear of other favourite journal entries my loyal readers may have. It helps me know which sort of events I should write about. Speaking of crying…I am currently reading volume 7 of Your journals…thanks to the holidays this has been a slow process! Anyways, this morning I read the chapter about the school detention…OMG…that pushed sooooo many buttons with me! I confess I was dribbling a mess in my panties…soooo delicious…Thank You Ma’am for sharing that! In respect, sissy jamieanne   Source: Ms Scarlet

And more humiliation ideas

Below is part of a comment received on this blog from Christine M. I was pleased to note that even my tenth published journal is providing ideas to make little submissives lives more ‘interesting’ and their Dommes’ lives more amusing. There is a symbiosis demonstrated by the comment. I have some novel ideas for punishment and humiliation and I publish my experiences of those. Readers read of my ideas and then come back to me with their novel ideas which I use on bitch-boy and write about, and so a self perpetuating loop of delightful ideas continues. Christine’s tantrum idea below is a case in point! I just bought your journal issue 10. Delightful. I got so many ideas for humiliation when he [...]