Here’s a list of 100 dominant commands tailored for a hotwife to give to her submissive husband. These commands emphasize power dynamics, teasing, and the hotwife’s authority, fostering a dynamic that reinforces his submission and her sexual independence.

Chastity & Control

  1. Lock yourself up in your chastity cage.
  2. Bring me the key and kneel while handing it to me.
  3. Beg me for permission to unlock yourself.
  4. Write “Property of [Your Name]” across your chest.
  5. Sit quietly and listen as I tell you about my date.
  6. Show me how grateful you are for my freedom.
  7. Write in your journal how it feels to be caged.
  8. Watch me dress for him, but you’re not allowed to touch.
  9. Clean your cage—it better shine like new.
  10. Stay locked until I decide you’ve earned a release.

Household Obedience

  1. Clean the house from top to bottom today.
  2. Lay out my clothes for the evening.
  3. Draw me a bath and light candles.
  4. Massage my feet while I scroll on my phone.
  5. Cook me dinner, and don’t forget to add a little extra effort.
  6. Wash my lingerie and fold it neatly.
  7. Scrub the floors by hand while I watch.
  8. Shine my heels—I want to see my reflection in them.
  9. Serve me wine, on your knees, with both hands.
  10. Stand in the corner until I call for you.

Teasing & Denial

  1. Watch as I pleasure myself—you’re not allowed to join.
  2. Hold my vibrator for me while I use it.
  3. Kiss my thighs, but don’t dare go any higher.
  4. Kneel and thank me for teasing you.
  5. Beg me to let you touch yourself.
  6. Write me a letter about how much you love my freedom.
  7. Sit quietly while I tell you what he did to me last night.
  8. Watch us together, but don’t make a sound.
  9. Touch yourself, but stop when I snap my fingers.
  10. Keep your hands behind your back until I say otherwise.

Worship & Service

  1. Kiss my feet and thank me for being your goddess.
  2. Crawl to me and tell me how much you adore me.
  3. Polish my jewelry—I want it sparkling.
  4. Brush my hair and tell me how beautiful I am.
  5. Tell me 10 reasons why you’re lucky to serve me.
  6. Hold my purse and follow me around the house.
  7. Kiss my hand every time I wave it in front of you.
  8. Buy me a gift to thank me for being your queen.
  9. Read me poetry about how much you worship me.
  10. Give me a pedicure and paint my nails perfectly.

Hotwife Lifestyle

  1. Book a hotel for my next date and pay for it.
  2. Iron my dress for my evening out.
  3. Drive me to his house and wait in the car.
  4. Send me a text thanking me for exploring my freedom.
  5. Stay home while I go out, and prepare a welcome home surprise.
  6. Write him a thank-you note for satisfying me.
  7. Kneel in gratitude while I tell you about my night.
  8. Serve us drinks while we talk.
  9. Book me a spa day to look my best for him.
  10. Tell me why you love me being with other men.

Public Humiliation

  1. Wear my panties under your clothes when we go out.
  2. Hold my shopping bags and smile while I shop.
  3. Wait in the car while I flirt with him.
  4. Call me “Goddess” while we’re in public.
  5. Let me take a photo of you in your chastity cage.
  6. Address me as “Queen” whenever we’re outside the house.
  7. Open doors for me and bow as I walk past.
  8. Carry my heels in your hands when I get tired of wearing them.
  9. Stand behind me silently while I talk to another man.
  10. Compliment me loudly in front of strangers.

Financial Submission

  1. Hand over your paycheck—my needs come first.
  2. Cancel your subscriptions and buy me something instead.
  3. Set up a budget that prioritizes spoiling me.
  4. Pay for my night out without hesitation.
  5. Save up for my next shopping spree.
  6. Write me an apology if you ever question my spending.
  7. Transfer money into my personal account right now.
  8. Buy me lingerie and thank me for wearing it for someone else.
  9. Fund my spa day—I deserve the best.
  10. Plan a vacation just for me and my needs.

Sexual Denial & Control

  1. Edge yourself five times, then stop.
  2. Kneel and ask permission to touch yourself.
  3. Thank me for keeping you in chastity.
  4. Describe how it feels to be denied release.
  5. Beg me to tell you what I did with him.
  6. Sit in the corner while I enjoy my toy.
  7. Wear a plug while cleaning the house.
  8. Thank me for owning your orgasms.
  9. Beg me to let you watch me with another man.
  10. Hold the camera and take pictures of me for him.

Physical Control

  1. Strip and present yourself for inspection.
  2. Crawl to the bed and wait for me.
  3. Hold this position until I tell you otherwise.
  4. Stay on your knees while I sit on the couch.
  5. Kiss every inch of my body without rushing.
  6. Follow me on all fours while I walk.
  7. Carry me to the bedroom and lay me down gently.
  8. Let me sit on your back while you crawl around.
  9. Blindfold yourself and wait for my touch.
  10. Lie at my feet and don’t move until I give permission.

Mental Conditioning

  1. Repeat “I am yours, and you are free” ten times.
  2. Write 100 lines: “Her pleasure is my purpose.”
  3. Tell me how it feels to be controlled by me.
  4. Look in the mirror and say, “I exist to serve her.”
  5. Memorize the rules I’ve set for you and recite them daily.
  6. Record a video of yourself thanking me for my freedom.
  7. Write down your fantasies and hand them to me for approval.
  8. List 10 ways I’ve made your life better by taking control.
  9. Write a love letter to my other man, thanking him for satisfying me.
  10. End every night by kneeling, kissing my feet, and saying, “Thank you, Goddess.”

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