Femdom, or female domination, is a subgenre of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) in which a woman takes on a dominant role in a sexual or non-sexual relationship with a man. Here are 30 ideas for activities a dominant woman could do to a submissive man in a femdom relationship:

  1. Restrain him using handcuffs, ropes, or other restraints
  2. Blindfold him to restrict his sense of sight
  3. Use a ball gag or other device to restrict his ability to speak
  4. Spank or whip him as a form of punishment
  5. Force him to perform tasks or chores for her
  6. Require him to ask permission before speaking or doing certain things
  7. Force him to wear certain clothing or accessories, such as a collar or leash
  8. Make him kneel or crawl in front of her
  9. Make him address her with a specific title, such as “Mistress” or “Queen”
  10. Deny him pleasure or orgasm
  11. Give him tasks or challenges to complete
  12. Force him to watch her engage in activities without him, such as reading or watching TV
  13. Require him to serve her meals or drinks
  14. Force him to perform sexual acts on her or on other people
  15. Make him wear a chastity device to restrict his ability to have an erection or orgasm
  16. Give him tasks to complete that require physical endurance or pain tolerance, such as holding a heavy weight or standing in a specific position for a long time
  17. Make him do embarrassing or degrading things in public or in front of other people
  18. Give him rules to follow and punish him if he breaks them
  19. Deny him certain privileges, such as access to certain rooms or activities
  20. Use psychological manipulation or mind games to control him
  21. Use sensory deprivation techniques, such as earplugs or a blindfold, to restrict his senses
  22. Make him do menial tasks, such as cleaning or organizing, for her enjoyment
  23. Make him call her on the phone or send her messages to check in and report on his activities
  24. Force him to wear a specific fragrance or perfume that she likes
  25. Make him sleep on the floor or in a designated “dog bed”
  26. Require him to ask permission to use the bathroom or go outside
  27. Force him to write essays or reports on specific topics
  28. Make him wear a specific outfit or costume that she has chosen
  29. Force him to watch her engage in sexual activity with another person
  30. Use physical restraints, such as ropes or shackles, to restrict his movement.

Again, these are just ideas for activities that a dominant woman could do to a submissive man in a femdom relationship. The specific activities and dynamics of a femdom relationship will depend on the preferences, boundaries, and negotiated agreements of the individuals involved. It’s important for both partners to communicate openly and honestly and to establish clear boundaries and rules to ensure that everyone is comfortable and safe.

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