Femdom, or female domination, is a subgenre of BDSM (Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, and Masochism) in which a woman takes on a dominant role in a sexual or non-sexual relationship with a man. Here are 30 ideas for activities a dominant woman could do to a submissive man in a femdom relationship:
- Restrain him using handcuffs, ropes, or other restraints
- Blindfold him to restrict his sense of sight
- Use a ball gag or other device to restrict his ability to speak
- Spank or whip him as a form of punishment
- Force him to perform tasks or chores for her
- Require him to ask permission before speaking or doing certain things
- Force him to wear certain clothing or accessories, such as a collar or leash
- Make him kneel or crawl in front of her
- Make him address her with a specific title, such as “Mistress” or “Queen”
- Deny him pleasure or orgasm
- Give him tasks or challenges to complete
- Force him to watch her engage in activities without him, such as reading or watching TV
- Require him to serve her meals or drinks
- Force him to perform sexual acts on her or on other people
- Make him wear a chastity device to restrict his ability to have an erection or orgasm
- Give him tasks to complete that require physical endurance or pain tolerance, such as holding a heavy weight or standing in a specific position for a long time
- Make him do embarrassing or degrading things in public or in front of other people
- Give him rules to follow and punish him if he breaks them
- Deny him certain privileges, such as access to certain rooms or activities
- Use psychological manipulation or mind games to control him
- Use sensory deprivation techniques, such as earplugs or a blindfold, to restrict his senses
- Make him do menial tasks, such as cleaning or organizing, for her enjoyment
- Make him call her on the phone or send her messages to check in and report on his activities
- Force him to wear a specific fragrance or perfume that she likes
- Make him sleep on the floor or in a designated “dog bed”
- Require him to ask permission to use the bathroom or go outside
- Force him to write essays or reports on specific topics
- Make him wear a specific outfit or costume that she has chosen
- Force him to watch her engage in sexual activity with another person
- Use physical restraints, such as ropes or shackles, to restrict his movement.
Again, these are just ideas for activities that a dominant woman could do to a submissive man in a femdom relationship. The specific activities and dynamics of a femdom relationship will depend on the preferences, boundaries, and negotiated agreements of the individuals involved. It’s important for both partners to communicate openly and honestly and to establish clear boundaries and rules to ensure that everyone is comfortable and safe.
Great list Lara! gives some inspiration but leaves it open for a personal touch as well.
All great ideas!
I do not want to invoke your wrath, but it appears that ideas 1 and 30 are the same.
oops…..lol
Who am I to question a femdom mistress? You mentioned restraint twice because it is a great (and titillating) idea!
Thank you very much, a lot of good inspiration here.
These are all great ideas, some of which I actually do engage in. Hopefully we will try out more of these ideas in the future. Thank you Mistress Lara.
Thank you so much for creating this list for Dominant Women. They are great ideas to keep men in line.