Subtle SISSIFICATOIN takes time.
Don’t expect to have a respectful, obedient, effeminate boyfriend or hubby the week
after reading this guide. Much of this
transition is psychological for the two of you.
You are becoming a FemDom, and your “Alpha” male is willingly taking a
more submissive and effeminate role.
Go Hairless, but long hair
Nowadays it is perfectly normal to
ask your couple to shave his parts, legs, beard and even the arms. On the other
hand it’s normal to see men with a long hair.
Tell him to shave any hair of his
body and encourage him on letting his hair grow. Explain him that you prefer
hairless men over hairy men but you think that men with long hair are sexy. You
can even argue that this way is more hygienic.
The Goal… Spice up your sex life with
an intimate secret that only the two of you share, his Chastity and respect for
you. It will bring an enhanced,
invigorated intimacy that leaves him constantly charged with sexual energy
rather than feeling drained and weak…
This is something you BOTH, are
embracing, only you hold the key. Before
locking him up, agree on how many days he’ll remain locked, and remind him
every day. After 3 or 4 days release him, make him love,
and lock him again. After a week or so, do the same. Make the gap between being
unlocked longer and keep up the “secret” with taunting and teasing.
The panties & more. Moving his manhood
This phase crucial and sexy. The
goal is to get him into wearing panties. Find some innocent way like playing a
game or just for fun. Phrases like “I
wonder how you’d look wearing my panties. Could you wear them for me, please?” or “I bet
you are not capable of wearing my panties” usually work. Of course you have to
know the nature of your boyfriend and how he’d react. If he initially rejects the thought, respond
quickly how you think it’s sexy and ask again.
He will come around.
Make sure he understands it will not
make him less of a man and that he is doing it for you.
When you’re sure that he likes to
wear your panties, or at least he’s not refusing it, tell him to wear them
while both of you have sex. Explain him that it turns you on. If he loves you,
he’ll do it.
Ask him to wear them every day as
your little secret. Be firm in your
request, remember he is doing it for you and remember to Taunt & Tease. It all fits so well with his Chastity.
When he is wearing them permanently,
tell him you are throwing away his old underwear!
Dressing him & Violation
Make him to paint your nails -hands
and toes. Teach him how it’s done. Get him in the habit of doing this on a
regular basis and fully incorporate this into your Teasing and Taunting.
In principle he won’t resist. Then
request that he paint his toes in a matching color and make sure your color is
flaming feminine. Apply a touch of
makeup.
This step can be in play, or more permanent. This is a decision only you and him can
decide.
We are making bold steps, and it’s
time for him to start wearing more feminine clothes. I started by picking out much more “gay” or “feminine”
shirts/blouses. These may or may not be feminine,
but it will NOT be masculine. I also
started picking out higher heeled shoes, and I had to go directly to ladies’
shoes. There are plenty of shoes that
can help cross over. Both of these are a
stopping point to celebrate. Go out to
eat at your favorite restaurant and make sure you celebrate. And remember, Tease & Taunt. Keep him pumped and he will please you!
Somewhere when it is comfortable and
supported with overwhelming Teasing and Taunting, introduce him to try on a
bra, some sexy stockings, and surprise him with heels. Just try it!
With him all DOLLED up, for me, it’s time to QUEEN him! Have him lay down on his back and SIT ON HIS
FACE!
TAUNT, TEASE, and express your dominance. Keep him locked up, and have
him worship your womanhood. Overwhelm
him countless orgasms, and NO RELEASE for him.
Remember, he has a pussy too and now
is the time to find it! In the middle of
this erotica, find his boi pussy. Tease
and Taunt it. Remind him he has a pussy,
and press a finger to the opening. As
him if it feels good! He will not say
NO, so press on. Grab some lube and get
him ready for penetration. Take your
time, have him relax, and violate his boi pussy with your finger. Tease, Taunt, and Talk to him. DO NOT BACK DOWN. Keep the penetration active and deep with one
finger. He will tell you, and keep
Taunting & Teasing. When he is
comfortable with something staying in his boi pussy, it’s time for two
fingers! Repeat!
This a point to be open with your
partner/hubby. Express your gratitude of
our progress and how much you have enjoyed everything. Ask for his honest opinion and support. Chastity is a great but so is reward. If you take him out of Chastity, remain in
your role as FemDom and make dominate love to your partner/hubby.
By now, your partner/hubby should be
used to anal stimulation. With your
fingers deep into your partner/hubby, let’s move to different stimulation. Do not unlock him. He’ll be so horny he’ll accept anything you
propose, so while you’re having sex introduce your little finger into his anus.
See how reacts and if he doesn’t oppose try introducing another finger.
After having sex, lock him up again.
After three weeks or so, release him and do the same. Stimulate his prostate.
After having sex again, ask him if he liked it -the anal stimulation-. If he
says yes, the next time you’re having sex show him your dildo, and use a lot of
lube if he accepts being penetrated. Now the pattern is: “unlock, anal, let him
cum, lock, unlock…”
Once he gets used to this way of
having sex with you it’s time to keep him in pretty permanent chastity, but
don’t stop penetrating him with the strapon you’ve previously bought. Try the
next phase once he lets you penetrate him easily. Just as you know, size does matter, make sure
your partner/hubby understands this and always use plenty of lube!
Now you have absolute control over
him. You decide when he can cum, when he’s penetrated by you and what he can
wear. Essentially he will alway obey you. At this point, he may not realize it,
but you control him and his masculinity, and he is no longer an “Alpha male”,
he is YOUR SISSY!
Now we start all over. It’s one thing to entrap your partner/hubby
in private and jokingly tease, taunt, and expose your sexuality, but coming out
starts is all over.
To begin with, your taunting should
become more public. Not overly embarrassing,
and never behind your partner/hubby’s back (what would be the purpose?), but
drop an occasional hit of his panties, shaving, chastity, and him taking it up
the ass. This is fun. He will see it as somewhat challenging, and
will obviously deny the hints, but eventually it will stick.
After a few weeks or months confirming
your sissy, she’ll want to do anything for you. If you want to, you’ll be able
to make him participate into a trio with you and a lover. This may be slower
coming, but given enough Taunting, Teasing, Intrigue, and Authority, he will
enthusiastically support. As you begin,
make sure your partner/hubby confirms: “You
will do whatever I say” “If I am going to be your Mistress, you will honor
my demands” Make him repeat it, and
acknowledge that you are his Mistress.
Have him repeat your statement, and address you with authority.
Absolutely establish your rules
going in and have them all acknowledged.
Typical rules can be:
You will stay in chastity, watch,
and not say a word
You can participate as instructed,
and will be allowed to service both you and your suitor as requested. Make sure every aspect of this is understood
and acknowledged.
Reinforcement.
Clothes: he should wear panties
everyday, everywhere. Make sure that he knows perfectly how to walk on
high-heels. Teach him if it’s necessary. Same with the subtle makeup.
Anal and oral: everyday on your
command, he should be ready to fuck and/or suck a dildo. Apart from this,
penetrate him with your Strapon, frequently. It’s no more his ass hole, it’s his/your
boi pussy. It’s no more his mouth, it’s the hole he uses to give pleasure.
Behavior: teach him to behave like a sissy. That’s on a submissive way, sitting when peeing, never screaming, never
protesting or replicating you…
Chastity: you can release your sissy
boyfriend sometimes, we are not trying to be cruel, rather enjoy a FemDom
fetish lifestyle. In lieu of releasing him, it’s preferred if learns to cum
from anal stimulation. Always make him to eat his own cum.
Final Thoughts
This lifestyle, fetish, role
playing, is a mutual journey but you are pulling and driving everything. It is going to stretch your mind and it’s
going to blow his away but stay on track.
Be honest in your discussions as well as your expectations.
Be patient, and you will be rewarded
with:
He will pay MORE attention to you.
It’s a matter of time of him becoming more sensitive, honest and respectful.
If you desire, you can take male and
female lovers which he will “service” as needed.
He will be more respectful and do
more work around the house.
He’ll satisfy you with his tongue. He’ll become a great pussy licker.
Obedience, Respect, and a sensitive
gentleman are all yours!
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