From Vanilla to Femdom: How to Introduce Your Man to SubmissionThe Beginner’s Guide to Spanking Your Husband: How, When, and How Hard

Ladies, let’s talk about something that might make you blush, giggle, or raise an eyebrow: having your husband worship your ass—and yes, even lick your anus regularly. Before you click away or dismiss this as too wild, hear me out. This isn’t just about kink or pushing boundaries for the sake of shock value. It’s about reclaiming your body, deepening intimacy, and unlocking a level of confidence and connection that might just transform your relationship. Here’s why you should consider making this a regular part of your dynamic—and how it can be a win for both of you.

1. Ass Worship – It’s the Ultimate Act of Adoration

There’s something undeniably powerful about being worshipped. Not just appreciated or complimented, but worshipped—treated like a goddess whose every curve deserves reverence. Your ass? It’s not just a body part; it’s a symbol of your femininity, your strength, your sensuality. When your husband kneels (figuratively or literally) to adore it, he’s saying, “You are everything.” And when he takes it a step further to explore you with his tongue, it’s an act of devotion that goes beyond words. It’s raw, vulnerable, and intimate in a way that few things can match.

Think about it: society spends so much time telling us to hide, shrink, or perfect our bodies. Having your husband worship your ass flips that script. It’s a radical reclaiming of your right to be adored exactly as you are—cellulite, stretch marks, and all. And trust me, when he’s down there, he’s not critiquing. He’s in awe.

2. Ass Worship – It Puts You in the Driver’s Seat

Let’s be real: women are often conditioned to prioritize their partner’s pleasure over their own. But encouraging your husband to focus on your ass—and yes, to lick it—shifts the dynamic. You’re not just a participant; you’re the star. You’re the one being pleasured, celebrated, and prioritized. It’s a delicious power move that says, “This is about me, and you’re here to serve.”

That shift can feel intoxicating. It’s not about being selfish—it’s about owning your desires and giving him permission to revel in them too. For many men, there’s a thrill in submitting to your wants, in being guided by your confidence. So why not lean into that? Tell him what you want. Set the tone. Watch how it changes the energy between you.

3. Ass Worship – It Feels Really Good (Science Says So!)

Okay, let’s get practical for a second. Your anus is packed with nerve endings—about 4,000 of them, to be exact. That’s a lot of potential for pleasure. When done right (think slow, gentle, and with plenty of communication), analingus can feel incredible. It’s a sensation that’s distinct from anything else—warm, wet, and deeply personal. Add in the psychological high of being worshipped, and you’ve got a recipe for something unforgettable.

The key here is relaxation and trust. A little prep (a shower, maybe a glass of wine) can ease any nerves, and his enthusiasm can do the rest. Studies on sexual satisfaction consistently show that couples who explore new sensations together report higher levels of closeness and excitement. This isn’t just about the physical payoff—it’s about the shared adventure.

4.  Ass Worship – It Breaks the Monotony

If you’ve been married for a while, you know the drill: life gets busy, routines set in, and intimacy can start to feel predictable. Missionary on Saturday night? Sure, it’s nice. But nice isn’t always enough. Introducing ass worship and analingus shakes things up. It’s bold, it’s playful, and it’s a signal to both of you that you’re still willing to explore each other like you did in the early days.

Think of it as a reset button. It’s not just about the act itself—it’s about the conversations it sparks, the giggles, the moments of “Are we really doing this?” that bring you closer. Plus, it’s a chance to see your husband in a new light: eager, attentive, maybe even a little submissive. That’s a dynamic worth savoring.

5. Ass Worship – It’s a Confidence Booster Like No Other

Here’s the real kicker: when your husband worships your ass, it’s not just about him—it’s about you. Feeling his hands, his lips, his breath on a part of your body that’s so often overlooked or judged can rewrite the way you see yourself. Suddenly, that part you’ve maybe criticized in the mirror becomes a source of power. You’re not just sexy—you’re irresistible, commanding, divine.

And when he’s licking you there? It’s a level of acceptance and desire that’s hard to fake. It’s him saying, “I want all of you,” and you believing it. That kind of confidence doesn’t stay in the bedroom—it spills over into how you carry yourself everywhere else. You walk taller. You smirk a little more. You know your worth.

How to Make Ass Worship Happen

Convinced yet? Here’s how to ease into it without awkwardness:

  • Start with a Conversation: Drop a hint. Maybe say, “I read something wild today—apparently some couples are into ass worship. What do you think?” Gauge his reaction. Most guys will be intrigued, if not outright enthusiastic.
  • Set the Mood: Keep it light and sexy. A warm bath together, some candles, or even a playful “I deserve to be worshipped tonight” can pave the way.
  • Guide Him: Tell him what feels good. Start with kisses or a massage around your cheeks, then let him work his way inward if you’re comfortable. Communication is everything.
  • Prep if You Want: A quick shower is usually enough, but if you’re feeling fancy, there are gentle cleansing options out there. The point is to feel relaxed, not pressured.
  • Enjoy the Ride: Let go of any self-consciousness. This is about you being a queen—and him treating you like one.

A Word on Consent and Comfort

None of this works without mutual enthusiasm. If he’s hesitant, don’t push—explore why. Maybe he’s shy, curious but unsure, or just needs time. And if it’s not your thing after trying? No big deal. The beauty of intimacy is finding what lights both of you up. But if you’re both on board, this could be a game-changer.

The Bottom Line (Pun Intended)

Having your husband worship your ass and lick your anus isn’t just a naughty bedroom trick—it’s a celebration of your body, your power, and your bond. It’s about saying yes to pleasure, yes to being adored, and yes to rewriting the rules of what intimacy can look like. So why not give it a shot? You might just discover a side of yourself—and your marriage—that you never knew existed.

Now, go forth and be worshipped. You deserve it.


Product Recommendations