For any male who thinks that they will be prepared for what happens when they consent to entering into a chastity agreement with their Goddess or partner, think again. Nothing you will do, have done, will think or imagine can prepare you for what will unfold.
So am i saying to steer clear of that momentous decision? Absolutely not!
The moment your Mistress takes ownership of your cock is exciting
but nothing like the onset of the deeper feeling of being owned and
denied by The Woman who chose to be your Owner with your consent. If
you haven’t already looked upon Her as your Goddess you will rapidly
do so by some irresistible force that binds you to Her.
You will very quickly want to do everything in your power to
please Her and will go to extraordinary lengths to do so. Very soon
you will worship the ground she walks on and hanker for every titbit
of attention and affection that She will deign to throw your way.
Just remember that whilst your Lady may appreciate this outpouring of
adoration She must be allowed space to breathe and to choose when you
are part of Her intentions. This is the lot of the male in chastity.
You are in this cage for a reason. It is the physical stamp that
signifies that your sexual wants and needs have become secondary, nay
inconsequential, so get used to it. The needs of the submissive male
are outweighed by the greater power of the Female Authority who now
demands and deserves all the pleasure, fulfillment, orgasms or
anything else She desires. Eventually the chaste male will begin to
realize that Her pleasure is your pleasure and therefore when given
selflessly your efforts to please Her have their own reward.
You will find as The Lady On Top grows in confidence She will
surprise you with Her demeanour and Her inventiveness though as She
is now driving this relationship your place is to now follow and
serve, not direct, so embrace your journey whatever it may bring. You
will discover parts of your body and mind you never believed possible
as together you tap this rich vein of life. In your chaste state one
of your driving goals will become not to disappoint The Lady and all
you have achieved under Her guidance.
When you do fail in any way you must be prepared to go through
torture and pain as penance; in fact you will crave it to prove your
worthiness as you will for any touch or caress, whip, cane and paddle
strike, rejoicing when you have colouring or marks to display proving
your worth. At the very least each punishment will likely fit the
crime so you should endure these with a view to making you a better
submissive.
In the same way your humiliation and embarrassment will
reinforce your inferior status in your mind and make the transition
to Owned property more complete. Any degradation you suffer at the
hands of the Higher Female Power before you will give you such a
thrill just to be in her presence.
Remember there is no greater calling than to be able to serve The
Goddess of your dreams, so given the chance take it with both hands
gladly behind your back.
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Thinking back years ago when I first submitted to my first chastity cage, I never knew my sweet Mistress wife would become the dominate controller if every orgasm I would ever have. I did not know either how infrequent or short lived my periods of release would be from my metal prison!
Thinking back years ago when I first submitted to my first chastity cage, I never knew my sweet Mistress wife would become the dominate controller if every orgasm I would ever have. I did not know either how infrequent or short lived my periods of release would be from my metal prison!