There are many mixed feelings about body hair on a man in a femdom relationship.  Like most things in a femdom relationship, each couple is unique and needs to define their own rules.

However, there is a psychology behind why people do it in this type of relationship and this article will try to explain it so that you can make your best mind up.

First off, from a visual perspective, what looks better to you?

Granted this may be an extreme, but I think that you would find that most dominant woman or even a vanilla woman would say that the picture on the right is much more likely to turn them on than the one on the left.

When women go and see male strippers they will see that 95% of them are completely shaven from the neck down.  Why?  Because it is visually more appealling.

But this is just the tip of the iceberg.

You see, there is a much bigger play in a femdom relationship when the woman demands their man to be completely shaved from the neck down.

Here are a few reasons why it is a good idea:

1. It is a further step to complete control over your mans appearance.  Get this one done, and he will be less likely to argue with other ideas you might have for him.
2. When a man has a shaved body, it causes a deep down introspection of himself, and if is body is not what it once was, or what he wants it to be, this is a kick in the ass to do something about it.  Especially if you tease and taunt him with pictures of muscular men with hot bodies with no hair, saying why cant you be more like him. This may sound mean, but you might be doing him a favour in finally getting his head back in the space of fixing his body which will make him and you both happier.
3. Having no body hair demasculates a man, and even if you are into a macho type man that is strong, you can still have it, but something about no body hair makes him more compassionate with the female sex.
4. He might be embarrassed when his friends ask him about it, and will fumble with excuses which may be fun for you.

Above all, the most important reason to do it, is because if you as the dominant wants it done, it needs to be done.  Period.

If you like your man with body hair, leave it, however, most woman when given a choice between a hot body without body hair, or with body hair, will choose the no body hair.

That means that maybe it is something inside of you that is scared about taking that step and forcing your man to do it.  Usually the female mind is its own worst enemy in new dominants, because they find asking their men to do uncomfortable things make them feel uncomfortable.

Step out of your comfort zone, and make your men do stuff that definitely makes them uncomfortable, and stretches your boundaries with control.  In order for you to become the full dominant woman he craves for so much, you will ultimately have to push him to do things that he doesn’t want to do.  That is the part that the submissive man craves so much.  You are fulfilling his needs by making him do things he doesn’t want to do.

Just make sure that what you make him do is in yours and his best interests.  After all, as the leader of the household, it is important to make decisions for the betterment of the family unit and your relationship, and not all about humiliation.

In the end like everything else, you need to look at your relationship and decide for yourself.